Deleted Member Posted January 8, 2022 Posted January 8, 2022 "Paraphilia is a psychiatric diagnosis defined as a condition characterised by abnormal sexual desires, typically involving extreme or dangerous activities" I'm curious to know if anyone here has a paraphilia, like attraction to criminals, for example. Please share your paraphilias if you're comfortable to do so.
BeguiledByTheSerpent Posted January 9, 2022 Posted January 9, 2022 Yeah I learned that today watching a serial *** show
DrMyrna Posted January 9, 2022 Posted January 9, 2022 I guess straitjackets woukd fall under that category then
Mg**** Posted January 9, 2022 Posted January 9, 2022 My ex was like that.. It's damn hard to go back in my memory the emotional *** and suffering she put me through had s traumatized
Mg**** Posted January 9, 2022 Posted January 9, 2022 (Oops hit send to soon I don't see a edit option) Most of all the kids where traumatized by her actions.... It's a long story and not a happy ending one
Deleted Member Posted January 9, 2022 Author Posted January 9, 2022 Paraphilia is a lot different from being attracted to criminals/bad guys. Paraphilia is considered an emotional disorder where pleasure is derived from sexual fantasies & urges, of a reccurant & often compulsive & intense nature, some of which are behaviours ***d on others like ***ping Tom/flashing/touching/rapists, through to *** but also things like sadomachochism are considered paraphilia.
Mg**** Posted January 9, 2022 Posted January 9, 2022 I'm not talking about a bad boy type... She was actually active planning on stealing the saving I had set aside for the kids education and using sites where you could search for "penpals" like "meet an inmate" She already had once shown before that it was not just a bad boy issue.... The first time she displayed her "illness" with a guy that turned out a criminal with a addiction and she actually had him and and a friend come to my house and claiming she didn't know he was coming but clearly this was a lie.... She wanted me out of my house....little detail.....the kids where then. 5-7 years old and they where in the shower..... After they ***d themself into the house... I ran to the shower and grabbed 2 towels and took them to our neighbors house... Only wearing a towel but at least they where out of harms way and I ran back while I called 112(our emergency number) and when I came back the 2 guys where still there and telling me I had to leave the house because she didn't like me in the house... Now my ex good in telling lies but I live in Europe and not the USA but we where not married and this
Mg**** Posted January 9, 2022 Posted January 9, 2022 Ment when the police came they ran like chickens.... Ow BTW while this was going on she never once looked, asked, worried about her kids(1 of mine) But that's enough talk about it... If you don't have kids and meet someone with this issue that is beyond normal "a bad boy cheater" I stayed because of the kids after she got dumped she came back (kids where still with me.... And no not once asking about them.... End part from the first postv(I hate typing on mobile phone. Never married, seperated account, savings for education on my account, kids where 13+, mail from meet an inmate delivered at the wrong house, they opened it and read it, put letter in mailbox, our oldest read it came running to me with it.... And I found out what she was planning... I packed up my and the kids stuff when she got home I handed the letter over and said I'm leaving and the kids too.... She said OK I just want the dog.... Good trade in this case. I got a new home with the kids and I haven't heard much of her after it.. Bla bla Kids doing good... World is going mad... And I'm looking for a nice lady to spank me or her. 😉
Deleted Member Posted January 9, 2022 Author Posted January 9, 2022 8 hours ago, BDSMkinkydom said: Paraphilia is a lot different from being attracted to criminals/bad guys. Â Actually attraction to criminals is considered a paraphilia too. Â
Deleted Member Posted January 9, 2022 Author Posted January 9, 2022 I have one to *** to being made afriad also called risk play knives guns fire fluids that can be turned into fire
MissTakenDeep Posted January 16, 2022 Posted January 16, 2022 Yes. I put myself into a lot of dangerous situations when I was younger because of this. Attraction to criminals is part of the disorder as others have stated but I’d agree with BDSMkinkydom in that it’s compulsive & fantastical and often derived from a variety of situations that could be dangerous and ***d like the ones described above. I’ve found in years of therapy, self analysis and trial/error with trusted partners, elements of cnc can fulfil this need.
Deleted Member Posted January 20, 2022 Author Posted January 20, 2022 From a young age I was diagnosed with the paraphilia of transvestic fetishism. I've tried stopping it on occasion but was futile, just came to terms with it and am now able to accept myself for me. Still can't really talk to anyone about it. Maybe slightly ashamed of it. Or worried what other people might think of it. But at the end of the day. It only makes up a small portion of who I am. And what I do in my own bedroom to myself, stays that way. Until I meet a mistress who can accept my kinks. And help me to flourish my kinks. 😉
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