Job discretion and kink

[Au****]

I'm pretty open about what I do, I mean I'm straight up not going to tell you everything I'm into but if somebody mentioned it and they wanted to know more information I just say I studied a lot of fetishes and kinks. You can't really scare me at this point. It doesn't really bother me to find out somebody's into something weird at this point. I figure at least like one out of five people has tried something kinky.

Plus if you get into a conversation with your co-workers about something to do with fetishes or kinks there's nothing wrong with it, everybody's turned on by something. Even if it's gross or messed up. You can't really help that too much

[Ma****]

I never really hid myself from coworkers. I kept it professional (no HR complaints) but it was always pretty well known the various kink/fetish communities I belonged to. If anyone asked I'd tell em I'm happy to talk and spread education after shift especially if it was safety related or someone felt their own kink life wasn't quite right (ie an abusive partner parading as a Dom). I never denied it bc I'm confident in myself but I always made sure to keep any knowledge about the subject not myself.

[SZ****]

I am a doctor too and I have exactly this type of problem. I’m scared to go to a my nearest feet fetish club about 70 miles away due to privacy concerns. I really want to but I’m afraid.

[Deleted Member]

Depends on the person
I don’t care who knows.
But some job’s probably not good. Because their not open to it.

So yeah.
Hiding is best sometimes
But if you want to go out and have fun
Pick stuff far away for vacations
Thats all i can say

[SZ****]

Yes your answer makes sense but I don’t want to wait only on vacations to potentially live out my fetish. I wish to be able to enjoy it on a given weekend not wait for vacations that come about 3 weeks per year. That’s 49-50 weeks of waiting 😓

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, SZK10 said:

Yes your answer makes sense but I don’t want to wait only on vacations to potentially live out my fetish. I wish to be able to enjoy it on a given weekend not wait for vacations that come about 3 weeks per year. That’s 49-50 weeks of waiting 😓

True

I mean gosh
70 miles a way is really far.
What are the odds anyone will know its you.
Plus, at least they know you know what *** is.
Probably make for a good laugh and better trust.

I do know where your coming from.
I’ve had some customers find out and not care
And some care and just ghost me.
Im a full time crossdresser
But when i do my job.
I wear man looking clothes
I love it so if they dont like it
Thats their problem
But I dont make much ***
You your dr.
So yeah i probably be the same way.

But it is 70 miles away
So i fight the *** and take a chance
The odds of someone seeing you
Probably like an office not having rubber gloves.

[lo****]

3 hours ago, SZK10 said:

Yes your answer makes sense but I don’t want to wait only on vacations to potentially live out my fetish. I wish to be able to enjoy it on a given weekend not wait for vacations that come about 3 weeks per year. That’s 49-50 weeks of waiting 😓

What if you broke up the vacation days to several "weekend get aways"

[SZ****]

But the issue would still be the same even if I broke up vacation stays into several weekends. Out of 365 days, only 21 or so will be used for “fun?” What about the other 344 days?
I also prefer a long vacation because a staycation just feels like a normal weekend and work is just around the corner 😭