Guys, It’s ok to be angry. Just put it where it belongs

[ge****]

21 minutes ago, BadBoy-94 said:

Well, dildo_man or whatever you name is  Nobody is misrepresenting anything. Words like "guarded" are just euphemisms, as others have told you, too. 

In the end, OP's comment is nothing more than "you should put up with shitty behavior from women. It's not their fault, but the fault of a few bad past encounters with men". 

In all honesty, you lost any credence with the claim that i wrote "whale train". I never did. Maybe you are the one who should learn to read before suggesting that others learn how to read? Don't be a hypocrite, please. 

Oooh thanks for that I am rather fond of a dildo I may use that if ever I choose to change my username 😉🤭
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How on earth do you jump to the conclusion that "guarded" is a euphemism and if so for what?
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Plain and simple CK said "Instead of directing that anger at the women who seem guarded, be angry at the men who made literally every space unsafe" - what's the euphemism in that? Where does it suggest ALL men made that space unsafe?
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Nowhere in the OP does it say you should put up with shitty behaviour from women either - in fact quite the opposite, it's suggesting ways in which men can help women feel less guarded and steps they can take to provide that equality that so many on both sides of the equation crave.
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Nowhere in her OP does it suggest men should kow tow to every woman's whim, or shouldn't call out poor behaviour by women as well as men - and before you say it I've not seen a single example on this thread of women behaving badly other than to stand up for what they believe in and you so obviously do not.
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You, yes you, are part of the problem, not the solution.
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OK so I misremembered what you actually said - which was to call two women who were blocking your path by innocently walking along "land whales" - regardless of my memory lapse, are you surprised you get the reaction you do when you use vile terms like that? Again evidence that you, yes you, are part of the problem.
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Now I suspect I am wasting my time here and you'll just ignore what I have said and just post more rant drivel - let me save you the trouble and tell you I'm not interested as we'll obviously not agree and frankly I have better things to do with my time than argue the toss with someone that is not open to reasonable debate.

[BadBoy-94]

3 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

Nope. No. You're not detracting from the fact that you earlier called woman 'ugly and fat' and then 'land whales' to now claim that beauty comes from within.
I think you need to stop looking at your phone and start having a think about why you have the thoughts about women that you do.

All I ever said was that I had made an observation based on my personal experience. And  the few cases where I have had issues with this uncalled for toxic masculinity paranoia that some women tend to have, have come from women who were physically unappealing.  As I said, whether it was a coincidence or not, I am not sure. That's all I ever said.

I am sorry to tell you, but physically unappealing women do exist, just like physically unattractive men exist Obviously, men like Aranhis will kiss your ass no matter what and tell you it's not true, even though it's true.

 If a woman is acts like a bitch,  I will have "thoughts in my mind that she is a bitch". It's not really that hard.

[Deleted Member]

7 hours ago, PJ3000 said:

Sooo... what do other people in this community refer to you as? Frank? An occasional table? A chocolate teapot? 🤷‍♂️surely they use the label of Dom no? Cis-het is simply a shorthand way of describing a group of people man chill.. it's way easier than saying... straight men who were born men and grew up as men and and still are men 😂

No they don't. I find that 'man' covers most things. 

And for someone who's advising someone else to chill, I notice you visited my profile and then ostentatiously blocked me. Don't worry, dear, I wasn't tempted. 

[Ar****]

27 minutes ago, Lockfairy said:

Damn, I didn’t make the list! 

I had you in the five 🤷‍♂️😂

[PJ****]

3 minutes ago, wicklowdom said:

No they don't. I find that 'man' covers most things. 

And for someone who's advising someone else to chill, I notice you visited my profile and then ostentatiously blocked me. Don't worry, dear, I wasn't tempted. 

Errr what!? 😂 pretty sure i didnt visit, and I definitely didn't block you 🤔 to be quite honest I'd forgotten you were in this discussion 😂

[CopperKnob]

3 minutes ago, BadBoy-94 said:

All I ever said was that I had made an observation based on my personal experience. And  the few cases where I have had issues with this uncalled for toxic masculinity paranoia that some women tend to have, have come from women who were physically unappealing.  As I said, whether it was a coincidence or not, I am not sure. That's all I ever said.

