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Subs: What are you looking for in a dom?


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To be used for her pleasure/entertainment
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One word, LISTEN.
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A soft Dom, reassurance & praise especially during play and punishment.
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Everyone's qualities they seek will be different. No one person is gonna have the sane exact needs as the next. For example, I need a dom/me that has good listening and comfort skills, who will consider me as a person first before a sub at their feet and who will always take my emotions into accountability/ask for consent before everything even if we have already discussed it before. Its always good to double check before having a scene and color light throughout the scene
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For me it is someone to truly objectify me treat me as an object for use and forget my humanity beyond keeping me alive for use
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My daddy Dom has to be gentle with his little boy. This is want for me and it's so awesome I'm finally comfortable talking about it and seeking it. Until s few days ago It wasn't a thing and now I really want to find a good daddy Dom and I b his dirty little boy
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Someone who can show enough power and control that it makes me realize they could do anything they wanted, yet shows enough control that I can see the trust needed to let them do that
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Embarrass me. Find out my ***s and make them come true, make me enjoy them and then embarrass me from it tell your friends. Have me admitted to them. Make me masturbate every time I turn red or make me let an x f**k my a** every time I get embarrassed from some you made me do. But never lose that kind of control

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A strict daddy thatā€™s doesnā€™t take shit from me or anyone else puts me in my place and has total control over my mind and body
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The first thing I'd look for is a Dom who knows how to address themselves, with a capital "D"
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A Daddy Dom. I'm a little and it's something I want to explore. It's important to me that he understands and fulfills my needs and I do the same for him.
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Strick, strong, & sexy Mistress that has a processor plan for what's coming next.
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April 2, DuckArtist said:
Too many players here looking for easy ride with naive women who lack self respect. These players wanting your body only are just a control freaks , immature ***ages who never matured into grown up man. ..unfortunately these real men are rare, and hard to snap but they exist. Obviously not on here on sites like that.

I don't think that is the full truth, but it may be your truth from your experience here. I have met and had conversations with genuine doms on here, although you do have to weed through all the pretend ones to get to them. Just because we did not match, does not diminish what they are, or make them fake. They are honest, kind and respectful.

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Straight pnp FFM. Iā€™m the only M. If you and your fiancĆ© want stay fiancĆ©s I suggest not opening your relationship. Speaking from experience
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I don't seek perfection; but I seek a Dom who knows what they're doing.
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And a Dom who is genuinely interested in me as a human. An educated man who talks with other Doms, and who is interested in guiding a sexual submissive to being her best with him. And someone who is clean- beard trimmed, freshly showered, teeth brushed, etc. A guy who doesn't trim his nails personally gives me the creeps
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I like my dom to have no mercy to treat me like an object blind fold me put a ring large ring gag in my mouth and tie me up exposed leave me there for hours regardless of my comfort share me with friends sell my holes never waking me up in the morning with cock in my throat still blindfolded and bound where I was when you left me unaware of time. I enjoy this treatment I enjoy captivity
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My Dominatrix to be selfish insist on total control tie me up f**k me invite her friends to enjoy me lick her holes and her friends for her to command me
She is superior.

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I am looking for that someone that want the same thing I want they may not say it how much can you pay I say you think I could get credit and they say you'll need to get a gift card I say how much for 2 hours cause 1 hour is not enough I tell them what if I throw in foreplay will I get a discount then I can have you paid off in a month šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜›šŸ˜†
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You would take that chance I let this woman I just met tie me up I couldn't get in to it after sex she was walking around the house smoking a cigarette and I told her to untie me oh I will in a few minutes so I find finely got less the sh*t that was going through my head what the hell is she up to I didn't stick around to find out it probably would have been a self defense issue so watch out you never know don't let your fantasies run away with you.

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June 6, SubPetite said:

I don't think that is the full truth, but it may be your truth from your experience here. I have met and had conversations with genuine doms on here, although you do have to weed through all the pretend ones to get to them. Just because we did not match, does not diminish what they are, or make them fake. They are honest, kind and respectful.

Second this. Some people focus a lot on the negatives of their experience. Some attract the wrong kinda people, and could try looking at themselves as to why. There are great guys, great doms around. Plenty of great women, great subs. You gotta wade through a bunch of frogs to get to the good guys and girls - 101 in dating, relationships.

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I am new to all of this
But I did enjoy being controlled in the bedroom. I am a pretty independent woman but during that time I want to be dominant with respect. I will try anything new and I do like aggression and the occasional dirty talk. Talk shit to me but I don't want to be degraded where I would feel less than afterwards. But most of all. I want to feel comfortable with my Dom and talk about what we both want. I get off on pleasing my partner so good communication between us can equal hella good times in the bedroom.
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Second this. Some people focus a lot on the negatives of their experience. Some attract the wrong kinda people, and could try looking at themselves as to why. There are great guys, great doms around. Plenty of great women, great subs. You gotta wade through a bunch of frogs to get to the good guys and girls - 101 in dating, relationships.
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