Spanking Dom/mes...

[UK****]

Is it correct that a reciprocal spank will remove any filter that may be in place?  I assume this only because  I see a number of people posting that on profiles and can't understand why they wouldn't just message?

[Deleted Member]

I think its funny to send spanks to Doms. I love to be cheeky and think they re spanking hands twitching , and they cant do anything about it.
🤣
Thats behind my phonescreen....of course😄😁😳

[Ky****]

2 hours ago, Willow75 said:

Hit and leg it totally agree 🤣🤣🤣

not sure, if you are not a paid member then you can only send 1 message per day to someone u haven't already talked to, so I often spank to paid members, who are the only ones can see them, in the hope that they will message me, particularly if I've used my 1 new message for that day, when I'm upgraded I'll message

[Deleted Member]

As a Dom, I do not see spanking as a negative thing.

The way I see it, spanking is a meant to be Fet’s polite way of saying “I like the look of you.” without having to message them directly or if you can’t. Like swiping right. Or as an appreciation of their profile.

When it’s mutual it clearly displays a feeling of consent to chat. Why else does that person show as a “Match” when you do. Also we mustn’t forget that Quick Kink is a thing and uses spanks.

Sometimes liking a photo doesn’t mean that person wants to engage with you - they’re just appreciating a photo. Spanking is much more a “Hello”.

I agree that spanking is perhaps the worst way to word it. Wink would be a better word to rename it to - it’s more consensual without literally naming it consent.

To answer previous statements, from my experience, a mutual spanking with circumvent message filters and that’s why you may see it but not have a follow up message until both parties have spanked and become a match.

[Deleted Member]

Its a fun feature. On other apps it could be a "wink". The implied breach of etiquette when a sub sends a spank to a Dom is just hilarious. Its a virtual spank and as @Flossie11quite rightly says "it's funny to do it". She likes to be cheeky and that is the spirit of the afore mentioned spank. Its not a psychology thesis debate ;-)

[Deleted Member]

22 hours ago, Dominant29 said:

Depends if you like the punishment
You spank me and oh you will regret it but love it 😏 that’s a promise

You can't possibly post a comment like that and expect no response... 

[Nylon-Nellie]

Erm nope, haha.

[RAMB]

You got it and hit the nail right on the head hahaha