Aftercare

[FreddieJobbs]

I also don’t know much about aftercare? I would love to be educated about it though! 

[Ba****]

Yesterday at 09:48 PM, x8timez said:

No, foreplay is before sex. This is after sex when you have both c*m.

This isn’t necessarily about sex at all. Aftercare can also come after a non sex bdsm scene. It can look like foreplay. But it isn’t for you to tell someone they’re wrong about what they need.

[Ba****]

6 hours ago, FreddieJobbs said:

I also don’t know much about aftercare? I would love to be educated about it though! 

Aftercare refers to the actions after sex or a scene that help you level back out. Intense scenes or sex can send hormones and chemicals in the brain racing. For every big rise, there’s a drop. The goal of aftercare is to help them normalise slowly and calmly to minimise the negative effects of drop. It also increases and strengthens the bond you share with your partner.

[st****]

Aftercare is there to show your partner how much you care about them it goes both ways most of the time I take care of her because it takes a lot to get her there but I’m thinking about I just did to her so after a while she comes sit on my lap and talk about what happened and make sure I know it was not my fault it was for her and this are love for each other

[x8****]

@BackRubsNBruises Where did I say he was wrong? Don't put words into my mouth! 🙄

[Ba****]

To whom were you referring to with your og comment then? You make it difficult to follow by not quoting. On a post about aftercare you called it foreplay with zero context. If I have missed something obvious, I apologise @x8timez

[E-dUbBs]

Thursday at 11:57 AM, BackRubsNBruises said:

Not everyone requires aftercare. This is why it must be negotiated along with all the fun parts of play. Also, aftercare looks different to people. For some, it’s cuddles and words of affirmation, for others it’s to be hate f**ked. It’s important that everyone walks away from play happy, so communication beforehand is essential

So true

[Wh****]

Yes I say it's heated cuz I'll be damned if I wake up and she's going for a vice versa get up fix breakfast then call quit