Little and Daddy dynamic . Whats going on?

[Deleted Member]

I think they dont give a f**k about u being in little space they’re just borderline p3dophile but dont want to admit it

[Ma****]

Maybe doms have different needs than their subs

[lw****]

Im not a little, but I feel you. It isn't just daddy doms or caregivers. It's all of them. Lack of research and respect for another human being has gone out the window. It's hard just to find a good dom that can counteract my brattiness. They either get offended or try to tame me. I've kind of sworn off finding a new one. I think I'm better off without any of it.

[VD****]

14 minutes ago, lw136562 said:

Im not a little, but I feel you. It isn't just daddy doms or caregivers. It's all of them. Lack of research and respect for another human being has gone out the window. It's hard just to find a good dom that can counteract my brattiness. They either get offended or try to tame me. I've kind of sworn off finding a new one. I think I'm better off without any of it.

Felt

[ey****]

I think the big thing here is boundaries.  If you are talking with someone to any degree and they cannot respect your boundaries; yeet them

I know littles who do not want any form of intimacy when in little space - this is an important boundary to be respected

while it's not for me; I do know littles who do enjoy intimacy even when in little space - but it's important not to assume all are the same.

 

 

[ey****]

46 minutes ago, Master-Verus said:

Maybe doms have different needs than their subs

then they are the wrong Dom. 

[VD****]

6 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

then they are the wrong Dom. 

Fact,

[Ch****]

Remember that BDSM, D/s, Ddlg are different for everyone. There is no ‚research’ it is about what one prefers. As long as both sides are happy and it’s safe, one’s way to do things is not ‚better’ than someone who prefers to do it in a different way.

What is important is clear communication so that you and your partner match in what you want. Finding a partner who views kink/bdsm/Ds/Ddlg in exactly the same way as you do can be extremely hard as it is so broad to begin with.

[su****]

I'm also a little and I understand completely, explaining to someone exactly what ddlg is and the roles is difficult and you can't just tell them to Google it cause there are no real definitions that fully and thoroughly explain exactly what it is. They simply don't understand or shit even trying to find real decent daddy doms is hard cause your right they always want something sexual. I go little as a sort of therapy from the past trauma growing up I don't wanna be sexual cause that just takes me out of my headspace and I don't wanna text while little it makes me have to think to much these daddys don't understand this and it sucks

[Ma****]

I've just always found littles tend not to consider their partner as much which comes from the headspace mostly. I play daddy for one girl because she matters to me but I genuinely didn't possess the level of care she needed until I was doing it for years

[So****]

I love to engage with Littles in little space, it can be genuinely playful and draws out my inner child, strongly believe that is the time care taker is most important. I feel you on this from DD perspective, Titles are earned and given not immediately claimed. There seems to be no consideration for the value of submission but rather an exploitation of a lifestyle to get a quick fix or nut off

[l8****]

Exactly. They do not understand the difference and need to learn that ageplay is a whole different kink