What do subs desire from their dom?

[Do****]

I don't know if you're still looking for ideas, but something you could include is to try something new together once a month/week. That something new could be a new kink you heard about, it could be a new way for you and your sub to greet each other, it could be something like a nudity week. Service and training is also something to consider: maybe your sub has to learn how to stand or sit with you, or how to hand you a hot drink made just the way you like it, or even just giving them lines to fill out in a notebook.

[Mi****]

We just signed our contract last week. Beforehand, he wrote and sent me what he would like in it and I did the same. He typed a draft and sent it to me. I then suggested amendments. Once agreed, I typed it up and we signed it in a private dungeon, new collars (a day one and a night one) for me too, which was a pleasant surprise. Don't forget the part on termination and what's expected when rules are broken

[Mz****]

Your sub should be negotiating the contract with you. You both should be expressing you wants, desires and needs then forming a contract. Getting ideas on here from strangers is not what should be happening. Each dynamic is so different from everyone else's.

[Je****]

Every sub is different

[Bi****]

Communication you need good communication. There are as many types of Subs as there are as many types of Doms multiplied by the number of known Kinks in the world. You will need to communicate with each other and you will need to find compromise any dominant sub relationship. There are limits you won't go to as a Dom just as there are limits your sub won't go to those need to be respected. Aftercare. I cannot say enough about aftercare. It is important that a sub receive it I recommend you research something called sub drop. There is also Dom drop which is a related term. If these are things you don't know anything about then you're not truly ready to be a Dom or a sub. There is more to being a Dom than most people realize. It involves caring and understanding of one's sub and a respect for each other's hard lines. Even in a relationship in which *** is part of the dynamic there still has to be respect.

[An****]

Frankly a subs main desire is for you to fulfill your desire through them. We want that look in your eye when you take it from us. Beyond that it differs for us all. but that's just sugar on the donut. 

[Li****]

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