I am sorry to tell you, but physically unappealing women do exist, just like physically unattractive men exist Obviously, men like Aranhis will kiss your ass no matter what and tell you it's not true, even though it's true.

 If a woman is acts like a bitch,  I will have "thoughts in my mind that she is a bitch". It's not really that hard.

Why do you keep targeting Aranhis?
And no, that's not 'all' you said.
You continue to raise the physical features of others and again I'm unclear why it's relevant?

[CopperKnob]

1 minute ago, PJ3000 said:

Errr what!? 😂 pretty sure i didnt visit, and I definitely didn't block you 🤔 to be quite honest I'd forgotten you were in this discussion 😂

Pretty sure that that was me who visited their profile and tapped the block button. Also quite sure that others would have as well 🤣

[Ar****]

10 minutes ago, PJ3000 said:

We need to raise a mandate at the next meeting to officially induct LockFairy to the 5...7... no 12... 12! 😁 we might need a better name.. this could get complicated.. think of all the stationary we'll have to keep buying!!!😂

Stationary? Can we not just stick to tea and glorious foodstuffs?? I'm not being Secretary, I've done my time in that role.

[BadBoy-94]

Just now, CopperKnob said:

Why do you keep targeting Aranhis?
And no, that's not 'all' you said.
You continue to raise the physical features of others and again I'm unclear why it's relevant?

It's relevant because I oddly enough haven't met one attractive woman who has treated me as if I were a creep for no reason.

This "men are all sexual predators" paranoia oddly enough tends to come from women who aren't very physically attractive. Is it a coincidence? I am not sure, just as I said. But I am starting to see a correlation between unattractive women and man-bashing.

[CopperKnob]

Just now, BadBoy-94 said:

It's relevant because I oddly enough haven't met one attractive woman who has treated me as if I were a creep for no reason.

This "men are all sexual predators" paranoia oddly enough tends to come from women who aren't very physically attractive. Is it a coincidence? I am not sure, just as I said. But I am starting to see a correlation between unattractive women and man-bashing.

Well I'm glad you bit the hook 🤣

[PJ****]

4 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

Pretty sure that that was me who visited their profile and tapped the block button. Also quite sure that others would have as well 🤣

Ou bless hes got his wires in a fiddle

[Ar****]

10 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

Uhm so, it's just been brought to my attention that you may have told me that your icecream was terrible because you didn't want to share? 🤔😭

Do you know what, you tell somebody ONCE that your blackcurrant cheesecake (and lemon??) ice cream was less than satisfactory because it had no actual fruits in and the blackcurrant sauce was a bit on the sickly side and you're forever haunted by the stigma that you have "terrible ice cream". It's no wonder us guys don't open up to you women when this is how you treat us.

And now I truly understand why you started putting "satire" at the end your posts. Sigh.

Anyway, I am always glad to share, I don't mind ploughing through a 500ml tub on my own but I'd prefer not to. The current available selection chez moi is cookie dough (two tubs, obviously), chocolate fudge brownie, Oreo, and Cadbury's Flake. Oh and Vienetta and various Magnum-eque choc ices, but I don't count those.

[Lo****]

2 minutes ago, Aranhis said:

Do you know what, you tell somebody ONCE that your blackcurrant cheesecake (and lemon??) ice cream was less than satisfactory because it had no actual fruits in and the blackcurrant sauce was a bit on the sickly side and you're forever haunted by the stigma that you have "terrible ice cream". It's no wonder us guys don't open up to you women when this is how you treat us.

And now I truly understand why you started putting "satire" at the end your posts. Sigh.

Anyway, I am always glad to share, I don't mind ploughing through a 500ml tub on my own but I'd prefer not to. The current available selection chez moi is cookie dough (two tubs, obviously), chocolate fudge brownie, Oreo, and Cadbury's Flake. Oh and Vienetta and various Magnum-eque choc ices, but I don't count those.

