Is it possible?

[Deleted Member]

Are heartbreaks something you must go through in life? Or there are ways to avoid it? Please share your thoughts or expirience

[ey****]

yes - you can avoid heartbreak

don't date

don't keep pets

no close friends

keep a distant relationship with family... 

otherwise, yep, the emotional lows are part of life 

[Deleted Member]

We’re meant to experience them for multiple reasons, here’s a few:

-To help shape what we desire and try to seek out. Use them as a learning experience

-Some are just gluttons for punishment and knowingly or unknowingly seek out potentially volatile situations

-Those lows make the highs so much more worthwhile

[no****]

The way to avoid heartbreak is to not communicate with any living thing...or... completely harden your emotions and put them to one side.

[Li****]

If you chose to live life by not living very much at all, staying distant and closed off from the best parts of it? Yes, avoidable.
If not, it's just part of life.
It makes you more thankful for the good you have experiencing the opposite. Life needs the balance of both experience/lessons learned and success

[sa****]

Personally I have a thing for psychopaths. I love pretty much everything about them except the violent crimes they commit & how they destroy people’s lives for their own amusement

I feel alllll the emotions, while psychopaths love the attention I give them but they don’t have the ability to feel social emotions like love or ‘I give a shit’-ness.

Idk, somehow it works for me

[Puppy6411]

As has been said, you could become a hermit and communicate with no-one.

All interactions will have ups and downs, light and shade.

Highs and lows cannot exist without each other (what would you have to compare against?)
The more fully you chase one side, the more you have to accept the other.

[mj****]

Heartbreak is the price of love can’t avoid it if you live full life it’s part of living unless you hide in a cave your heart will be broken

[JA****]

In my eyes without heartbreak you can't experience the opposite end of the spectrum. I've learnt alot through heartache. What I do and don't want, what I will and won't put up with, what mistakes I made so I won't repeat them again etc etc etc. I look back on past heartache with fondness for the most part and you learn a hell of a lot about yourself!! Would I willingly run out looking for heartbreak!? Hell no lol. Most of my growth in life has come from it though 😊 be willing to love- even if it feels risky.

[po****]

I feel that the bad allows us to appreciate the good. But at the same time being careful to not allow too much heartbreak to the point that you quit caring about life. The need to love yourself, even if the slightest, is necessary to keep yourself from staying in that spiral. With experience of relationships you'll learn more about yourself- which will help you know what you truly want or don't want in the future. Heartbreaks should be lessons learned. The more lessons learned.. the wiser at decision making you become and you learn to be thankful for those terrible lessons. But that's just my opinion. Hope it helps.

[Deleted Member]

Nope it's part of life everyone deals with it, something everyone has learned to deal with. Time to just accept it boss, and learn like everyone else.

[My****]

Heartbreaks are inevitable based on the idea that’s there’s a match for us all because there’s people out there that use there quirks although voiced or pointed out become their excuse to give up on the ideal match but that’s just my experience but if you don let your guard down you may never know but it’s better than concern over walking on eggshells

[My****]

Hope that wasn’t so negative as to stop you from taking the chance that’s what makes it worth it in the end at least to me

[7A****]

I have been going through a long drawn out heartbreak for months. My advice, don't hang on. If you see it's about to die, you don't necessarily have to kill it, just don't hang on,when it goes.
And yes, heart breaks happen to people who have a heart. People who care, hurt the most. Although it doesn't make it hurt less, I do know how you feel and I wish for you healing.

[My****]

Thanks I wasn’t expecting any response to that but it’s a bitch and you sound like you have a handle on it good luck out there

[Ri****]

Heart breaks happen, but do not let the same person to conitue breaking your heart. That is just *** at thag point, learning through heartbreaks suck but take something away from it.