li**** Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 Only close friends and my Sir know my real name. My profile name on here is my nickname or a shorten version is lilm that people call me.
Ro**** Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 And even then how well do you know someone without time telling how it will be
Ba**** Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 Here or real life most people know me as Ted. So its not a name your going to find on anywhere social media wise but alot of people think thats my real name lol. My nearest and dearest on here know my real name and I'm fine with that.
Chastity_Pup_Gabbia Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 As mentioned in previous messages I tend to go by my username and only a few people know my real name or true identity (as I’m a masker). But the ones that do know me I trust a lot. However, I still tread cautiously when opening up to people as not just to avoid mixing my personal life with me kink side but also a way of sifting out true or potential playmates / partner from the scammers. But as I said earlier the ones who know me know my personality is like my moniker her although my look and names are completely different, and they are trusted friends. 😊
Deleted Member Posted July 23, 2022 Author Posted July 23, 2022 For me it's not just about what my name is. I have been interrogated by women wanting my entire life history at first meet and it made me very uncomfortable. If we were talking about embarking on a LTR then fair enough but when it's been clearly stated that I only want a bit of NSA FF fun, I don't expect to have to divulge endless details about my home life, where I was born and god knows what else... That is private and I don't want to know about anyone else's family or work etc. My kinky life is 100% separate to my home life and it will stay that way for good reasons. I've had a stalker and bunny boiler psycho and it wasn't a nice experience at all. It has to be a balance but if someone doesn't want to tell you their name or life history they may have good reason for it so don't just automatically assume they are some lying cheat or dodgy scammer.
DeviantInside Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 I probably give out my real name too easily if anything. My given name makes me supremely easy to google. Thankfully it’s not been a problem so far.
Deleted Member Posted July 25, 2022 Author Posted July 25, 2022 I tend to use the nickname most people call me in meatspace as well as online. It's not my legal name, but it's what everyone calls me so 🤷♀️
Deleted Member Posted August 8, 2022 Author Posted August 8, 2022 Well, my real name is now my dead name, though I'm still making it official. So with that and the fact that I have used another name as an artist even I'm getting confused! It's been less about being anonymous online (though nothing wrong with protecting privacy) and more with hating my dead name. The fun of being non-binary!
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