Oh my god! Do you have a freezer just for ice cream!?

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, CopperKnob said:

Three.
Three of you have continually shouted down anyone and everyone who has a different viewpoint to yourselves
Three of you have repeatedly shown us what you stand for
Three of you have demonstrated why women behave the way they do
Three of you have demonstrated the misogynistic behaviour that many of us call out every day and have exampled here.
Three of you have shown us why OP's like this and others are written
Three of you.
It's not a majority vote at all I'm afraid
 

😂, If you're referring to me, I stand for expecting equal behavior from all parties involved. I stand for not using the behavior of a small subset of people to justify clearly antagonistic views directs towards everyone of the opposite sex. I don't care how you reason it, it's simply not rational but you can get away with it on here because certain people are desperate for vaginal access. 

[BadBoy-94]

5 minutes ago, gemini_man said:

Oooh thanks for that I am rather fond of a dildo I may use that if ever I choose to change my username 😉🤭
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How on earth do you jump to the conclusion that "guarded" is a euphemism and if so for what?
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Plain and simple CK said "Instead of directing that anger at the women who seem guarded, be angry at the men who made literally every space unsafe" - what's the euphemism in that? Where does it suggest ALL men made that space unsafe?
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Nowhere in the OP does it say you should put up with shitty behaviour from women either - in fact quite the opposite, it's suggesting ways in which men can help women feel less guarded and steps they can take to provide that equality that so many on both sides of the equation crave.
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Nowhere in her OP does it suggest men should kow tow to every woman's whim, or shouldn't call out poor behaviour by women as well as men - and before you say it I've not seen a single example on this thread of women behaving badly other than to stand up for what they believe in and you so obviously do not.
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You, yes you, are part of the problem, not the solution.
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OK so I misremembered what you actually said - which was to call two women who were blocking your path by innocently walking along "land whales" - regardless of my memory lapse, are you surprised you get the reaction you do when you use vile terms like that? Again evidence that you, yes you, are part of the problem.
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Now I suspect I am wasting my time here and you'll just ignore what I have said and just post more rant drivel - let me save you the trouble and tell you I'm not interested as we'll obviously not agree and frankly I have better things to do with my time than argue the toss with someone that is not open to reasonable debate.

You do you, bro. I don't wanna waste my time on you either, so I will make it short.

"Be angry at the men who made literally every space unsafe". Isn't she literally saying that wherever there are men, there is danger? That's all someone like me is seeing right here, among others. Now I have to ask yet again.. why the uncalled for ***-mongering? 

"You are part of the problem".... So me excusing myself and politely asking to overtake two landwhales who were blocking the corridor to the point that they were slowing down everyone behind them makes me a problem? And on top of it being called a creep just because I couldn't walk behind them all the way down the corridor? I think you need to get your balls reattached. It's men like you who allow this poor behavior to continue that are the problem along with OP. Women should have equal rights, not special rights just because they're women. Look at all this preferential hiring that goes on in our Fortune 500 companies, as an example.

"women who seem guarded" is just a euphemism for "don't be angry about women who initially think that you might be a sexual predator, it's just bad previous experiences that have made her like that". I am not the only one who is seeing right though her OP. 

 

[CopperKnob]

5 minutes ago, Aranhis said:

Do you know what, you tell somebody ONCE that your blackcurrant cheesecake (and lemon??) ice cream was less than satisfactory because it had no actual fruits in and the blackcurrant sauce was a bit on the sickly side and you're forever haunted by the stigma that you have "terrible ice cream". It's no wonder us guys don't open up to you women when this is how you treat us.

And now I truly understand why you started putting "satire" at the end your posts. Sigh.

Anyway, I am always glad to share, I don't mind ploughing through a 500ml tub on my own but I'd prefer not to. The current available selection chez moi is cookie dough (two tubs, obviously), chocolate fudge brownie, Oreo, and Cadbury's Flake. Oh and Vienetta and various Magnum-eque choc ices, but I don't count those.

