Help!? Pet being bullied with shared Trix

[ey****]

oh no

I had concerns about how this may play out - but of course any form of sub-hierarchy is not something which was wanted, contented to or agreed and so yeah; the whole set up is not what was wanted

obviously the end of any relationship sucks - but - yeah - if you can take heart that you were in the right and build on things from here, it's a start

[TheBookCollector]

At least you have a resolution.

Sorry the domme actually laughed said that he had a right to take it out on your sub without her consent, effectively giving him carte blanche to do as he pleases, just because he is a switch/slave.

You did the right thing for your subs well being, its a shame your other sub went to family as it would have helped to have another female sub around that she can talk to when you are not around.

[Deleted Member]

First... Ask her what positives things did she learn from this experience? What positive things did she learn to see? Talk about it. Then tell her... Sometimes things happen, because it was meant to end... for something better, or a new journey to begin. Letting everybody know... I am a horrible Mother Theresa, so don't come to me.😁

[Deleted Member]

Also to add... most likely you'll end being more mad.😲

[Da****]

I think you are doing the best thing for her right by taking care of her and putting her first... Your "Domme" friend is nothing more than an enabler and just as much a Bully as the other douchebag... If it were me..she would be an Exfriend and have no other interaction with her.. Remember your response to her actions show all your subs just what and who is important to you. Also remember that even though her *** sub voluntarily took a backseat, make sure she knows that she is just as important to you...

[An****]

21 hours ago, Daddy-n-sub said:

I think you are doing the best thing for her right by taking care of her and putting her first... Your "Domme" friend is nothing more than an enabler and just as much a Bully as the other douchebag... If it were me..she would be an Exfriend and have no other interaction with her.. Remember your response to her actions show all your subs just what and who is important to you. Also remember that even though her *** sub voluntarily took a backseat, make sure she knows that she is just as important to you...

Thanks, I've decided to go No contact with my Friend for a while, at least until she either apologizes in person or removes the bully. I'm still a bit shocked at her tbh, but I think you put is perfectly that she's less of a Domme and more of an enabler. I've spent the last 2 days just reassuring my sub and taken sick days from work so she knows I'm here for her, we went to the Cinema and that perked her up, especially with popcorn. I have let her *** sub know she's doing better and she should be back soon but hopefully my girls know I'd do anything for them. Just hope it's a small bump in the road and everything is back to it's cheerful days again. Don't think I'll be sharing my girls any time soon aha

[Da****]

20 hours ago, AngoryBear said:

Thanks, I've decided to go No contact with my Friend for a while, at least until she either apologizes in person or removes the bully. I'm still a bit shocked at her tbh, but I think you put is perfectly that she's less of a Domme and more of an enabler. I've spent the last 2 days just reassuring my sub and taken sick days from work so she knows I'm here for her, we went to the Cinema and that perked her up, especially with popcorn. I have let her *** sub know she's doing better and she should be back soon but hopefully my girls know I'd do anything for them. Just hope it's a small bump in the road and everything is back to it's cheerful days again. Don't think I'll be sharing my girls any time soon aha

Tbh if this had happened with one of my girls, the ENABLER, would no longer be a friend..she is not apologize, she doesn't think she or the douchebag did anything wrong... I'm glad your sub is doing better...