nordstar Posted September 5, 2018 Posted September 5, 2018 I was wondering what do you think about mental bondage? I'm very intrigued by it but I don't see many people to be into this fetish.
Deleted Member Posted September 5, 2018 Posted September 5, 2018 Maybe not a lot of people understand how it works
Deleted Member Posted September 5, 2018 Posted September 5, 2018 I doubt that I know the full extent of the subject, but the idea of achieving mental domination certainly fits my kinks
ey**** Posted September 5, 2018 Posted September 5, 2018 I think a lot of people are into it - but it's not something you can "see" and it's often personal between those involved.
ca**** Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 (edited) I'd be mighty impressed (potentially mentally aroused !!!) if someone could explain it in words that resonated with 'everyone'. Far too many variables for me. ps - I couldn't Edited September 6, 2018 by callipygian
Kitty74-4244 Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 Is this the same/similar to honour bondage? Holding yourself in place to please master/ mistress.
ca**** Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 (edited) re: my post 2 above - i think i read the original post slightly incorrectly - so maybe off topic slightly - however it may still hold true! Edited September 6, 2018 by callipygian shit spelling!
ey**** Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 Mental Bondage, simply, is any form of restraint without something physically holding. When I'm with my Mistress I cannot touch my cock unless instructed (not that I'd have any real need to, I guess?) and even if instructed I cannot orgasm without permission. That's a form of mental bondage. But mental bondage can come in all forms of other guises depending on the relationship. Being told what to wear, or, not wear can be mental bondage. As can what to eat or, not eat. So much other things in a routine also. The possibilities are almost endless. Not being permitted to send or reply PMs without permission - not using the web after a certain time... There's a lot more to it than even something as simple as "stand there and don't move" Perhaps one of the reasons it doesn't get talked about is because it's so common. "Stand there until needed" is mental bondage. As is any form of sub/slave positions.
Mi**** Posted September 7, 2018 Posted September 7, 2018 Mental bondage is probably more common than people think although it probably is something you would engage in whilst in a relationship rather than pick up play or one off scenes. It is part of the control aspect of domination and can range from a few simple rules such as dont speak until spoken to or not being allowed to sit on furniture, right up to controling every aspect of your life such as what you wear, what you eat, when and how much.
Deleted Member Posted September 7, 2018 Posted September 7, 2018 Personally i feel mental bondage is part of physical bondage, when things are just physical for me it feels incomplete
ey**** Posted September 13, 2018 Posted September 13, 2018 3 minutes ago, Lo7tus said: isn't mental bondage submission ? no. read up for many such examples.
Deleted Member Posted September 13, 2018 Posted September 13, 2018 Interesting I read your comments but they would be things I would train a submissive to do, just not thought of it as mental bondage before.
ey**** Posted September 13, 2018 Posted September 13, 2018 here's another example of a basic but mental bondage. My Mistress has set me a very simple task. For 24 hours, no matter where I am, home, work, in public, etc. I can only *** sitting down. Really basic. Hardly a laborious activity However, as she puts it... there is the inconvenience of having to go into a cubicle to sit down - but - not so much that : every time I have to go to the bathroom I have to think of Her, every time I touch my dick I'm then thinking of Her and that She is controlling even my bathroom usage. That She still has the control over me despite being so far away at the minute.
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