Can you help me ?

[Mi****]

  34 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I think it's interesting there are a fair few comments from people who started casual that introduced BDSM gradually - that is often a big way of getting into the lifestyle

though, most people who say they are serious rarely make actions to back themselves up - get involved in your local community, for example 

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Totally agree

[ci****]

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[Cu****]

i found talking about bdsm with vanilla girls have become  - im out a here - poff gone your a f pedo if like diapers and abdl ageplay.

even pictures of ageplay things banned on this page !

so this page very vanilla in general as block parts of bdsm community.

[ey****]

  3 hours ago, CuddleDL said:

even pictures of ageplay things banned on this page !

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are you sure?  I've double checked the rules and it's no *** (duh) or ***'s toys (I know this is something comes from card providers)

but every single one of your current pictures is against the site rules (must've slipped the net) as they've text overlay on them which is not permitted.   So if you uploaded something which had text on it, that'll be why it got rejected or subsequently removed. 

[Mi****]

I have trouble finding those who truly want to be dominated. In an erotic way of course!

[Cu****]

  2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

are you sure?  I've double checked the rules and it's no *** (duh) or ***'s toys (I know this is something comes from card providers)

but every single one of your current pictures is against the site rules (must've slipped the net) as they've text overlay on them which is not permitted.   So if you uploaded something which had text on it, that'll be why it got rejected or subsequently removed. 

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this page remove / block pictures of ageplay, post a picture if you dont belive me

Edited May 11, 2022 by CuddleDL
wrong page as all called FET....

[Cu****]

  13 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I think it's interesting there are a fair few comments from people who started casual that introduced BDSM gradually - that is often a big way of getting into the lifestyle

though, most people who say they are serious rarely make actions to back themselves up - get involved in your local community, for example 

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mostly lonely people on pages like this, if in a relation one happy with why be on a page like this

[ey****]

  1 hour ago, CuddleDL said:

mostly lonely people on pages like this, if in a relation one happy with why be on a page like this

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So, there's a lot of people on here for different reasons.  As well as single people hoping to find a connection, there are those who in a relationship but looking for additional ones through any strain of non-mono (whether it's poly, play partners, cheating, whatever) and then there are those, in a relationship or not, who join sites like this as an extension to community, to broaden knowledge to learn with ***rs.

Amongst all of this is people with mixed experiences, interests, backgrounds, etc.  

There are also, unfortunately, those who are fantasists, unrealistic, unreasonable and somewhat lazy.  Irrespective of role or gender.   

If someone is serious about living the lifestyle, about kink, etc. then there's a lot of stuff they can do that is on them.  What they shouldn't rely on is hoping they can meet someone who is going to handhold them.  Because that is pushing all the labour onto someone else.  

Obviously there is sometimes this happens and works - but it has so many flaws.

Someone who is serious does not write "I am serious about the lifestyle, why will no one give me a chance?" because if they were genuinely serious they'd probably know that answer.    

 

[44****]

I would love to live this lifestyles all the Time to but like you I have difficulty finding others to take it seriously and share

[Ma****]

How long have you been looking?

[FETMOD-KF]

  23 hours ago, CuddleDL said:

this page remove / block pictures of ageplay, post a picture if you dont belive me

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Hi

I've just double checked with our support team and...

AgePlay pictures are perfectly fine.   Pictures of ***s toys or not.  Your pictures were removed as they contained text overlay which is not permitted.

If you upload any others and they get removed and you're unsure why  - you can reach out to support using 'help' below. 

[Ni****]

Right here can't find a couple same as us or a female interested in my man and I both .lol... it's rough and when I think I've found a couple that like to swing they fall through

[Ba****]

I'm right there with ya. I've been searching for a Dom for the past yr. No luck.

[sp****]

Go to a local munch and meet people

[re****]

Same here having a hard time in my area

[sp****]

  1 hour ago, reading138 said:

Same here having a hard time in my area

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Check for local events on fetlife

[Ma****]

Never looked for it

[Ch****]

For some people munches and events are not an option so dating sites are the only way x

[Cu****]

If I post a picture i DEMAND to be able to post my alias on them as some download them and re-post pictures on instagram ! and similar, some are selling mommy services there and ONLY use others pictues as to show that they have a 'service' and face-book dont remove them... so had it with pictures with no text !

As cant (c) my pictures AND selfies i wont post more on this place, and i have moved to more open webpages that dont block ability to view who looked at your profile unless pay €100 to do so.

Webpage barely usable unless pay, and yes its the reason for it i know.

As for age play pictures, this site removed pictures thats in 'ageplay mode' and gear, i know as i know the person in real life, going to meet again today.

Even if one would post a picture of a teddy, why remove a dead stuffed plastic thing, its got nothing to do with real kids, its a item. Pictures get approved then after a month get removed/banned.

All this together, meh, I'm on another page now, and a payed member there since years, that dont f around with my even safe for kids pictures as i dont even post nudity pictures.

[ey****]

  4 hours ago, CuddleDL said:

Even if one would post a picture of a teddy, why remove a dead stuffed plastic thing, its got nothing to do with real kids, its a item.

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Here's something to think of.

Imagine someone is masturbating to your pictures.  Just assume that.

So if they are masturbating to a face, or feet, or ass, or whatever - y'know... so far so good.    If they're masturbating to what is clearly fetish toys, you can kinda see why they might.

But, do you not - for one second - think it might be in appropriate to masturbate to what is clearly ***'s toys?   Do you not kinda think how this can lead to obvious misunderstanding?

Besides - this is something which is driven by the card companies after pressure from (particularly the US, but also UK) government - so - please help join the fight against this censorship and write to congress/MPs or join any form of adult collective.    Because even sites which currently allow it, as they grow, will be under scrutiny under what they can permit. 

[Deleted Member]

That would be me.

[HB****]

Have you been able to find anybody to get your answer from yet because I wanna know what you what your answer was ‘cause I have the same question plus more

[Tr****]

I feel your ***. Nothing but vanilla girls where I live

[Al****]

Check the fetlife website and create an account. Then look up your area and it will give you a list of all the people there that are BDSM

[ey****]

  6 hours ago, Alphawolf1121 said:

Check the fetlife website and create an account. Then look up your area and it will give you a list of all the people there that are BDSM

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not really

it will just give you a list of people who have fetlife accounts

not the same.