How to approach a couple to play

[ShyToKink]

New to all this. What’s the best way to approach another couple to see if they want to play?

[Deleted Member]

Get in contact first and gain trust

[ey****]

where is this couple? online or an event you go to?

have they in any way indicated they're looking for another couple to play with?

[Cheekysub247]

If online/site check their profile.
Most state the basics they are looking for.
If i see i am possibly (in theory) what they might be looking for (as in age, type, distance ect), then i would send a polite opening message explaining what i feel i match with their requirements, anything i see in common from our profiles ect, just the same as i would with anyone i message.
Just remember 'people first' not 'play thing' first 😊

[Seeknwifencucks]

People first before play partners and remember theirs 2 of them leave jealous and preconceived notion’s at door

[NoahnBre]

Ask

[Olliebob]

Tho I don’t have a better half don’t mean I don’t want a couple. Surely need help on this topic an most definitely have a thousand an one fantasies to explore 

[ey****]

43 minutes ago, Olliebob said:

Tho I don’t have a better half don’t mean I don’t want a couple. Surely need help on this topic an most definitely have a thousand an one fantasies to explore 

In general tips

I wouldn't say your fantasies are unimportant but, moreso, how do they align with someone else's?   How does someone else benefit in doing your fantasies with you?  Especially if, say, it is a couple who would both have to be on board.

it also depends on what these are

if a total stranger, particularly solo male, approached me or my wife about play/sex/serving us - it'd very likely be a no

if, however, it was a friend - then it would depend what they had in mind but then consider we're already friends and know each other.     And that makes a huge difference.