CopperKnob Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 57 minutes ago, gemini_man said: I wouldn't know KnobberCrop...is it? 🤣😂 Love ya really I does 😘 Ooo, imagine a crop shaped like a 🍆
Deleted Member Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 21 hours ago, TxFrank said: You "heard" what you should do? Well, maybe you should decide what you want to do and not lean on preconceived ideas from others. Finding someone compatible here isn't difficult or a trick. I found my soul mate here within a month of signing up. It's a simple formula. Be honest about what you seek. Be honest about what you are and what you are not. Be courteous. Don't be a jerk. I agree with you, but you are Very Lucky "within a month" in partnership. This is not most people. Sometimes, it can take years. That is why the word "Patience" is often mentioned in forums. Also... congratulations in soulmate!💖
TxFrank Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 8 minutes ago, kiseu said: I agree with you, but you are Very Lucky "within a month" in partnership. This is not most people. Sometimes, it can take years. That is why the word "Patience" is often mentioned in forums. Also... congratulations in soulmate!💖 I'm seriously tired of being told I'm lucky. No. I choose to be honest, effective and intelligent in my pursuit. If it were luck I would not have also found my late wife in a similar time frame and manner. Are people really that bad at building relationships? I generally don't even like people yet I can make connections and lasting bonds with an appropriate amount of effort. Perhaps that is what most lack: an appropriate amount of effort.
Deleted Member Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 4 minutes ago, TxFrank said: I'm seriously tired of being told I'm lucky. No. I choose to be honest, effective and intelligent in my pursuit. If it were luck I would not have also found my late wife in a similar time frame and manner. Are people really that bad at building relationships? I generally don't even like people yet I can make connections and lasting bonds with an appropriate amount of effort. Perhaps that is what most lack: an appropriate amount of effort. I disagree with you in "effort". I make efforts with people!! I don't play games. I do all in actions. It is not about all in "us". It depends on the other person, and their actions as well. If "they" are not interested or not their intentions, then there will be no bonds or any chance of a mate.
ca**** Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 2 hours ago, CopperKnob said: Is this what they call "online bullying" or "trolling" 🤔🤣 ....or both maybe .. or none quite possibly.... or maybe many other numerous ways to describe it!
TxFrank Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 11 minutes ago, kiseu said: I disagree with you in "effort". I make efforts with people!! I don't play games. I do all in actions. It is not about all in "us". It depends on the other person, and their actions as well. If "they" are not interested or not their intentions, then there will be no bonds or any chance of a mate. That is the intelligent part of the pursuit I mentioned. I'm not wasting my time on individuals who don't efficiently display what they are looking for. Those that I do pursue know what they're looking for and what they offer. Hence, their profiles are easy to judge for compatibility. Seriously, this is why people end up with the wrong car, wrong house, wrong mate. They don't know what they are looking for.
Deleted Member Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 23 minutes ago, TxFrank said: That is the intelligent part of the pursuit I mentioned. I'm not wasting my time on individuals who don't efficiently display what they are looking for. Those that I do pursue know what they're looking for and what they offer. Hence, their profiles are easy to judge for compatibility. Seriously, this is why people end up with the wrong car, wrong house, wrong mate. They don't know what they are looking for. In alot cases it takes more than a month. You can do everything right, but it is not 100% gauranteed. Also, you met a person who is going the same direction as you, but if they don't want a relationship within the month, then you have a choice to wait or not.... bottom line, it won't be happening within a month in any directions.
CopperKnob Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 1 hour ago, callipygian said: ....or both maybe .. or none quite possibly.... or maybe many other numerous ways to describe it! I'll go with neither, purely because I'm 'nice' and think that the majority of people are, also 'nice'
ca**** Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 (edited) "I'll go with neither, purely because I'm 'nice' and think that the majority of people are, also 'nice' " I appreciate that viewpoint and stance..... Many people are nice indeed I enjoy a play on words. Edited September 20, 2022 by callipygian
TxFrank Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 (edited) 1 hour ago, kiseu said: In alot cases it takes more than a month. You can do everything right, but it is not 100% gauranteed. Also, you met a person who is going the same direction as you, but if they don't want a relationship within the month, then you have a choice to wait or not.... bottom line, it won't be happening within a month in any directions. That's definitely not the bottom line because obviously it does happen. And meeting someone "going in the same direction..." is the point of dating, online or otherwise. It's not like we both hadn't sifted through the trash heap that is humanity prior to meeting. Seriously, your take on meeting others is very pessimistic and depressing. Edited September 20, 2022 by TxFrank Spelling
Deleted Member Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 17 minutes ago, TxFrank said: That's definitely not the bottom line because obviously it does happen. And meeting someone "going in the same direction..." is the point of dating, online or otherwise. It's not like we both hadn't sifted through the trash heap that is humanity prior to meeting. Seriously, your take on meeting others is very pessimistic and depressing. I can be at your level, but won't. OP, my apologies for taking off course. Back to topic...
TxFrank Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 19 minutes ago, kiseu said: I can be at your level, but won't. OP, my apologies for taking off course. Back to topic... No. You can't. If you could, you might not have such a poor attitude and experience with dating. But I do encourage you to try! You might start with a profile picture.
Je**** Posted September 20, 2022 Posted September 20, 2022 For me id feel very sad if someone thinks or says theyve completed their life checklist. Whats left to look forward to? Where is the aim to grow and develop and try new things. Each person and experience is different and opens different doors. If you truely care to have no other lists to check. Life will get very boring in my opinion
Sire_Osiris Posted September 20, 2022 Author Posted September 20, 2022 I want to thank many of you for your sincere response. Some of them I found encouraging.
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