Fake Issues

[wo****]

Just block and report

[DarkArts1066]

As an aside to the OP’s comments, I’ve had a fair few ‘ladies’ into findom as a kink (allegedly) … with very little in their profiles, and no chat history or site involvement. They clearly are fishing for someone who will pay them for what they perceive as a service.
I have baited a couple just to check my own suspicions … and sure enough …

My favourite message was “you send me a little something, I send you a little something”
The inference there being that if I sent her ***, she would send me pictures.
Now, call me a cynic if you wish - but that is NOT how true Findom works…..

The use of the sn*pch*t image enhancer on her two photos was also a bit of a clue.

Report - Block - Done.

[Deleted Member]

I mess around with them

[ja****]

I’ve dealt with two fake accounts now. It’s best to hear them out and if you ever get a feeling they aren’t all they say they are, just block them. I like to reverse image search them and see if they get their pics from google. Easy way to tell.

[Deleted Member]

I think the green tick provides some assurance? Could be wrong there

[Mr****]

I wish we could have a defined list of fraudulent/blacklisted accounts. Or atleast have their accounts flagged as such somehow

[Deleted Member]

I have had a few fakes message me It’s a bunch of bullshit

[gr****]

Cut them off. Why waste any more time?

[CJ****]

As being a newbie myself. How do you sift them out?

[Deleted Member]

4 hours ago, MrGivesaFuck said:

I wish we could have a defined list of fraudulent/blacklisted accounts. Or atleast have their accounts flagged as such somehow

They change to quick.

[Deleted Member]

13 hours ago, SirArchA said:

The subject of whether someone is 'fake' or not is a contentious one. First we need to establish what constitutes a fake? Is it someone who makes demands right off bat? well maybe that's just their style. Is it someone who wants you to use a title straight away? Maybe that's their kink. 

Lots of things can be easily explained away by looking at it from a different perspective. 

My belief is that someone is being 'fake' when they are simply not who they say they are. And this can apply to either side of the slash. For example, someone posing as a Dominant type with 20 years experience when in reality they've watched a few movies. On the flip side, what about a submissive type that plays the part initially but in reality is looking for someone to be a sugar-daddy and didn't make that clear from the start. Of course it's easy to spot the ones that ask you to sign up to another website or join them on WhatsApp in their first message.

My advice is take your time, Vet, ask questions and follow your gut. Try not to call people fake just because their style doesn't match yours. But if your gut is telling you they are a fake then withdraw from contact. Block them everywhere and if necessary report their profile. 

Then pick yourself up, dust yourself off and try again. 

It wasn't a question of what constitutes Deming someone fake it was stated that at this point the person is a fake, and the person your writing this for is just asking what is a good if not best thing to do when you out right know it's a fake.

Why recommend ways that you deem shows its a fake make up situations for an example and try to say they might not know what a fake is when all that was needed is what to do with a fake. And honestly you didn't help you made it sound like they was in the wrong just for asking a very simple question

[Sq****]

Yeah it's not just on here either I've gotten nothing but either fake women or prostitutes that naughty prostitutes that narnia and real prostitutes from some of the guys I've talked to not my thing but I don't judge anybody But I've gotten like over 40 women on different sites that all thought were gonna be real dates and things turned out to all be either completely fake robots or not real people at all or fake meaning they want just *** for just *** for nothing Can't stand the Internet I missed the old days

[sl****]

Expose them. For sure.

[ey****]

11 hours ago, MrGivesaFuck said:

I wish we could have a defined list of fraudulent/blacklisted accounts. Or atleast have their accounts flagged as such somehow

Basically you click the user name and if it says "this person hasn't stuck to our rules" then you know they've been banned

if there is a message saying the person needs to verify then concerns are raised 

I'm not sure what benefit listing all banned users would give, given they're banned.  It also might be a little unfair since some of the catfish use names of people who are real users elsewhere 

[4R****]

6 hours ago, sayre652 said:

It wasn't a question of what constitutes Deming someone fake it was stated that at this point the person is a fake, and the person your writing this for is just asking what is a good if not best thing to do when you out right know it's a fake.

Why recommend ways that you deem shows its a fake make up situations for an example and try to say they might not know what a fake is when all that was needed is what to do with a fake. And honestly you didn't help you made it sound like they was in the wrong just for asking a very simple question

It's a discussion thread, all input is valid and several people have been in my inbox thanking me for this comment and it's led to some interesting discussion.

So thank you for your opinion, but I stand by what I've said!

[Deleted Member]

53 minutes ago, SirArchA said:

It's a discussion thread, all input is valid and several people have been in my inbox thanking me for this comment and it's led to some interesting discussion.

So thank you for your opinion, but I stand by what I've said!

Still not relevant to what was asked even if it helped others again you talk off topic. Glad it helped others but wasn't my point 👍help who you can

[Deleted Member]

What do you mean when you say someone is a fake? Like a man pretending to be a woman. Or like someone making out they’re a Dom when they aren’t?

[Deleted Member]

Yesterday at 05:27 PM, Alex10473 said:

What do you mean when you say someone is a fake? Like a man pretending to be a woman. Or like someone making out they’re a Dom when they aren’t?

I believe in this case a fake dom

[Ho****]

Take note of their birth sign, life path, and real motives.. then change to a much better feeling, and a healthier feeling, from an accepting positive individual, who enjoys lifting you up as much as you can get down. Avoid those signs in the future to someone genuine who can help your wishes from seed to full on fruit

[Deleted Member]

I think that if you run into a fake Dom mabey find out if they want to be a Dom but never had the chance.

[bl****]

Not sure if this helps but my wife would just block them bc it's not worth the stress when they keep harassing her