De**** Posted June 21, 2022 Posted June 21, 2022 What’s more important because I can’t seem to understand either. Connection are like flames they burn bright until they go out.
ge**** Posted June 21, 2022 Posted June 21, 2022 They're both important but for me connection and chemistry hold the upper hand, without them the physical is irrelevant.
Deleted Member Posted June 21, 2022 Posted June 21, 2022 Both go hand in hand.you need to implement both otherwise trouble begins lol
Ro**** Posted June 21, 2022 Posted June 21, 2022 Depends on the person or the day. Both can be best at the right time. My goal is usually to try to meet both goals for both people as some times partners need purely physical for a period of time or emotional but most sessions are spent on both and non sessions are more emotional care when just excited upset mad or sad. People need contact with others to survive and some basic needs are physical. Including emotional ones we cant ignore either for our own emotional health.
ey**** Posted June 21, 2022 Posted June 21, 2022 a lot of relationships are short lived because there isn't actually that much in common obviously this doesn't matter too much in most vanilla dating - but - kink and fetish can be quite a slow burning relationship anyway so you really want someone you can connect with for common interests outside of kink
Deleted Member Posted June 21, 2022 Posted June 21, 2022 I think - inevitably - kink requires a level of emotional realization from both parties you are going to have to emotionally invest more than you might think to build trust and respect for what you want and who you want it from.
In**** Posted June 21, 2022 Posted June 21, 2022 Basically, ain’t nobody nowadays really interested in finding and building on something serious together with strong communication key level. Point, blank period!
Deleted Member Posted June 21, 2022 Posted June 21, 2022 40 minutes ago, In2leather said: Basically, ain’t nobody nowadays really interested in finding and building on something serious together with strong communication key level. Point, blank period! I disagree with you. There are a lot of genuine kinksters out there - and more so than normal on this site - who are looking to delve into the psychological depths of their sexuality. Don't allow the number of people who dip their toe in here thinking kink = easy to blind you to that.
Da**** Posted June 21, 2022 Posted June 21, 2022 For my sub she needs a connection to play... but the emotional connection is important during aftercare..
J-**** Posted June 22, 2022 Posted June 22, 2022 Well that depends entirely on the goal. The best sex I’ve ever had was with women I would never want to marry.
Sw**** Posted July 2, 2022 Posted July 2, 2022 That depends on the person. Some people need an emotional connection before a physical one can actually happen (demi sexual/romantic) like me. Some people can have one night stands without any emotional connection.
In**** Posted September 14, 2022 Posted September 14, 2022 June 21, Lady_Char said: I disagree with you. There are a lot of genuine kinksters out there - and more so than normal on this site - who are looking to delve into the psychological depths of their sexuality. Don't allow the number of people who dip their toe in here thinking kink = easy to blind you to that. No disrespect towards you, ‘ Cause, you have right to be entitle to your opinion. I’m just saying, from my experiences with certain ones. Nope, have yet; to run into one! Ain’t nobody interesting in nothing, serious. point, blank period.
Deleted Member Posted September 14, 2022 Posted September 14, 2022 I need both. I have to have an emotional connection in order to have the things done to me. There needs to be a level of trust. That’s why you vett. Vetting takes time
Je**** Posted September 18, 2022 Posted September 18, 2022 Phycological definitely!!!! For me it’s what makes or breaks an experience
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