Scammed and humiliated

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3 hours ago, chaz111 said:

My first experience was a scam too. Lost a fair amount of *** but wised up before going overboard. Came out wiser and better prepared on the other side and hopefully you can find that some sort of positive in it too

Oh yes.
If no video chat no ***
Do reverse background checks on any person I talk to you
 But it also made me think
Some people don’t do this, in a bad way 
I was thinking it could be some person that just can’t figure out anyway to make *** or at least extra ***
So they catfish us
I mean, if I’m dumb (not ment for but me) enough to give a bunch of ***
Because I’m dumb not stupid

But yeah, the first time always sucks
I had to shut down a bank account because of one scam 
But I learned
Keep all my banking stuff on another
That way they can’t hack this phone
Because if they do, they don’t get any banking info

I mean, I give *** to the homeless
But yeah, this Mistress scammed me in a whole Nother way

I have another person I talk to
The words that she says oh my gosh
 It’s all love
Impressive me a really
And with losing my wife only eight months ago
It’s kind of just what I need
So I figure I’m helping someone like buying the homeless food
So I figure what’s $30 a month or something

But oh gosh, the trust even if I meet someone in person
I’m still gonna be like OK how are they trying to scam me

But not everybody is fake online
I’m at my wife online
We talked video chat all the time
She lived in California I lived in Wisconsin
It was a good 2 1/2 years
Eight days of marriage
 But the good thing that came out of it
At least I don’t have to say I’m single
Now I can say I’m a widow
Yeah, my mines really messed up 


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3 hours ago, chaz111 said:

My first experience was a scam too. Lost a fair amount of *** but wised up before going overboard. Came out wiser and better prepared on the other side and hopefully you can find that some sort of positive in it too

Sorry to hear you lost *** dude

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1 hour ago, johnnydave said:

Yeah I think a lot of people suck!
I've been scammed twice here before, she actually sounded very real,cool and polite not until she got a couple of $$ from me and then she stopped talking to me stopped taking my calls and no texts messages coming from her anymore. Well I guess it is what it is. One can not always be a fool ✊

Wow thats crazy
Like oh thanks bye.
Wow
I had to block the one i was talking to

I told her once again, but I did not believe that she was who she claimed to be
I said, if you really are her you would video chat me
That’s when she asked well if you pay the Internet for me I told you I had Internet problems
I said, no, you didn’t
You said you got a flat tire then you got a ticket
Her driver did. 
Then I told you I was broke
Then you asked me for $50 to pay medication
If you were real, you would video chat me 
 I said I’m not paying your Internet
I already paid your ***. You never showed up either
So I’m not gonna give you more *** so you cannot video chat me
I’m dumb but not stupid
Fool me once shame on me
Fool me twice I’m getting a baseball bat smack myself in the head 

So instead, I was nice
Gave her the middle finger

Then she said she was gonna call my work
She said she was gonna put my video and pictures that I had sent her
All over the social medias
And all over the place, news, papers and stuff like that

I said, go ahead
It’ll give me something to talk about
When people asked me whats going on

She said OK if that’s what you

I then blocked her and reported her last 50 posts.

Wow
Man I feel for you on that one.
Wow thats messed up.
Just ghosted you





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For the pictures and videos the OP sent, my guess would be that the scammer is using them on an escort advertising site to scam others.
Alternatively, they may use the pics and videos as blackmail. Don’t take their threats seriously if they do.
As for the other posters, never, EVER send *** to people you haven’t met in person, and even after meeting in person, be cautious. Deposit scams are a common strategy. I managed to waste the time of one of these scammers for a full hour, and when they caught on, they cursed me out in Hindi. So any pics or videos you see are not necessarily proof that you’re talking to the actual person.

[pl****]

Being a sub is very exposing

[Th****]

I am SO glad that I am not alone in this.
I got scammed too only I really liked her and the daddy.
That’s why I’m here I hope to meet with real people.
I am excited to leave that behind and begin this new journey.

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Best advice I can give at this point is just take the loss as a lesson. Lots of Dom's will probably ask for things like this because let's be honest, we all like dirty pics and videos. But it's perfectly fine to say no until you know it's safe. Besides, sexy can be done without full frontal nudity or lewd acts. If they can't take no as an answer then ignore them.

[Da****]

I have just the right paddle for scammers😈

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There's so many scammers on here unfortunately. I've lost 50 quid to someone on here and there isn't really anything I can do about it.

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51 minutes ago, guy4hawtfunNI said:

There's so many scammers on here unfortunately. I've lost 50 quid to someone on here and there isn't really anything I can do about it.

Yeah same bro I lost £500 to someone on here

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Like anywhere else, you just have to be careful and use common sense. Unfortunately, there are scammers everywhere. Don’t send pics until you’ve established the other person is authentic. If it seems too good to be true...

[PN****]

I literally had this happen to me overnight! We negotiated terms and set up rewards etc on other app. Said goodnight and made goals for today. I woke up to being blocked and totally ghosted :(. I allowed myself to be totally *** and open only to be used. Feel like an idiot now - how do I trust from here?

[ge****]

26 minutes ago, PNpleaser2 said:

I literally had this happen to me overnight! We negotiated terms and set up rewards etc on other app. Said goodnight and made goals for today. I woke up to being blocked and totally ghosted :(. I allowed myself to be totally *** and open only to be used. Feel like an idiot now - how do I trust from here?

Firstly sorry it's happened to you - and secondly whilst I understand why you might feel like an idiot, you really aren't one.
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Sadly it's a common thing on-line, where people are looking for instant gratification, and will say whatever it takes to find it - and once they've got that will disappear into the sunset despite any promises of more - and it can be easy to be taken in by it, after all, all you have is words on a screen to go by.
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The way to go, is not be tempted to dive into things immediately and definitely not until you are sure you have a level of trust with someone - those that are genuine in their intentions will understand and be happy to wait until you're ready to share more.
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That's not foolproof of course, but at least weeds out those looking for a quick round of sex talk and sexy picture sending.

[PN****]

Thank you, actually really helpful advice. I kinda thought as we’re all on here with our kinks out, there would be less bs. I’ll be more vigilant with my vulnerability from now on.

[ge****]

51 minutes ago, PNpleaser2 said:

Thank you, actually really helpful advice. I kinda thought as we’re all on here with our kinks out, there would be less bs. I’ll be more vigilant with my vulnerability from now on.

Sadly whilst the upside of sites like this is being able to be open and honest and freely express your kinks with likeminded others - the downside is they will also attract the kind out for a quick fix or to exploit.
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There are a lot of good people out there, the key is being able to distinguish them from the users, ***rs, fantasists and worse.
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Keeping your guard up until you are ready to drop it is important.