What are the common misconceptions of this lifestyle you get asked about?

[sa****]

That I’m mentally sick in the head

[Deleted Member]

Sometimes people seem to think that it’s a coping mechanism for some trauma or that it means that you’re damaged. They don’t seem to realize that it’s just something you enjoy and they don’t. This should get the same response as not understanding how someone loves a sport that you hate.

[pu****]

Mine is that i like to f**k dogs or ***s in general when that could not be farther from the truth...🐶

[Go****]

All submissive will be submissive instantly to anyone who says their Dom

If you say no to someone then you are not submissive or is you don’t give instant honourifics or send 🐱 pics you will never be submissive.

And on the opposite end of the spectrum someone decides they are Dom or Master then they are because they like the title (speaking of wannabe and fakedoms, obviously there are naturally D guys out there, I do know a few).

[Du****]

Men should wake up and stop call subs a fake subs just because she has a borders or limits or just not being into him. All women are tired from hearing this. There is NO fake sub only shitty dom.:)

[Pl****]

The thing that I have found is that people come from all sorts of different backgrounds. The idea that someone with experience has to be old or that some old is experienced are two mentality’s that I have to shake my head at. Also the idea that there are specific gender roles that belong to specific jobs. 

[Ho****]

People assume you're willing to hookup with anyone with no effort on their part whatsoever.

Men assuming you're just going to call them "daddy" because that's what they're all about, but they don't give a shit what you're all about 🙄

[bl****]

These are all very good responses. Some of these things I have faced as well. But I have learned and grow from them. Definitely enjoy the conversation. I also believe there should be more education in regard to the lifestyle for people just coming in.

[Du****]

People think subs are stupid, weak, dependant on someone, and therefore easily manipulated. They see she puts herself in *** position, which attracts men who suffer with self- delusion. If she does not buy the crap he say ' you are not a real sub then!' Cos it does not corespond with his prejudices about subs as a weak women.