Rules and Conracts

[Ch****]

I tend to have rules that are unique to the specific sub, I enjoy the uniqueness of my relationships.

I tend not to make up a contract as they them being outside what the law actually allows, they seem as good as a verbal agreement, not that I don't have the rules written down.

If you are in a dynamic with rules and or contracts, how are such things for you?

[Dustykat]

If I look to my past, the contracts that we had made up were good to a certain degree but ended changing with the relationship evolved but they were good guidelines not to cross. So I think they are very important to be drawn for precise people and their deference, we all have different kinks. It  is important to have a contract that is made for the people and there kinks and not a generic one.🍭🧚🏻‍♀️

[Sassi-3310]

I have a contract with my Dom which reflects our rules which of course are tailored to us. I think contracts are extremely important not only because they define the boundaries within the d/s dynamic but they also provide a sense of long term status between the two parties. I was so excited the day that me and my Dom signed a contract, it was euphoric! It’s a fantastic way for the sun to feel properly owned and it’s also an ongoing reference point for the relationship to make sure everyone stays on track. Knowing what you are signing up for is really important and I was definitely more relaxed and happy with things once we entered into a contract.