She wants to know

[gr****]

Get a kit of butt plugs and work up on them. It will help ease her into it.

[Ma****]

Good one

[be****]

Patience going slow and lube if you rush things it can be a bad experience

[sl****]

Enemas before play are you friend if you don't want a mess

[Jh****]

All the above is sound advice! The biggest tip from me is don't rush it and make sure she's relaxed. If she's anxious (she probably will be if it's her first time), go slow. Use lots of lube and stop if it starts to hurt her. Give it a second and try again. I'm talking using a finger here. Start by easing the tip of your index finger inside her. Her arse will grip your finger so tightly. You will literally be able to feel when she relaxes. Then push in a little further.
The first girl I gave her first anal to, I did the above then once my whole finger was in, I held a wand to her clit and gently pushed in and out with my finger until she came. That was it for the first try. Needless to say she wanted more.
Good luck dude and do let us know how you get on!

TLDR: Slow, lots of lube and stop and start again.

[Bi****]

1 hour ago, Jhster76 said:

All the above is sound advice! The biggest tip from me is don't rush it and make sure she's relaxed. If she's anxious (she probably will be if it's her first time), go slow. Use lots of lube and stop if it starts to hurt her. Give it a second and try again. I'm talking using a finger here. Start by easing the tip of your index finger inside her. Her arse will grip your finger so tightly. You will literally be able to feel when she relaxes. Then push in a little further.
The first girl I gave her first anal to, I did the above then once my whole finger was in, I held a wand to her clit and gently pushed in and out with my finger until she came. That was it for the first try. Needless to say she wanted more.
Good luck dude and do let us know how you get on!

TLDR: Slow, lots of lube and stop and start again.

What position was she in for that?

[Deleted Member]

For the first time, she should use an enema and consume only fluids for 3 hours before sex. You can use teething gel and lots and lots of lube. It's never a bad idea to start with toys first and get her use to have that kind of sensation there.

[Fr****]

I purchased different sized butt plugs to start out with. They make some good variety packs for different sizes. I started with my husband playing around the area during doggy style sex and it feels amazing. I never thought I would be an anal girl but now I can’t get enough of it lol after some time practicing with fingers we slowly moved to the smallest size butt plug I had. After a few months of only using the smaller size during sex we slowly advanced to the next size up. I’m almost done with the sizing and almost ready to take c**k 😊 it is a given feeling at first for sure. But the more you learn to kinda relax yourself your guaranteed to have increased pleasure especially when cumming. Hope this helps!

[Deleted Member]

Put your thumb up her butt while penetrating or playing ; eating; fingering here 🦪

[sl****]

Be aware that the flesh around the anus is quit delicate and can tear, so be cautious about using numbing creams as she may not realize damage is being done.
I use Fleet saline enemas a few hours before play. I've never had any messes using an enema.
As others suggest, thicker lubes are best, go slow, and warmer her up with your mouth and/or fingers first. Smaller, smooth silicone dildos (with water-based lube) are good too.

[bb****]

Constantly yill she craves it...
My experience

[Bi****]

Last night couldn’t have went any better for the two of us and especially my girlfriend. She did amazing, we took a ton of time and went all the way eventually. Thanks for all the help

[Di****]

Start with plugs and finger grazing

[su****]

Now let her return the favour

[su****]

Just shove it in

[su****]

Yes lol but gently

[Mi****]

Friday at 10:02 PM, summertrekker said:

Just shove it in

Idiot

[su****]

How else would it work. You have to shove it in.

[Mi****]

That is lazy, vague, and frankly dangerous advice. Being too quick and ***ful, or not using enough lube can cause anal fissures/tears and cause considerable ***. Your advice is the opposite of every person on here. If it's a joke, don't. This is a sit for people to feel safe and they can't if people are ironically or "ironically" giving advice that causes injuries

[Deleted Member]

My friend told me that he takes an enema before anal to ensure cleanliness. Beyond that, take it slow and gently, and make sure there is lubrication. You can up the s***d as your partner gets used to it, but make sure you aren’t hurting them. Communication is key.

[Deleted Member]

Lots of lube and I suggest getting a butt plug which will help loosen her up some. A small one to begin with. And take it slow, have her ease herself into at her own pace. That is why my ex did when we first started.

[Deleted Member]

Use lube and start small

[lu****]

It gets amazing after a while

[sh****]

Self exploration initially is helpful. As others mentioned starting with a small butt plug and working up to bigger ones over time. I recommend she try having her boyfriend eat her ass and open her up with his tongue.

[pl****]

Tongue first, fingers second, toys third followed by penetration and ejaculation in her butt.