ki**** Posted July 20, 2022 Posted July 20, 2022 Yeah. A submissive has the right to terminate a contract at any time. Or atleast they should.
Deleted Member Posted July 20, 2022 Posted July 20, 2022 It's not borderline. It IS *** and I would make a police report.
Da**** Posted July 20, 2022 Posted July 20, 2022 Monday at 04:05 PM, ChuckR1962 said: It is not uncommon for a professional Dom to require you to sign a contract. And many people do sign them. However, you must be very careful about signing them. The contract basically immunizes the Dominant party from any liability if you get seriously ill or injured. You cannot sue them if they don't respect your limits and you suffer from it. It gives them a license to do anything they want to you and you have no repercussions. You are legally screwed. The contract protects the Dom, and only the Dom. These contracts should be illegal, but they are not. And they are legally binding, as well. Basically, you sign your life, your finances, and income over to the Dom. Think well and hard before you sign a slave/owner contract because, they are extremely hard to get out of if you change your mind. Learn the truth buddy... not a legal contract as it has been said here MANY times.. it doesn't protect anyone and the "dom" is still an ***r
Deleted Member Posted July 21, 2022 Posted July 21, 2022 Bdsm contracts 100% cannot be legally (or otherwise) en***d. What your friend is experiencing is ***, and she needs to know that she can leave him as a partner as well as a Dom *at any time* if she does not consent to something, then depending on what it is he does to her/***s her to do, it is ***, sexual ***, and/or ***. It sounds like she needs to go to the police if he won't just let her leave.
Ca**** Posted July 21, 2022 Posted July 21, 2022 Exactly… He’s an ***r hiding behind the mask of “professional dom” and contracts…
ke**** Posted July 21, 2022 Posted July 21, 2022 The contract is in effect part of the kink and what ever kink you are into whether it's spanking, ***, bondage, etc it is a consensual act not a legally binding contract
ma**** Posted July 22, 2022 Posted July 22, 2022 Yeah no that's an ***r masquerading as a Dom. Your friend needs to ditch this dude, he's clearly got no respect for her and needs to be cut from her life, arguably for her safety. If he's willing to *** her into participating in a consensual relationship, how much will he, for example, respect safe words with hazardous play (knife play, for example)? Nah, your friend needs to move on to healthier pasteurs, and ideally cut ties with this wannabe dom entirely.
Se**** Posted July 22, 2022 Posted July 22, 2022 Sign everything from now on under duress. Sign under duress under your name they will never know it that's always your out to every contact. And for two I would just leave the contract there's no way shape and forms this contract will ever be en***d and no court.
Deleted Member Posted July 22, 2022 Posted July 22, 2022 contracts can and should be broken when its that kind of situation especially
Br**** Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 9 hours ago, subtimes said: contracts can and should be broken when its that kind of situation especially A contract is only ever a voluntary playtool. That play may be full time and involve various daily tasks but it is never to be confused as signing rights over type f**kery.
ey**** Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 there's been some odd comments - but - for a few bits contracts in kink have a few different potential uses one is fun one is a form of symbolism - perhaps the contract is to form part of ownership and another is a basis of being clear what you would want/expect from each other - so a way to kinda negotiate play - and having it in writing means either can return to it; particularly important for the Dominant to reference limits and consent (an exception that is binding is if it is a filming or release contract; but even then that has to be done in accordance to local laws - it can't just be "I consent that this person can do what they want on camera") if someone is pushing for things in writing very quickly this can be a red flag if it feels like they're going to use it against you as a basis of consent ("you signed this thing saying we could do this play") or to hang over as a threat. The other thing if especially been drawn up in early days, this should have two way input. mind two way input COULD be the Dominant saying "these are all my terms take it or leave it" and the sub saying "there is one thing I disagree with and so if you won't be flexible then I leave it" which can be the basis for any consent anyway.
ju**** Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 Don't sign contracts without reading small print.Legal or not, take responsibility n live upto it :p jk
Deleted Member Posted July 24, 2022 Posted July 24, 2022 6 hours ago, junkyard said: Don't sign contracts without reading small print.Legal or not, take responsibility n live upto it :p jk Easier said than done to take responsibility if this is an abusive relationship which sounds highly likely!
ju**** Posted July 24, 2022 Posted July 24, 2022 Yes if it was a love contract,but most arnt.If one knows the discipline of the contract,n they sign.sure its not legal,but it sucks if you fail a contract you decided to sign.n some never had someone hold them responsible for anything,which hence the person getting off to contract obligations.
Da**** Posted July 24, 2022 Posted July 24, 2022 7 hours ago, junkyard said: Don't sign contracts without reading small print.Legal or not, take responsibility n live upto it :p jk Did you read what was actually going on???? She was ***d to sign an extension... no small print...
Dy**** Posted July 24, 2022 Posted July 24, 2022 1 hour ago, Daddy-n-sub said: Did you read what was actually going on???? She was ***d to sign an extension... no small print... I'm glad I wasn't the only one who caught that.
Da**** Posted July 24, 2022 Posted July 24, 2022 7 hours ago, junkyard said: Says the one signing up to drive for a bank robbery What????
Deleted Member Posted July 27, 2022 Posted July 27, 2022 Once rules in a contract are broken that contract is no longer valid. She is not bound to him in any way shape or form but it sounds like she might need to involve other people to help her physically leave
de**** Posted July 31, 2022 Posted July 31, 2022 She is free to go. The hell with him, self preservation first.
Chloebear Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 It doesn’t constitute a legal contract. Nothing keeps her there apart from her decision. Any perceived obligation is dismissed by his failure to meet his requirements as a Dominant, that quite aside from the intimidation and bullying tactics he’s employing. These contracts are never legally binding, nor do they confer legal protection. They are just a record of an agreement within a dynamic captures in a formal format. Clarity with expectations is very helpful when setting up a dynamic, so they have their uses, but legal obligation or protection aren’t included in those uses.
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