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BDSM ruined my relationship!

PhantomFlogger

By PhantomFlogger
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I think - yes, if it's the main focus. It's like loving fitness, and marrying a workout coach. Might not go well if the main thing you're with them for is their body and their knowledge, for both of you. One day they will not be hot and they will not be able to do any pull ups. You better be into them for their personality, mainly, cuz everything else falls away. If BDSM is your best or only way of connecting deeply, it might be really good to work on that and get to the root of why.

If you just want to have fun though, and aren't aiming for ltr, don't need to worry about any of this. Depends on what you're looking for, and the goals/expectations of your partner.
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