Ja**** Posted March 3 Posted March 3 Part of me thinks your question itself would be a good way to approach someone. Something like…”Hey baby. How do you like approached?” 😂
Redbottom*** Posted March 3 Posted March 3 I've been thinking about this more, and perhaps we (i.e subs) have more of a responsibility in defining this on our profiles etc. As said earlier I list how I don't want to be approached but not how I would prefer. Maybe we should be or FET admin... Add as profile question. I mean some won't take any notice of, but may help genuine Dom's
tl**** Posted March 16 Posted March 16 I like to be approached with kindness, class, respect and honesty. I mean don't get me wrong I love a ***ful man (put me where you want me) but to just be rude or disgusting or disrespectful about it at first...umm no. But yes even if someone were to ask me "How would you like to be approached" shows they are considering me not just them.
Se**** Posted March 19 Posted March 19 Can depend on a number of things, but 9/10, read my profile, pick something to talk about, vanilla first (flirting ok!) but don’t just jump in with demands or being creepy…
iv**** Posted March 22 Posted March 22 Assertively, with knowledge of my bio, not expecting me to be dtf, or randomly meet someone i barely know. Ask questions because i dislike getting to know someone and find out we’re not even into the same s**t
Yo**** Posted March 22 Posted March 22 The first message that I would want, would to be degraded and told that im their property. And stuff like that. But that's just me personally 🥵😁
Go**** Posted March 23 Posted March 23 A normal get to know you conversation. Please do not come in my inbox seeking to pleasure yourself from me. Vet people, vet! Titles are earned not just expected. No I will not call you Daddy or Sir during our first conversation, and probably not anytime soon until trust and communication have been well established.
un**** Posted March 23 Posted March 23 I would like to be approached respectfully and with a hint of praise. I do not respond well to people or Doms who’s first chat is they want to bend me over a table. I am trying to find an authentic care-taking Dom. Someone who approaches me with care.
Be**** Posted March 31 Posted March 31 To be quite honest I am with many others in that I like to be approached respectfully but at the same time welcome a dom who knows what it is they seek or want and has no issues communicating that very early on. They can be direct and blunt but still be respectful in my eyes. And I certainly like if they take more of a lead in communicating as I can surely do so as I believe I am rather eloquent, but it doesn't change that I am still rather shy 😅
Fo**** Posted April 11 Posted April 11 Be nice be open show me you read some of my page give something to start a conversation lead with
ch**** Posted April 12 Posted April 12 I think a message or some feedback, though given it's a paid for feature (for messaging) most of the time, a message outside the app would be good as shows read my profile description.
su**** Posted April 13 Posted April 13 A subtle approach including a hint that my profile has interested them. Kindness is always noticed
Deleted Member Posted April 20 Posted April 20 Introduce themself. Say something about reading profile that caught their attention and start with a question or 2.
Redbottom*** Posted April 24 Posted April 24 From this conversation, @FET admin a how I like to be approached section on profiles would be well received
Ki**** Posted April 25 Posted April 25 Hi I read your profile and find you very interesting and would like to get to know you better
Ro**** Posted April 30 Posted April 30 Hi, I'm so and so (never give yourself a title even if it's in your screen name) I read this on your profile and would like to ask you a question if you're interested. If no reply, move on. If they send a no thank you, move on. If they reply with interest please wait until the natural flow of subject comes up before asking or sending pics. It's a kink site, it'll come up if the interest is there.
Deleted Member Posted May 1 Posted May 1 Honestly just anything except asking me questions that are on my profile :3
Br**** Posted May 2 Posted May 2 I guess the approach is not important, just that someone approached at all
Deleted Member Posted May 4 Posted May 4 I like for people to read my profile and approach me with sense.
Deleted Member Posted May 4 Posted May 4 Yeah I don't think they are many real doms looking for someone like me so anything is like heyyy LoL
yo**** Posted May 4 Posted May 4 I don't want to look thirsty or desperate can someone give me some advice on how to find my happily ever after sub
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