Oral sex - pussy eating

[RodgerDodger]

Man here - I’ve found that my partners typically guide me to what they want by how she moves and vocalizes. I’m going to go out on a limb and assume you’re not a cold fish who’s not giving real-time sensory feedback. In that case - perhaps being more ***ful with your physical and vocal feedback?

I’m gonna brag for a moment - but I usually get god marks on this. The thing is - I don’t think I’m anything special - I just start and then read her cues and let her guide me to what she wants.

[Sting-ATL]

I found sometimes less is more. The woman's genitals are much different than the men's genitals. It takes a minimum of 20 minutes for most women to get ready (*** flow and wetness). Once men get an erection, we are ready, and this can happen in seconds. Men get off with vigorous movement. The clit is too sensitive to touch directly at first. She has to be warmed up first. Lightly rub downward on the clit's hood way before exposing and touching the clit. I like to start by cupping the pussy mound with my hand and not moving it. It makes her go a bit crazy, and she will move against your hand. Same with the G-spot, put one finger first there minutes without moving, then and then two fingers when I come back, then add G-spot pressure and back off.  Not just pay attention to moans or words but her thigh and hip movement. Also, the pussy changes during her arousal, especially the G-spot and the lips and clit too. Licking slowly and lightly goes a long way. Yes, there will be a 20-30-minute build-up to the crescendo but you don't start out as hard and fast. 

[Kirri]

Umm sting....hate to say it but 20 mins....

I can finish myself in less than 5 from start to finish, as can most women who i know who know themselfs well. It does not take 20 mins for a woman to be "ready" to orgasm...

[YorkshireBiker]

I’m no expert at it myself, but I can’t go for 20 min. She’s normally done after 5 or so and then it’s too sensitive and becomes unenjoyable. I’d like to carry on and see if I can make her cum again but she doesn’t like that at all. 

[Deleted Member]

@yorkshirebiker my roommate was the same way after one orgasm she'd tell herself away... Got her one night while she was sleeping of course she woke up enjoyed the 1st orgasm and was able to get her to 4... next morning she gave me this look and told me that was amazing. Now she won't let me go past 4 and trying to find someone to let me explore pass 4 orgasms

[Sting-ATL]

6 hours ago, Kirri said:

Umm sting....hate to say it but 20 mins....

I can finish myself in less than 5 from start to finish, as can most women who i know who know themselfs well. It does not take 20 mins for a woman to be "ready" to orgasm...

You are 100% right; the fastest point from A to B can be 5 minutes. I would consider that an Interstate driving at 79 MPH.

I'm talking about a country road: driving 25 MPH and maybe 35 MPH with slow turns, hills and valleys, and maybe a few stop signs. 

There are many roads, and I was suggesting to this group the road less traveled. 

 

[RodgerDodger]

I don’t know about the 20 minute thing - but I’m a big fan of foreplay and/or teasing so when I am in service of a lady - she’ll be worked up pretty good by the time my mouth lands.

[Kirri]

No....i think it's the difference between driving super slow through all countryside vs knowing exactly where you need to go and knowing the route. I'm telling you as a woman it does not take 20 mins for a woman to be ready to climax and fully enjoy it. I'm not saying that 20 mins wouldn't be enjoyable sometimes, it just isn't a hard and fast rule that it takes a minimum of 20 min for a woman to get wet.... Personally sometimes if it takes too long everything becomes over sensitive and orgasm becomes extremely unlikely.

[RodgerDodger]

Ok y’all. This thread has convinced me my goal in life this weekend is to service a pillow princess to the best of my ability.

[ThumperG]

3 hours ago, RodgerDodger said:

Ok y’all. This thread has convinced me my goal in life this weekend is to service a pillow princess to the best of my ability.

Listen NOT one person speaks for all when it comes to us women ok? So just keep THAT in mind. This ISN'T a mugging or a pop-in at the convenience store to pick up a coffee on our way to work. This isn't what I consider a quick "Grab and Go" to pop a 1-off race in 5 minutes ok? EACH woman will be the one who tells you what works for them, listen with perked ears and you will never go wrong. But hey what do I know? I'm just the one who has subs pace themselves right AND I can blow out double digits~Mistress😉💜😎

[Deleted Member]

I like your enthusiasm @RodgerDodger

[ch****]

Always happy to take instruction. At the end of the day you have to push the right buttons and make it pleasurable for the recipient. Without them telling you what they like how would you know🤔

You can assume and take the lead and hope you are doing the right thing and then check every so often👍

[Ha****]

I was in a 20 year relationship with a woman that would never tell me anything.
Every body's different and sometimes we just dont work out.
Better to ask than assume

[YorkshireBiker]

We’re making progress, my wife has started guiding me a bit more but he drawback to that is I’m worried I’ve been doing something wrong for 24 years.

[Deleted Member]

Do it with comedy, put on american pie one where the brother talks of the tongue twister and ask, do you have a backup technique, what is it

If none then start considering sex tv with porn stars talking about their favourites they like

Not that ive ever needed the advise i wasnt ignorant enough not to check out what they had to say, stuff like licking pussy like an ice cream, up down the labias and then up and around the clit etc

Gets him thinking if he could improve the technique

[Ju****]

Heh hey

[Bones503]

Yes when where

[pl****]

You could always take my last partners approach. If I’m licking in wrong place she grabbed my head hard and rough and pulled it in to place. I love being smothered

[Jay-2093]

Eating pussy is next to breathing.  Staying there until she makes you stop, going for that europhic feeling for her every time. 

[Al****]

From my experience I can only suggest one thing - talking. Next time try to explain when and how will be much better for you)