Cuckolding

[Deleted Member]

Does anyone else feel bad or hate the fact they are turned on by cuckolding. I think it’s easy and often done in the kink community to accept everything and just say well objectively there are no rules anything goes it’s all groovy but I kinda think it’s quite a toxic kink to have for a relationship and self esteem. Anyone willing to share their opinions and experiences

[so****]

I'm into it but I'm not homosexual I only do it for the husband to watch

[CopperKnob]

I'd be prepared for some backlash re your language and suggest you think about the phrase, "Your Kink Is Not My Kink And That's OK"
There are also "rule's" in the kink community, consent is the biggest one going and I'm not sure it really is a case of "everything goes"

[Deleted Member]

I enjoy watching cuckold porn, i think it's normal to get turned on by it.

[pe****]

I go back and fourth with it. I think this goes with anyone that wants to be degraded. In the right scenario and with the right partner that actually respects you, these things are OK in my opinion but it's all personal choice

[xm****]

I'll share. So ok. I have that kink myself and honestly I'm reading what you wrote and your right you have a great point both about self esteem plus creating a toxic environment that slowly develops. Everytime I've tried it it didn't turn out how I invisioned it haha. But idk I guess there needs to be ground work set first which.. I mean cmon who wants to put Any work when it comes to sex of all things aside from the act itself. The odds are definitely against it succeeding it seems + the added on work and communication and openness required doesn't make it feel sexy. So to sum it all up I still Find it to be very taboo but because of that i still think it's very hot. (Who doesn't enjoy that which one knows is 'wrong' 😅) but in order for that very satisfying thought to work I believe there has to already be a certain level of wanting it from both sides initially. Thoughts?

[ge****]

It can be a toxic kink for a relationship - but it can also be a wonderful one - it depends on the relationship, the motivation behind it and the limits and boundaries set and whether they are respected or not, it may also depend how the dynamic plays out.
.
If it comes from a position of a stable and loving relationship and is something that *both* people mutually agree to and want and they agree limits and boundaries and stick to them - then I have known many couples that actually find their relationship stronger as a result.
.
The problems come when it starts from the position of an unstable relationship, and is motivated by one or other partner, rather than being a mutual thing - in those cases it can expose the cracks in the relationship and drive people apart.
.
My advice to anyone thinking of going into it is to think very carefully about it, be open and honest about why you want to do it and have an absolute agreement in place that if either person is unhappy for it to continue that it stops immediately.
.
There is also the third person to consider and both ensuring that person understands and respects any boundaries and that they too are respected and treated well.

[DeviantInside]

I have some experience with cuckqueaning (female cuckolding). My viewpoint on this is very much along the lines of all *** play. I love taboos, whether it's raceplay, body ***, religious sacrilege, dehumanisation, misogyny etc. BUT ONLY with someone who enjoys those things and from an understanding that it's in play. Kink can provide a safe place to explore taboos... but that's just it it should be a SAFE place to explore them. So undersanding where people's triggers, limits and lines that should not be crossed are is a part of that.

So cuckqueaning exploration was done from the viewpoint that it was to explore my partner's *** rather than me wanting to just fuck someone else. It was still centred on us rather than anything else. And was done from the basis of a grounded relationship with plenty of aftercare and reassurance.

Edited June 8, 2022 by DeviantInside

[Deleted Member]

All of these are great viewpoints. I guess I’m the long run, it depends on the couple and what boundaries/rules they set for cuckolding. As far as me being ashamed of it, I do feel a little shame, but at the same time the thrill takes over knowing it’s happening.

[Ae****]

I think there's a bunch of behaviours that aren't actually helpful to individuals involved, acted out and enabled - "validated" - in kink, in general.
I think anyone involved in kink should constantly be reflecting on why they like what they like, what it says about them, where that kink could have come from, and ultimately, if that's the kinda thing they feel is OK, for a genuinely complete/integrated/fulfilled/happy person to be into - it can be a very uncomfortable look in the mirror for some - and denial will be heavily involved for some as a result.

[Ki****]

I think it's a natural reaction to feel guilt or shame for ANY kink that you may consider "taboo" or "unusual" due to enviornmental factors. But as long as all parties are consenting, you've nothing to *** 😊

[J-****]

I’d never let another dude f**k my woman. But that’s just me.

[Deleted Member]

I personally don’t like to share my food.

[Deleted Member]

I’m very into cuckolding but only with a play partner not tried in a relationship so can’t comment on that

[pa****]

It is about letting your woman get all the joy she can.

[br****]

I’m an old ass Dude
I’m a cuck.
I’ve been in many unfulfilled relationships.
Here’s what I’ve learned.
I’m a powerful, dynamic Man that is able to set aside various parts of “normalcy” in order to live my life.
I’m a King!
Trust me on that.
I’m also a Cuck.
Sex is sex.
Connection is everything!

[ea****]

I wish I could get my wife to do it

[ma****]

My ex did it to me

[ea****]

Be hot as hell to watch and join

[ea****]

How do u get them to do it

[Deleted Member]

I don’t like the *** aspect but do enjoy being watched, I really enjoy being with couples who are secure with themselves.

[ge****]

Yesterday at 03:47 PM, eaton953 said:

How do u get them to do it

You don't "get" them to do it is the simple answer - you have an open and honest conversation with your partner in which you suggest it is something you'd like to try and explain why it appeals, and you see if it's something they'd be open to exploring, all the while accepting that it may not be for them, and prepared to leave it at that if it's not.

[Mi****]

I am enjoying my crown. My husband is totally addicted to me and loves me taking other men

[sa****]

Yummy

[He****]

My wife is the cuckold. It’s actually improved our relationship. Way more trust and openness than ever.