Bratty Subs

[Deleted Member]

@NnevinN is right. As a sub brat myself that drives me crazy I'll eventually give in😩

[Sw****]

I'm a brat and don't usually give in. I can go days, weeks or months without giving in. Vice versa when I'm the D and she's just as stubborn as i am and doesn't give in. However, it's a huge turn on to be so stubborn. But remember that the brat will give in if given the right circumstances. I gave in recently when i was tied up and not let up off the bed until I told her i gave in. I knew i had to get back to work and time was running out. She also knew i needed to get back to work. Maybe try using a situation in which you know they have to be out the door by a certain time? Otherwise it's fine to wait it out, it's fun.

[Deleted Member]

I just want to say thank you to everyone with the great advice and help! Just reading your comments has helped me get closer to becoming the Sub I want to be. Some of the comments though were pretty hardcore and cheers to those of you who are into that! I’m so very thankful I came across this app when I did and that I had the courage to set my nerves aside and ask you all about it. I couldn’t be happier with what I feel is our Community

[Ti****]

March 3, Perfectly_Imperfect said:

BDSM brats are typically, female submissives who enjoy being disobedient, cheeky or downright mischievous. They like to push boundaries just for fun and it is fun for them, for the wrong Dom not so much.

Here’s the thing though, there’s always an exception in kink. While most brats are female submissives, that’s not true 100% of the time. Brats can be any gender and identify as any archetype.
(Note: For sake of ease, I will refer to brats as “subs”, but brats do identify as every role in chains or with the key)

They’re usually playful and fun when misbehaving, although they can go off the rails too. More often than not, brats let out that side in order to get a reaction from their Dom/Caregiver. Acting out is usually a cry for attention because most brats are exhibitionists and when they don’t get the desired reaction from subtle hints, they’ll push harder and act out wilder.

A brat doesn’t want to win. They want to wrestle.... that’s why they brat. They’re not looking to overpower their Dom, they’re looking to challenge them. A brat wants to end up on their knees, eventually. They just don’t want to drop there willingly, they want to be made to kneel for their D-type. A brat wants to feel that dominance and be overcome by it. They want to poke, *** and tease until enough is enough and they’re on their stomach getting the spanking they richly deserve and want more than anything else.

Now, contrary to belief a brat is not a poorly behaved sub. In fact, brats frequently invite their Dom to push them further into subspace. Often, they’ll incite some form of funishment. Unlike punishments, funishments are meant to... well, literally add some fun to punishments. Funishments are doled out when there’s humor in the bad behaviour, while on the other hand, punishments lay down the law when a sub takes things too far. Brattiness stems from silliness and humor, which is why they often receive funishments. On the flip side, badly behaved subs aren’t respectful and will lash out at anyone. They’ll do it without humour and often make it awkward for those around them. In these circumstances they will earn real punishments. A Dom should know their sub well enough to tell the difference in the two behaviours. There will be times when a brat will seemingly act more like a “badly behaved sub” but most times it stems from a problem or life issue and is being channeled as brattiness. Knowing your partner and understanding the difference between being a brat and lashing out emotionally via their bratty side is incredibly important.

Many brats are brats their entire lives. However, occasionally a bratty streak can pop up for a short period of time, only to disappear forever. In kink we are forever evolving and experimenting. A bratty submissive is still a submissive, they just have a different language of submission than some and need a Dom willing to play their games.
Just remember it’s a game they want to lose but they’re going to make you earn that victory and will always be testing you to see if you have what it takes to win.

This is my interpretation of a brat…. And I am one haha

I think thats a beautiful way of explaining us☺️

[Mx****]

I'm the odd Dom that enjoys when their brat brats. That's play for me- the snark back and forth, getting into mischief, and the fun "correction" after. With that said, there's a time and place, and we negotiate that before an event, or scene, especially if there is safety involved.

[Mx****]

1 minute ago, MxDami said:

I'm the odd Dom that enjoys when their brat brats. That's play for me- the snark back and forth, getting into mischief, and the fun "correction" after. With that said, there's a time and place, and we negotiate that before an event, or scene, especially if there is safety involved.

Also, I get called a Brat Daddy- I am usually the instigator passing out nerf guns... I just keep the modded one for me. ;)

[Deleted Member]

March 3, Perfectly_Imperfect said:

BDSM brats are typically, female submissives who enjoy being disobedient, cheeky or downright mischievous. They like to push boundaries just for fun and it is fun for them, for the wrong Dom not so much.

Here’s the thing though, there’s always an exception in kink. While most brats are female submissives, that’s not true 100% of the time. Brats can be any gender and identify as any archetype.
(Note: For sake of ease, I will refer to brats as “subs”, but brats do identify as every role in chains or with the key)

They’re usually playful and fun when misbehaving, although they can go off the rails too. More often than not, brats let out that side in order to get a reaction from their Dom/Caregiver. Acting out is usually a cry for attention because most brats are exhibitionists and when they don’t get the desired reaction from subtle hints, they’ll push harder and act out wilder.

A brat doesn’t want to win. They want to wrestle.... that’s why they brat. They’re not looking to overpower their Dom, they’re looking to challenge them. A brat wants to end up on their knees, eventually. They just don’t want to drop there willingly, they want to be made to kneel for their D-type. A brat wants to feel that dominance and be overcome by it. They want to poke, *** and tease until enough is enough and they’re on their stomach getting the spanking they richly deserve and want more than anything else.

Now, contrary to belief a brat is not a poorly behaved sub. In fact, brats frequently invite their Dom to push them further into subspace. Often, they’ll incite some form of funishment. Unlike punishments, funishments are meant to... well, literally add some fun to punishments. Funishments are doled out when there’s humor in the bad behaviour, while on the other hand, punishments lay down the law when a sub takes things too far. Brattiness stems from silliness and humor, which is why they often receive funishments. On the flip side, badly behaved subs aren’t respectful and will lash out at anyone. They’ll do it without humour and often make it awkward for those around them. In these circumstances they will earn real punishments. A Dom should know their sub well enough to tell the difference in the two behaviours. There will be times when a brat will seemingly act more like a “badly behaved sub” but most times it stems from a problem or life issue and is being channeled as brattiness. Knowing your partner and understanding the difference between being a brat and lashing out emotionally via their bratty side is incredibly important.

Many brats are brats their entire lives. However, occasionally a bratty streak can pop up for a short period of time, only to disappear forever. In kink we are forever evolving and experimenting. A bratty submissive is still a submissive, they just have a different language of submission than some and need a Dom willing to play their games.
Just remember it’s a game they want to lose but they’re going to make you earn that victory and will always be testing you to see if you have what it takes to win.

This is my interpretation of a brat…. And I am one haha

THIS!!!!!!!!

[Ed****]

Part of the fun is having that playful resistance and defiance tho can be very satisfying for both when they are too subby to brat :) that said encountered a few subs before who believed being a brat was being defiant all the time.. just no.

[Du****]

We r bratting cos we r playful and we dont take things too seriously. Its good to have a sense of humour.

[Deleted Member]

Dependant on consent and limits, slap her until she gives in