What Turnt You Into A Deviant?

[Bl****]

What was the sexual encounter that pushed you over the edge into the world of kink?
for me it was when I was getting oral and she accidentally was going to crazy and gagged,
ended up throwing up on my dick and then licked it off and kept going 🤤🥹 I knew then that I was in heaven

[Lord_Talion]

I started with an art project, looking for nude models

[ge****]

Always have been going back to my formative years of sexual exploration, and can certainly trace it to certain incidents before that - some good/some bad - so is fairly innate for me

[Deleted Member]

I knew at puberty something was off, as the things that seemed to interest my mates did nothing for me at all. It just took many years of confusion to work it all out.

[Deleted Member]

For many I think the story is very similar. One of suppressed sexuality and unhappiness as one grapples with darker sexual cravings, mixed with confusion and *** of who one really is as we try to fit into the mould of what society tells us we should be.

[Kinkykong]

When my ex wife was giving me oral and all the sudden she started rubbing my asshole. N then shortly after started to rim me. And rim me so good. But then...but then gently pushed a Lil powerful vibrator up n into my ass. At that moment I knew I was a super freak!

[DeviantInside]

For me personally being Dominant is a fairly innate part of who I am. I'm not loud or aggressive, but never need to raise my voice if I want to be heard, and have always gravitated towards or found myself in leadership or authoritative roles, for whatever reason. There certainly could be elements of liking to be in control generaly that bleed over into kink.

On the sexual side though it's particularly hard to disambiguate when it began. Even my earliest dreams that I can remember from early childhood involved things like women tied naked... so who knows where that came from (whichc isn't to say those were my only dreams, just the ealiest one I can remember and another in particular). Plus the first porn I ever watched (stolen from my older brother was l'Histoire d'O.

Then from early ***s I was an insomniac so would sneak downstairs to go online... where I discovered a whole new world to explore (places like yahoo groups, the slave register/informed consent, both of which now defunct). Spent a long time reading and learning, and introducing elements into initially vanilla relationships before being introduced to the London scene and getting to know people there. As a good friend once put it... that was like coming home. A feeling of belonging. And have never looked back.

[sexwith-aghost13]

As a minor online you see a lot of things and random bdsm posts started to pop up on my instagram and people who were into kink decided to message me. Of course, I did not purposefully get involved at that age, I just educated myself slightly and then didn't allow myself to be involved till I turned 18. My first ever vanilla/kinkyish thing that happened to me was choking and spanking, that is the farthest I've explored so far !

[Deleted Member]

Nothing, I always was. From the very beginning power exchange and bondage always fascinated me even if I didn't understand sex.  I think part of it is probably genetic. I never had any internal guilt about it or felt it was morally wrong assuming the woman is consenting. But I'm pretty religiously committed to exclusivity and I won't engage in any type of kink or sexual behavior outside of a relationship.

[Dustykat]

What this is not normal sex, I always was a deviate. Can't do vanilla too boring 🧚‍♀️