Having trouble with anal

[Deleted Member]

So I've been experimenting with anal and I have been having some  issues. The biggest size I can have comfortably insert ed is 1.5 inch and I've only gone 6 inch deep. I have tried 2.0 inch but it becomes entirely to ***ful some discomfort is probable but not intense ***. Is it me or the one  that inserting doing something wrong? I've used desensitizing lubricant but the issue still presists.

[ey****]

practice. time.

our bodies can't just automatically accept anything we decide to shove into them.  that's the simple term.

if it's causing discomfort, stop - for now.

perhaps try to leave in a comfortable sized buttplug for a period of time in order to help get used to the size - then swap for something slightly bigger.

[Deleted Member]

Everyone, please feel free to tell me I'm wrong, but this is how I would do it. Start with the smallest size and put it as far in as you can (slowly) until it hurts/won't go any deeper. Leave it in. Your anus will be kept in this position for a while and your body will adjust to the change. Then take it out. Leave your anus for a while to relax. Put it back in and repeat until you can easily side it in and out with no discomfort. Once you have achieved this, repeat the whole process with the next size up.

[Fimus]

Despite what some porn sites may suggest, the reality with anal is that the sphincter needs "training". Many girls will spend half an hour or so wearing a (relatively small) butt plug before filing an anal scene. I have been able to take a 10" long dildo that is nearly 3" in diameter because I have trained my sphincter up to that. Try shoving something half that size in me without warning and I will probably faint with the ***

[Deleted Member]

So I shy say use a 1.5 inch plug and leave it I. There for and hour or should go longer?

 

[ey****]

leave it for as long as you feel comfortable with

[ey****]

as well as the sphincter, there's also that when you're new to this it can be difficult to relax which also makes things difficult - so - again - opportunities to normalise are also beneficial.  

[Deleted Member]

So there is no set given time to know if going larger will work?

[ey****]

no

because there are so so many other factors that stops this becoming an exact science.  

[Deleted Member]

Oh ok is there a max size that males can take analy before damage to the body incurs?

[ey****]

yes

[Deleted Member]

Any idea as to how big that would be? I would like to know where I stand in relation to the max. I know I'm not that large in size now but with all the comments and help I should be able to attain greater sizes.

[ey****]

you know the novelty oversized dildos and buttplugs?  they're too big.

you know every other butt plug or dildo you can go into a shop and buy for the purpose of anal play?  they're not.

but ultimately - it's not nor should be viewed as a contest on who can take the biggest - it's about enjoyment, not size.  if you feel you should be taking bigger, work your way up using tips above and natural time. 

[Deleted Member]

Well what I've noticed so far is that smaller around sized strapons and didlos are usually shorter. For strap ons this gives the person wearing it less range of motion. There are also fewer options in the smaller categories. Once you get into the 2.5 inch to 3.25 inch range your selection is greatly increased. And your longer toys give much greater range of motion.

That of course gives another pleasure for some. Which is, which one she or he will use today or next.

[Fimus]

Once you get much above 9" you are genuinely in danger of tearing the walls of your lower intestines if the person is "over-enthusiastic". Your internal organs are relatively fragile and you MUST treat them with some respect

[Deleted Member]

Are you talking 9" long or width

[Deleted Member]

It’s not about the size, but the technique and relaxation, in the past, when I had moments of grandeur or wanted to ‘go bigger’ I start of small, insert a little then pull out, each time you Enter, it then becomes easier, then move up to a bigger size, I found a cold cucumber numbs the area a lot and penetration is so easy, use a good lube and stop clenching your sphincter, be careful though as not so many months ago I was being careless with an 18” double jelly dong and I slipped out of my fingers and disappeared, panic set in but managed to retrieve it by hand 😎😂

[Deleted Member]

Train with an inflatable butt plug.

[Deleted Member]

Is that an order? Or suggestion, inflatable butt plugs are awesome fun though the sphincter is not being stretched with the use of butt plugs unless they are huge and make any hole gape! I still think the best tool I ever used was a good cold solid cucumber that kinda tapers to a fat size...but that’s just me! Any other suggestions? Speculums are superb in the art of dilating 

[Deleted Member]

On 9/15/2018 at 5:54 PM, Fimus said:

Once you get much above 9" you are genuinely in danger of tearing the walls of your lower intestines if the person is "over-enthusiastic". Your internal organs are relatively fragile and you MUST treat them with some respect

Jelly dongs are so soft and bendy these days hence how I lost it!