Du**** Posted November 9, 2021 Posted November 9, 2021 17 minutes ago, Div-5907 said: It happens to me often but no I don’t think there an idiot I treat them with respect and politely decline. Suppose it depends what you’ve got going on in your life and the levels of stress your used to it’s certainly not something I’m going to get all annoyed about No, there’s a difference. OP is advertising for and facilitating scenarios on behalf of others, for their pleasure and specification, using his years of expertise. Inappropriate applicants in that situation are beyond the normal level of annoyance of, say, random inadequate men fancying their chances in case they can maybe wet their dick a little bit.
ey**** Posted November 9, 2021 Posted November 9, 2021 I think also though - who says anyone was annoyed? I run a film production. I get a lot of unsuitable and speculative applications. Very few of them actually annoy me. The ones that do annoy me are those that demand they have an opportunity or chance. But, I do also get an awful lot of idiots - it would be actually dangerous for me to accept. I also get a lot of chancers. The kinda wannabes that is spoken of - those who (think they) want to film but don't want to do some of the basic ground work. Those who think they're "good looking" and think that being "good looking" is enough (especially boggling when they then ask for a mask?!) And sure you can kinda "thanks but no thanks" - but there's no real world where this is otherwise acceptable. If someone had a heart attack on a train and someone shouted "is anyone here a doctor?" then someone standing up and shouting, "No, I'm a builder" is going to have everyone thinking "Why the fuck did he stand up? He is not qualified. He is not appropriate. He is then distracting from everyone else" - what you really want is someone to either shout up that they are a doctor or a qualified first aider, or help find someone who is.
Deleted Member Posted November 9, 2021 Posted November 9, 2021 1 hour ago, DuchessFeuille said: No, there’s a difference. OP is advertising for and facilitating scenarios on behalf of others, for their pleasure and specification, using his years of expertise. Inappropriate applicants in that situation are beyond the normal level of annoyance of, say, random inadequate men fancying their chances in case they can maybe wet their dick a little bit. Not really any different from men messaging me when I’m straight 😂
Du**** Posted November 9, 2021 Posted November 9, 2021 14 minutes ago, Div-5907 said: Not really any different from men messaging me when I’m straight 😂 Yes it is. That may be annoying to you. The examples you’re being given are of a professional’s time being wasted. And as Eyem says, the OP is just sharing an anecdote. The issue is not how they’re dealt with.
SexxyMoeFoe Posted November 10, 2021 Posted November 10, 2021 This happens to me all the time, and it is very annoying BUT for me the ones who acknowledge they are wrong for the ad but replying anyway (for whatever reason) are less annoying - at least show that they read and understood the ask but have decided to take a shot anyway. It's bad but I kind of get it... It's the internet so I expect a level of "what's the worst that can happen / you never know until you try" replies. It's the ones who message you and don't understand why you aren't interested when it's clear they haven't even read the post or profile etc. OR the ones who reply and don't understand what you are looking for yet say they are perfect for you etc. THOSE are the ones that really annoy me. That's when I feel like they think I am an object or possession... that what I want means so little to them that they totally ignore it because they like my pics and want to hook up.
Deleted Member Posted November 10, 2021 Posted November 10, 2021 12 hours ago, SexxyMoeFoe said: This happens to me all the time, and it is very annoying BUT for me the ones who acknowledge they are wrong for the ad but replying anyway (for whatever reason) are less annoying - at least show that they read and understood the ask but have decided to take a shot anyway. It's bad but I kind of get it... It's the internet so I expect a level of "what's the worst that can happen / you never know until you try" replies. It's the ones who message you and don't understand why you aren't interested when it's clear they haven't even read the post or profile etc. OR the ones who reply and don't understand what you are looking for yet say they are perfect for you etc. THOSE are the ones that really annoy me. That's when I feel like they think I am an object or possession... that what I want means so little to them that they totally ignore it because they like my pics and want to hook up. Most of them are probably boys/scammers as well
DarkArts1066 Posted November 10, 2021 Author Posted November 10, 2021 Friday at 11:15 AM, Marcoo71 said: I do understand ur point BUT I don’t feel like this experience was enough to get triggered like that. A simple “Thank you for your offer but we are exclusively looking for a man of the age of 70+, sorry. Have a nice day/evening whatever” would have cut it, too. This isn’t the worst the internet has brought out in people, there is more yet to come lol! Just try to be polite about it and don’t let it bring you down/upset you. It was an offer, you rejected it, move on. The man’s still a Bozo for offering it 😂🤡 Cheers Marcoo71 - I understand your reply my friend - but when you get the volume of replies that I do sometimes, it’s more than simply frustrating. It becomes an embuggerance of epic proportions. In my day to day life, my job requires that I am calm, methodical, considered… even measured in my approach and actions, and I try to maintain my private life like that also, however there comes a point where I would like common sense to take over. I find it disrespectful when people chance their arm. God forbid it should happen to you, but if it ever does, you may well understand my comments better. Best wishes DarkArts.
DarkArts1066 Posted November 10, 2021 Author Posted November 10, 2021 Yesterday at 01:01 PM, DuchessFeuille said: No, there’s a difference. OP is advertising for and facilitating scenarios on behalf of others, for their pleasure and specification, using his years of expertise. Inappropriate applicants in that situation are beyond the normal level of annoyance of, say, random inadequate men fancying their chances in case they can maybe wet their dick a little bit. DuchessFeuille - Thank you for your comments, which are both eloquent and accurate.
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