Lu**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 I find brats very amusing and interesting. But does anyone have tips on the best way to tame brats and the best way to handle them?
da**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 You got to show them who's daddy in the bedroom pull some moves out and control them to do what you want
Cheekysub247 Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 Depends on the brat, what type of set up you have with them ect. Same as any person x
Deleted Member Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 It depends on what kind of Dom you want to be, you can hard Dom and punish them in various ways on the spot or soft Dom and just sit there and smile as they brat till you all of a sudden politely let them know they’re about to get what’s been coming
Li**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 This is individual on the brat and what has been agreed. Communication is the only answer as there isn't a one stop trick for us all. The same as every Dom or Daddy and so on isn't the same.
GL**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 Snacks… lots of snacks. Just kidding. Reward good behavior. Make appropriate punishments for overly bratty behavior. Be firm and stick to those punishments. Have fun with her and banter back. Most that I have dealt with have found that I’m more fun when they listen. Have patience and be creative. Most brats are bratty because they want or need something and might not know how to ask or tell you. Learn everything about your sub and figure out what that is.
ny**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 Help them differentiate between playful bratty and annoying bratty. One is acceptable and sometimes even encouraged; the other is not. Brattiness is usually a sub’s way of conveying needs of discipline or making sure that they’re getting the attention they’re craving. It should not be used as an attempt to control or alter the Doms behavior. I find that discussing what is acceptable and unacceptable bratty behavior goes a long way towards making the brattiness enjoyable for both rather than a negative issue that needs taking.
CopperKnob Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 If you enjoy brats why would you want to tame them? It's not about taming them/changing who they are. If you don't like bratty behaviour, don't go looking for a brat, you aren't compatible.
Puppy6411 Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 If you enjoy a beat being bratty, why would you want to tame or change that? (Icecream, with sprinkles 😉)
Bl**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 I really can't stand the bdsm usage of the idea of "taming" a person. None of us is some wild ***. Perhaps your brat is acting as such because of you?
Da**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 2 hours ago, kitten42069 said: Tame a brat good luck that can take months 😂 If you can tame them at all... let them know when they see pushing your limits and the appropriate punishment or funishment will be taken.
Deleted Member Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 I think what you really want is ideas on how to handle a brat, like other people here (and as a brat) I've never liked the expression brat tamer. You pick a brat because you enjoy the challenge and the playfulness. If you want to squash that out of your sub, why not just chose a different type of sub who doesn't engage in that behavior? So, tips. Don't leave loopholes. We love them and we will expose them to our fullest to make you look foolish. Have some sort of way to keep track of all your brat's bratty comments so that they can pay for them later - a tally on the inner thigh works well. If you account for *every one* we won't feel like we're getting away with stuff (and therefore getting one over on you). Outmanoeuvre us. Nothing worse to a brat than trying to sneak a prank etc and having the Dominant outdo us at our little game. Keep your brat busy, entertained and feeling seen. A brat who's getting bored or feeling unappreciated will find ways to get your attention - and you might not enjoy them.
ca**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 You don't tame a brat, you want her to stay bratty and keep you on your toes! Bratty subs are a lot of fun, just as long as they can take the consequences of course. It's a game, they show their bratty behaviour, expect you to rise to it and issue punishment or *** them into submission, then it all starts again. Love a good brat!
Deleted Member Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 Tie them up so they don’t have an option. Then you need too make sure you find a way to tease them. Maybe just your hands softly rubbing their back or just softly kissing the back of their neck. Just need too take control of them in little ways
ey**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 this has come up before and I'm sure the brats agreed that the best way to tame them is by letting them have lots of ice cream
Ma**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 2 hours ago, CopperKnob said: If you enjoy brats why would you want to tame them? It's not about taming them/changing who they are. If you don't like bratty behaviour, don't go looking for a brat, you aren't compatible. This.
ey**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 I am going to add in - and I saw this play out once when someone kinda did a joke quiz with a "brat tamer" You should only tame a brat if you both have a brat AND they want to be "tamed". Because otherwise as a starting position it reads as "I want an excuse to punish someone" which often comes across kind of like an abusive starting point Any kinda otherwise 'taming' is applicable to the brat and their likes and dislikes. Sometimes it is a case of creative punishments for creative misbehaviour but it is very contextual. I know someone who once had someone turn up late so had him count out a grain of rice for every second he was late - so manually counting out over 1,000 grains of rice and laying on his counter top as proof.
De**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 My partner usually ties me up and then ignore me when i can’t move anymore 🥺 sadly its very effective 🫤
CopperKnob Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said: this has come up before and I'm sure the brats agreed that the best way to tame them is by letting them have lots of ice cream Winning comment of the thread
Li**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said: this has come up before and I'm sure the brats agreed that the best way to tame them is by letting them have lots of ice cream The only comment you need to read bub 💁🏼♀️🍨
ey**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 I also say... oh... years ago I was part of a school event and the event got split and so those who were more mature students went in one class - and it was more corporal based punishments those who were more bratty students went in another class. the "teacher" saying she was a specialist with brats. great. she basically let them do what they want; pretty much did no discipline or punishment and they all got bored. not sure if that was the desired way for anyone for this to play out - but - hey.
Po**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 You don’t tame us :P you either enjoy and find fun ways to reprimand us or you find a different D/s dynamic.
Bo**** Posted July 16, 2022 Posted July 16, 2022 4 hours ago, PolyGlam said: You don’t tame us :P you either enjoy and find fun ways to reprimand us or you find a different D/s dynamic. 💯
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