What? Who has that amount of icecream in their home? This is a new level. I have a new found level of respect for you now!!

[CopperKnob]

3 minutes ago, sigbro said:

😂, If you're referring to me, I stand for expecting equal behavior from all parties involved. I stand for not using the behavior of a small subset of people to justify clearly antagonistic views directs towards everyone of the opposite sex. I don't care how you reason it, it's simply not rational but you can get away with it on here because certain people are desperate for vaginal access. 

I refer you to my comment on another post just this morning

[CopperKnob]

4 minutes ago, BadBoy-94 said:

You do you, bro. I don't wanna waste my time on you either, so I will make it short.

"Be angry at the men who made literally every space unsafe". Isn't she literally saying that wherever there are men, there is danger? That's all someone like me is seeing right here, among others. Now I have to ask yet again.. why the uncalled for ***-mongering? 

"You are part of the problem".... So me excusing myself and politely asking to overtake two landwhales who were blocking the corridor to the point that they were slowing down everyone behind them makes me a problem? And on top of it being called a creep just because I couldn't walk behind them all the way down the corridor? I think you need to get your balls reattached. It's men like you who allow this poor behavior to continue that are the problem along with OP. Women should have equal rights, not special rights just because they're women. Look at all this preferential hiring that goes on in our Fortune 500 companies, as an example.

"women who seem guarded" is just a euphemism for "don't be angry about women who initially think that you might be a sexual predator, it's just bad previous experiences that have made her like that". I am not the only one who is seeing right though her OP. 

 

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[Deleted Member]

21 minutes ago, PJ3000 said:

Errr what!? 😂 pretty sure i didnt visit, and I definitely didn't block you 🤔 to be quite honest I'd forgotten you were in this discussion 😂

Sorry, looks like I replied to the wrong person somehow. Apologies for the mistaken imputation, Mr. Cis-Het. 

[Ar****]

2 minutes ago, Lockfairy said:

Oh my god! Do you have a freezer just for ice cream!?

No, I just try to keep the middle drawer of the one I have for desserts. I've got cheesecake in there as well, and my son's ices. It usually has to serve as an overspill for other stuff too though, my freezer isn't really that big and I kinda need to buy real food occasionally too 😔

Also, new discovery for me on Fet!! I tried to "like" your comment but got a pop-up telling me I wasn't allowed to react any more today 🤣🤣 obviously I need to reconsider all the kissing of @CopperKnob's ass I've been doing, it leaves me no room to try and get in anyone else's knickers! 😱

[CopperKnob]

[Ar****]

6 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

What? Who has that amount of icecream in their home? This is a new level. I have a new found level of respect for you now!!

I tried to tell you. I would never compromise my integrity by bluffing about my ice cream.

[Lo****]

1 minute ago, Aranhis said:

No, I just try to keep the middle drawer of the one I have for desserts. I've got cheesecake in there as well, and my son's ices. It usually has to serve as an overspill for other stuff too though, my freezer isn't really that big and I kinda need to buy real food occasionally too 😔

Also, new discovery for me on Fet!! I tried to "like" your comment but got a pop-up telling me I wasn't allowed to react any more today 🤣🤣 obviously I need to reconsider all the kissing of @CopperKnob's ass I've been doing, it leaves me no room to try and get in anyone else's knickers! 😱

Cheesecake too?!

@Aranhis, I want you to know I’ve always had a great deal of affection for you 😘😂

Our likes are rationed? That’s terrible! I bet @CopperKnob has hoarded loads from people today!

[BadBoy-94]

3 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

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Even-even briefer: Your OP isn't conveying what you want it to convey, or you're a liar. As it is right now, more people besides me are seeing though your under-handed attempt to regurgitate the same feminist BS about toxic masculinity. 

Others have said it, and I will said it again... the only thing I expect is equal behavior across genders. 

[Deleted Member]

How do I get some of this ice cream. I‘m just gonna go right ahead and invite myself to this situation 😂