Deleted Member Posted December 2, 2021 Posted December 2, 2021 I really want my throat to be fucked continuously, but I end up gagging/puking really easily and can’t seem to get past it. Any tips or tricks?
Deleted Member Posted December 3, 2021 Author Posted December 3, 2021 Currently training with this. Can't say I'm doing great, but I've improved 🤣 I got a rainbow dildo so I could measure my progress up the colours lol and also daily practice to get your body used to something there and calm the panic reaction. Friend gave me a tip to make a fist with one hand and dig nails into fleshy part below thumb - apparently a reflex to help control gagging. Precise makes perfect?
Pe**** Posted December 3, 2021 Posted December 3, 2021 The gag reflex is by and large a genetic disposition. One third of the population don’t have one, the rest are divided into those with a range of sensitivity. First thing to recognize is that you might be on the higher end of the spectrum of sensitivity. So dont ever think that there is something wrong with you. The gag reflex is there for a good reason. Second thing to recognize is that learning to suppress the gag reflex is both a mental exercise as it is a physical one. The mental component I won’t go into because everyone knows about it (relax relax relax). The physical component is more tricky because the only way to train to suppress the gag reflex is to forcibly break it. How? Well... this generally involves deliberately and repetitively activating the gag reflex over and over again (check up “violent throat fucks on pornhub). They point to note here is that doing whatever you’re doing until you gag once and then stopping won’t work. You’ve unfortunately got to keep activating it whilst it’s in the process. And then keep doing this on a regular basis. Unfortunately this process generally causes vomiting and considerable discomfort, but the end result will be that your gag reflex will eventually become dull to non existent.
Leisa Posted December 3, 2021 Posted December 3, 2021 I don’t have much of a gag reflex but what I was told before I ever tried to swallow one whole was to use a numbing spray to the back of the throat.
Mi**** Posted December 3, 2021 Posted December 3, 2021 Simply take it slow and learn to breath around it, that’s one of the reasons our body wants to panic, also try doing it while your giving yourself pleasure, it helps your body relax and also helps associate deep throating with pleasure
8b**** Posted December 3, 2021 Posted December 3, 2021 As stated by the others in this post, I have found that practice is indeed the answer. I did not even intend to "train" in this regard, but humourously, taking a COVID test twice a week has helped me relax my reflex. It is not gone, and ceasing to practise has made my reflex come back, so if you want to succeed, you are just going to have to do it frequently. It seems like that is something you will enjoy. Good luck.
DarkArts1066 Posted December 3, 2021 Posted December 3, 2021 The mammalian gag reflex is strong in humans - because it is there to basically prevent us from dying if something heads the wrong way down your throat. The good news is that it can be controlled - to a certain degree with training and practice. The key is to start slowly - and start small! Don’t be trying to *** that 12 inch dildo - or your well endowed Male friend past your tonsils at every opportunity. When you feel the reflex starting- hold whatever is in there in place, and possibly withdraw slightly. Then try again to take it deeper. A penis is a better option than a dildo. It is more flexible, softer (in texture) and has at least some ‘give’ in it. Artificial items do not. A word to the wise here. I would avoid using a numbing spray. You do not want to deaden the sensations…. You want to adjust and get used to them, so they can be controlled effectively. Time is your friend. Make sure you are relaxed - and, experiment with different positions. Quite by chance a friend and I discovered during a titfucking training session that if she lays on her back on a Chaisé Lounge, with her head overhanging the foot end slightly, and opens her mouth, she can take me more deeply there than if she tries any other position….. so experiment with that. Good luck, and please keep us informed of your progress….
Deleted Member Posted December 3, 2021 Author Posted December 3, 2021 Often being throat/face fucked is down to head position/angle. In a normal head position the mouth is at a right angle to the throat so when you are trying to deep throat the penis has to basically go round a corner, which is what can trigger a lot of people's gag reflex. If you image a piece of plastic pipe, if there's a right angle turn in the pipe the flow of water is going to meet resistance when it hits that angle in the piper with the water creating pressure at the back of the angle turn. However if you had a length of straight pipe the water flows freely through it with little resistance & it doesn't have to turn a corner - the same apples with with your mouth/throat, try to make as straight a line with your mouth & throat, i.e. put your head back as far as you can, such as lie on your back on the bed or a table with your head over the edge of the bed/table & create a straight line with your mouth & throat & you will find it much easier to be deep throated & then, if you keep following that principal of straight mouht & throat you will develop other positions where you can recreate a similar angle & be throat fucked without your gag reflex instantly kicking in from a bad mouth/throat angle
Mazzy Posted December 3, 2021 Posted December 3, 2021 This is something I am struggling with as well. I cannot take everything in and end up gagging/my tongue ends up blocking the way too. @BDSMkinkydom- from what you've said, is it better to have the other person standing? I am trying to do this for my Dom as he has mentioned it's something he enjoys, and I feel like I am letting him down slightly, though he would never *** me to.
