Am I even a little??

[Deleted Member]

I had a great conversation with a Daddy last night. 🥰 hearing him speak about his love for his littles made me crave that connection.

I love the idea of being with a Daddy, but I don’t feel like I fit in as a little 😟 I wanna be with my Daddy, but I don’t feel comfortable with age regression.

Am I even a little???

[Ar****]

Sometimes people get too tied up with labels and boxes, and it can lead to a lot of confusion.

You don't have to be a "little" - if we are talking about regression - to be with a Daddy, particularly a Daddy Dom. Many partners of Daddys and DDs identify as "middles" and plenty more simply as other non-age specific titles such as brat or babygirl (without it having an age connotation).

All that truly matters is the connection and dynamic between you and whomever you choose to be with. Between you, you'll find out for yourselves what names and titles feel right for you. Good luck.

[Go****]

Your Little is exactly that; yours. There is no set of rules that says you have to check off certain boxes in order to identify as such.
Not all Littles/Middles etc regress, and that doesn't make them any less of the type of person they identify as.

For example, I identify as a babygirl with Little/ Middle tendencies. I don't age regress, in that I don't baby talk, use pacis, nappies or some of the other commonly thought of associations, however I do still do others.

Just as being Little is fluid for everyone, so is being a Daddy, or Dom, or any other role.

It is about the connection, rather than the label, and the right Daddy for you will see and accept you for the way you are, rather than simply your 'label'.

You can be whatever you want to be, and as long as you are comfortable and happy with that, you will find the right person for you.