PhantomFlogger Posted December 20, 2018 Posted December 20, 2018 Hello every body and thank you in advance for replying. I am a Dominant type who has always been this way and do enjoy a nice bit of kink in the bedroom, but i really want to branch out and experiment with full time D/s relationships, maybe even working towards a high protocol dynamic. My question is After talking and learning limits and finding out what eachother want from the relationship... how do you start the training? And is it better to set out for perfection, see where you land and work from there, or start basic and slowly go up to high protocol?
ey**** Posted December 20, 2018 Posted December 20, 2018 a lot depends here on mutual needs and wants. it also depends on experience, both yours and theirs. When you say "maybe" working towards a high protocol dynamic that to me suggests it's something that is optional for you. So, with that in mind it may well be a better move to take things as they come, let relationships develop naturally instead of setting targets and then constantly having to work through muddles if it's something neither of you want. In terms of training - then again, it can depend on the person and this is a serious conversation to have to make sure you both want it and how best to proceed. It may be gradual rather than a sudden burst.
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