Sharing partners and bdsm

[Deleted Member]

As my partner and I have experienced threesomes sharing etc, I'm curious and interested to find out about how mixing bdsm slowly into our lives will affect our relationship dynamic. Ultimately I enjoy my partner enjoying and being enjoyed by others. My partner is intrigued about being a sub which she shows tendencies of. Our dynamic doesn't allow for the true d/s experience which is cool!! Although that doesn't mean I can't be dominant in many ways! Guess I'm just nervous about allowing her to submit herself partly or entirely to somebody else!! Maybe it's the unknown clouding my thoughts! HELLLP!

[Leisa]

As long as you have a concrete foundation of trust and honor then combined with open communication nothing is impossible. There are Doms out there who will accept and want exactly what you both are offering.

[Deleted Member]

Appreciate your reply :) its very early days at the moment and there's a lot of work to do and we may not ever get to the point where we're both fully comfortable to commit to anything. We are blessed to have a bond and foundations we have. I'm not the typical cuckold guy lol and I know how to and am equipped to please her completely and its very much mutual. I want some degree of involvement because this is all about us and as you said the right guy will be out there. Very much of the role a dom would have I feel burning within me! Like I so wish I could be that guy! zap her mind of the last 13years we have! I don't wanna feel separated from it all or feel like I'd be 'getting in the way u know?! It's just love tho ultimately and that if sharing ur partner doesn't matter to you at all in any way emotionally then let her go. I hope ppl can relate to this on any level. Much Love!

[ey****]

like a lot of things - any form of sharing and additional relationships brings challenges

if you're already doing threesomes and sharing that is a starting point.   Just as well as any new prospective partners knows you will always be her number 1 - and you might not want to interfere too much with what she consents with them; but it shouldn't have a negative effect on your relationship