All for her...

[Deleted Member]

I am a female, obsessed with another female. She keeps me at a distance, and the few times that we've been together if she let me lick her p****. I don't get to see her or talk to her a whole lot because she works a lot and she's very busy.
I love everything about her even her flaws! She's all I think about. She knows that she has me wrapped around her little finger and likes to play games with me like making plans with me and canceling them last minute just to tease me. Then she'll text me while she's out with her friends, giving me attitude if I show any sign of jealousy, or if I try to go out with my friends.
She likes keeping me isolated and all for her. And the longer it goes on the more isolated I become and the more obsessed I become. Remembering this sweet taste of her p**** keeps me happy and eager see her again.
I want to show her how devoted I answer her bye getting her all my extra ***, to spend how she pleases. And I will ask for nothing in return.

I'd like to continue sharing my story as it goes and I'd like to hear your thoughts and comments about my situation. I'm also open to new and creative ways to make quick *** that I can give to her.
Thanks

[Co****]

Look for something new...

[mj****]

You are her slave

[Deleted Member]

You’re being used.

[Le****]

I'm very sorry to hear your in this situation. I understand, I had a similar experience. Sounds like she's a sadist with no mutual feelings. I do hope you don't help her financially.

[xx****]

Find a new carpet to munch on cuz girl don't let people take advantage of you.

[mc****]

She doesn’t care about you. You must find the strength within yourself to accept this and move on. With this being said, as soon as you do this, she will notice and try to reconcile. You must deny her. This is an ***r.

[Deleted Member]

Run away. You definitely deserve better. You should feel wanted and given the time you need from her. Sounds to me like she enjoys making you feel like shit. There are many more woman or men out there that will treat you right.
I hope you don’t actually enjoy how she’s treating you.

[Mr****]

She knows you are obsessed with her. So she takes advantage of you. Maybe you can get her to advance on you if you can make her jealous. Try to find some other woman and give her your attention, but not ***.
Them stop giving 1st woman *** and reduce attention towards her, she will definitely turn her focus towards you, and you can tell her you found this other woman, really make her details sound incredible and stunning. The 1st woman you are obsessed with might start demanding your attention and possibly want you around her more so she can keep you from who she is convinced is her new found rival
This may take a couple weeks but if you decline in interacting with the 1st women to the point that she craves it, you can get even more play with her.
If you want, I can try to help you bend the situation to your will. Just dm whenever and I'm happy to help.

[Deleted Member]

Damn!!! That’s really good advise!!! You kick ass MrGivesAFuck!

[Le****]

That's my cue to tap out lol hate games. Ttfn!

[Deleted Member]

Find someone else, she is just taking advantage of you.

[Wi****]

She’s taking advantage

[we****]

Just act like u don't give a f**k play her game, and throw it back at her, the more she see like u don't care anymore the more she'll want u trust me good luck

[Ba****]

Thats not a healthy relationship. Cut her off. Please don't do this to yourself. It'll f**k you up so badly.

[TheBookCollector]

The op raises many red flag, like.isolating you, making plans the. Cancelling them at last minute.

You need to extract yourself from the situation as.its unheathly as best, toxic at worst.

[Da****]

GET OUT!!!!!!She's just using you for ***, she has NO respect for you or your feelings.

[Deleted Member]

There is two explanation she using you or She might loves you more . There is a level of love when partners start hurting each other talk to her about that if she doesn’t show care just get an other female 🤷🏼

[Deleted Member]

A dynamic like this, though it may have the element of control in common, is not a dom/sub relationship or a kink/fetish/alt etc. This is manipulation and abusive, predatory behavior.

[yo****]

Sounds like you both would need a guy. To please her an you at the same time. You know giving her double trouble 😜💦💦. Also to keep you company. Probably would make her stay more often since it's always going to be double the fun attitude or no attitude.

[gr****]

I must agree with the other comments. This strikes me as abusive. The test is to have a conversation with her about what your needs are in the relationship. If she isn’t interested in your needs then this is not a healthy power dynamic and you will end up hurt.

If she does seem receptive and follow through with actions to where you’re both satisfied then congrats and more power to you.

But be careful of your willingness to make excuses for her.

Good luck.

[TheBookCollector]

1 hour ago, Little_Tennis said:

There is two explanation she using you or She might loves you more . There is a level of love when partners start hurting each other talk to her about that if she doesn’t show care just get an other female 🤷🏼

You seem to have missed the blatent red flags raised, theres isolating the op, gaslighting, giving.any spare ***.

Those are major red flags, i dont know why you dont see or or do you condone these things. Love has nothing to do with it, its *** pure and simple.

The OP needs to get out as its a one way toxic.relationship where the 'dominant' doesnt give a f**k about her.

[Xx****]

Whoa! Let me tell you as a person who was isolated for 20 yrs...it's toxic, unhealthy, you'll lose yourself and when you decide you've had enough...and you will eventually, hopefully not 20 yrs like it took me...you'll realize you have nothing to move on with because you have her your extra....*** isn't love..she's taking advantage...as women we need to support each other...build each other up...help each other straighten that crown and extend a hand when it's needed. You'll do as you wish, but ease know you're worth so much more 😉 Good luck my dear I hope it works for you.

[TheBookCollector]

3 hours ago, MrGivesaFuck said:

She knows you are obsessed with her. So she takes advantage of you. Maybe you can get her to advance on you if you can make her jealous. Try to find some other woman and give her your attention, but not ***.
Them stop giving 1st woman *** and reduce attention towards her, she will definitely turn her focus towards you, and you can tell her you found this other woman, really make her details sound incredible and stunning. The 1st woman you are obsessed with might start demanding your attention and possibly want you around her more so she can keep you from who she is convinced is her new found rival
This may take a couple weeks but if you decline in interacting with the 1st women to the point that she craves it, you can get even more play with her.
If you want, I can try to help you bend the situation to your will. Just dm whenever and I'm happy to help.

Thats just bad advice, trying to make.someone jealous.is a.childish way to sort out any.issues.

Besides the all the red flaga in the OP's statement indicate she should get out and run away from this other person who is simply abusing her.

[Xx****]

Obviously I cannot spell this evening but I think you get it lol