Deleted Member Posted December 3, 2021 Author Posted December 3, 2021 1 minute ago, Mazzy said: This is something I am struggling with as well. I cannot take everything in and end up gagging/my tongue ends up blocking the way too. @BDSMkinkydom- from what you've said, is it better to have the other person standing? I am trying to do this for my Dom as he has mentioned it's something he enjoys, and I feel like I am letting him down slightly, though he would never *** me to. If you're dom is sitting or lying down it will naturally be harder for you to deep throat as most of the positions you yourself can be in to give the dick sucking, will create an angle with your mouth & throat, so I would suggest have your dom standing & try like I said with you lying/in a position that puts your head back & him standing - last week I was with someone for the first time & they complained there gag reflex stops them deep throating & I put her on her back on the table, head over the edge with me standing & deep throated her straight away with no resistance or gag reflex kicking in - start practicing in these easier positions that create the perfect angle for you & in time you will develop the technique to do it in other positions, working out ways to create that straighter mouth/throat angle. I would say start looking at face fucking porn & concentrate on the angle the "suckers" head is in, how they are trying to create a straighter line & how a lot the time the man is actually standing not sitting or lying in such videos
Deleted Member Posted December 3, 2021 Author Posted December 3, 2021 I want to say as well that anyone who isn't able to to deep throat/face fuck, at present, shouldn't feel like a failure or a disappointment. It's about technique & practice & as a comparison say you can drive but you can't do a hand brake turn. Without being taught the correct technique to do a hand brake turn & practicing them over & over the chances are you won't be able to do a technically sound handbrake turn & the same goes for sex/bdsm, if you're not taught effectively, then that's down to your partner/dom/instructor not showing you the correct technique & therfore, not being able to deep throat isn't your fault & it doesn't make you a failure & a sub shouldn't be made to feel its their fault & they are a failure, it's down to not having adequate training as opposed to lacking the ability to do it.
Deleted Member Posted December 3, 2021 Author Posted December 3, 2021 For me it is just a matter of breathing, getting into trans and surrendering myself to it. The more manic I feel, the worse it gets, the more I gag. If he is standing up, it is easier for you not to puke since you do not bend forwards with your head. I also lay on my back with my head slightly backwards across the edge. That way it slides in really easy but I am not sure that will help you. Keep in mind that the mind just fks you as well. The more you want it, the more it does not work, the more it will be an issue. So what, you cannot do it long, just follow your own pace. Try to build it up slowly….but coach yourself to it ow and for me DT is better nit after a heave meal 😉
Hungfun-1134 Posted December 4, 2021 Posted December 4, 2021 On you your knees with your hands behind your back and trapped by sitting on them. Now head against the wall and open wide
Dentist Posted December 4, 2021 Posted December 4, 2021 Hey has anyone in here got a mouth or teeth fetish?
Yo**** Posted December 4, 2021 Posted December 4, 2021 They make sprays that numb the throat so gagging is less likely
Kingdong1987 Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 Squeeze between your thumb and index finger pretty hard with your other hand and watch the difference
Br**** Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 I’m sorry to contradict YourFangtasy although can understand the recommendation and how it is intended to be helpful x Try to avoid numbing sprays because it is possible for your throat to be damaged by throat fucking, including grazing the lining of your throat or the structures that need to coordinate in swallowing - so it is vitally important that you can feel what is going on, as well as being able to alert to your Dominant if you are in ***. Practice with a dildo regularly, starting off slow and just getting used to the sensation as well as knowing you are in control and (initially) can still breathe thru your nose, then work towards increasing depth gradually. Use silicone rather than pvc, as it is better to have a material which is a little more flexible and slightly compressible. This will start to reduce the sensitivity of your gag reflex. Good luck x
Hungfun-1134 Posted December 11, 2021 Posted December 11, 2021 Problem is only perfect practice makes perfect so swallow whatever you have to swallow just keep it real and make every gag your best friend cause you’ll be one step closer to controlling your gag reflex. I hope evolution doesn’t make it eventually exciting as i actually like having someone gag relentlessly from time.
Themachinist77 Posted December 15, 2021 Posted December 15, 2021 Try this. My ex had a gag reflex. But she loved being throat fucked. So I'd have her on knees against a door jamb. And rather than deepthroat her. I'd stand further back. Using the door jamb as a brace. And I'd just face fuck her before her gag reflex.
Themachinist77 Posted December 15, 2021 Posted December 15, 2021 And have your partner use his hips for the humpinf motion rather than stiff back and he's rocking his entire body. Feet planted. Knees bent. And just use hips to fuck your face.
Deleted Member Posted January 16, 2022 Author Posted January 16, 2022 I think the training itself is fun too. I wish someone would tell me to stick a dildo to the wall and exercise on it every day for.. I don't know.. 15 minutes?
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