Romantic Dom

[Re****]

I’m definitely quite sentimental, but I feel like there is a natural conflict between these states of romanticism and domination.. one is about lowering boundaries and being consumed in all-encompassing love.. the other is about power exchange and shifting responsibility…. I get very attached to my subs and it pleases me to fulfill their needs.. I am kind and considerate.. but I desire to be mean; sadistic… I have needs that outweigh the wants of the sub.. and there is the bifurcation for me; hierarchies… D/s has hierarchy; romanticism is about removing that.. I don’t deny there is overlap; indeed that Venn diagram is where I often find myself….

[po****]

As a person who is aromantic, these gestures literally go over my head as a sub/partner. My brain can’t make the chemicals that are triggered by romantic gestures, so I don’t feel anything from them. I learnt quickly that love and romance are two seperate emotions because of this incapacity. I also feel being a romantic is more part of a personality trait then a headspace experience but can see where it would overlap for someone who might be a soft dom.

[Ow****]

If she’s a bondage loving masochist then why wouldn’t I want to rock her world in the bedroom? As a sadomasochist I understand the particular release and high that comes from ‘play’. Giving her what she craves is an act of romance in itself.
I’ll see your 50 shades, and raise you the loving relationship of Secretary

[ol****]

I think kink is a broad church. Anything that is not vanilla is kinky.

So a Dom can be romantic or soft or high protocol or a daddy or whatever.

What's important is the dynamic between two ( or more ) people.

[x-****]

Sensual Dom ♥️

[do****]

I hate degrading my subs. I'm far more into praising them as a lot the scene involves hard work and persistence.

Outside the bedroom I love to spoil them and show them off. Been told I'm a soft dom as a result but I don't care. I'm hard when I need to be and loving and kind because that's just my preference.

Also aftercare is hot

[bl****]

I consider my self as a romantic dom.

[la****]

I agree and consider myself to be a romantic dom. Very sensitive and considerate outside of the bedroom, but sadist/hunter in the bedroom. It’s fun to move across the spectrum and have flexibility in the role.

[be****]

I’m chill fun and black

[be****]

But I’ll also My name is Dom so it comes natuu

[Dr****]

Nothing wrong with being multiple Dom types or sub types etc.

I am part Daddy Dom, part Service Dom and part Sadist/Control/Rigger Dom in my current relationship. In the past I have had relations that was strictly M/s, and relationships that was strictly D/s.

But in the majority of my relationships there is a romantic component to it. Even in the M/s or D/s relationships you provide aftercare, and enjoy giving my partner pleasure in whatever way we agreed to do.

All power exchange relationships have a flow of give and take, service and receiving to them.

For example in the helicopter scene you see them taking control from the moment she walks out of work, and personally when he sees her. But doing so in service of his and her needs.

[Deleted Member]

Wish there was 1 and a many variations of things. Maybe there should be a poll done bout this n then make the majority of them into categories n subcategories too

[Sl****]

Let's be clear. Sub or not, women will be women. Meaning, they will always hope to find a chameleon, who can instantly transform into what they need at any particular time, which should be accurately guessed rather than communicated in the moment. If you need a new category, create one called "Fictitious characters", so Santa, superman and snow-white can tag their accounts to...

[Du****]

I am creative so i like a softer , romantic side in Dom sometimes.

[Aq****]

Me ☝️

[an****]

I would like to think of myself as a romantic do.

[Deleted Member]

Promises promises

[bl****]

New to the conversation. But would that not fall into a dating relationship with kink versus a dynamic?

[Fu****]

Yes. I am caring considerate and very kinky and dom.

[NV****]

Yes,
That's why it's so hard to find an FLR for me. My dom needs to be capable of loving her sub.

[No****]

I tottaly agree. Im a dome but very getnle and romantic and looking for such a sub

[sw****]

Ughhhh romantic domssssss <3333

[Deleted Member]

Yes totally agree with ya