Feet Lovers

[lo****]

Any dating advice for someone with a foot fetish I haven’t had much luck, people always seem to get weirded out by the fact of my fetish.

[Deleted Member]

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[ey****]

it's been a while since we had this same question

but

one of the big major problems foot fetishes cause for themselves is they go in too early about their fetish.  And, I get it - don't want to date someone for 6 months and like her and then raise foot fetish and she goes 'no' and all you've had to show for the past 6 months is dating someone you like.  A terrible situation. (Ahh, no tone on the internet here)

so what foot guys tend to do is raise their fetish early on, either in their usernames, all over their profile, in their first messages to someone, or when sitting down for a date 

and often how this makes the other person feel is that you are more interested in *feet* than *them* and that makes a lot of people feel a little objectified and it's quite off-putting.

My simple tip with a foot, or any other fetish, is approach people as people first.   Fetishes can come later.

 

[Deleted Member]

I have a foot fetish too and I bring it up early too.

[Littlefootlover80]

Someone will embrace it. Never change your focus.. maybe don't just go in saying it though.. compliment other stuff and show youre not a one trick pony.. not sure about you but its only one thing I like in a long list!

[Submarkg]

I dont get the foot fetish concept …female feet are beautiful and wanting to kiss / lick them is fine by me and not particularly a fetish compared to where else we men are happy to kiss and lick ..

[BruiseWayne]

TBH the best advice I can give you is don't be weird and creepy about it because at that point even the people who are into it are going to be put off. Yes, it's a goofy and ridiculous fetish but when you get right down to it most fetishes are goofy and ridiculous to begin with. This particular one just happens to be a big meme in our culture rn. So just be in on the 'joke'. Don't let it bother you. Own it. 

 

You'd be surprised how willing someone might be to indulge you even if they aren't into it themselves provided they like you enough.

 

This isn't meant to be a brag or a flex, maybe I'm just lucky, but... pretty much every woman I've ever slept/been in a relationship with let me play with their feet and never made me feel weird about it. Most were actually into it, and even the ones who weren't necessarily still wound up liking it because they saw much I loved it. A lot of them wound up being really turned on by the fact I wanted to touch and play with their feet when most dudes would've turned their nose up at them. An ex of mine never even ***ted her toes before she met me or even ever considered letting a guy touch her feet really, then cut to like 3 or 4 months later and she's wearing multiple toerings, all different kinds of fun polish, cute socks, foot jewelry... and we're posting foot porn pics on Reddit. All because she knew how much I was into it.

 

Personally I don't think bringing it up early is necessarily a problem- I told her pretty much within the first week or so, but if it feels ***d or shoehorned people are going to pick up on that, and that's a turn-off. Just let it happen organically. Don't be over-eager or desperate. And yes, making it part of your SN is probably going to work against you more often than for you, even with the kind of women who might be into it because it's going to conjure up the bad energy you're looking to avoid.

 

You being a male sub looking for a Domme shouldn't really have too much of a problem finding one that's into it TBH. This particular fetish seems to be heavily skewed in that direction. There's definitely more sub men chasing after a Domme's feet than there is female subs chasing after a Dom's, I can tell you that much lol.

 

Also, why would you gaf about someone who made you feel weird about being into feet when that's not the kind of person you want to be with in the first place?

[ey****]

1 hour ago, BruiseWayne said:

This isn't meant to be a brag or a flex, maybe I'm just lucky, but... pretty much every woman I've ever slept/been in a relationship with let me play with their feet and never made me feel weird about it. Most were actually into it, and even the ones who weren't necessarily still wound up liking it because they saw much I loved it.

I've been similar

so excluding my very first girlfriends - every partner I brought it up with one way or another.  Some basically asked if I had a fetish while I was kissing their feet during sex and that's when it came up.  Even an early one night stand I kissed her feet.

Some partners were more open to stuff than others.  One partner hated being tickled and had really ticklish soles so preferred me to kiss the top of her feet.  

I am aware of course there are women for whom this is a total no/no but really - you'd probably find if you focused on 'person first' most would indulge with you.

 

[BruiseWayne]

1 hour ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I am aware of course there are women for whom this is a total no/no but really - you'd probably find if you focused on 'person first' most would indulge with you.

Yeah, I think more women are open to it than even they realize. It's just a gut reaction for a lot of people to be like 'eww feet' or just think that it's silly and stupid, but obviously that's not gonna be your target demographic in the first place, lol. However, if it's something you positively need to be able to do or you just won't be satisfied I think you'll find that you wind up seeking out people you can just kind of tell might be open to it, or at least be willing to involve that sort of thing just to make you happy.

 

Also I think people worry about it too much. Most folks aren't going to legitimately try to shame you over it too. Sure, they might roast you a little bit, but if you act like you're in on the joke and just own or just roll with it and shrug it off it really won't be that big a deal in the first place.

 

It's definitely not something that should be holding anybody back from finding a potential mate for any reason because the pool of people either into it, willing to indulge you, or who'll just do it for your sake is probably bigger than those that are a hard no.

[Deleted Member]

(This is the M of this couple's account.)

I'd have to agree that most women are open to the idea unless she just hates feet or having hers touched.

A lot of women are also willing to try it or just let you do your thing because it comes with the best(sometimes only) foot massage of her life.

Also, remember, she might be hiding an embarrassing fetish of her own.

Foot massage is a good way to test the water btw. You can start kissing once she's into it and you get a safer way to judge the reaction. Way better results than kissing on her feet out of nowhere.

I personally like to talk about fetishes and casually mention it and if she asks me to elaborate she's probably interested already.

I met my GF on here so it was already an easier conversation. When we got on the subject of fetishes she was a little put off at first but that magic phrase "foot massage" made her eyes light up. Now she loves the attention I give to her feet.

[Ju****]

Genuinely curious, what is it about feet that attract you?? I personally don’t see the appeal in them. Not disgusted just they’re just feet to me

[lo****]

1 hour ago, Just_Eli said:

Genuinely curious, what is it about feet that attract you?? I personally don’t see the appeal in them. Not disgusted just they’re just feet to me

It’s hard to explain, I guess it’s just like tits for most, we just like them, plus I also enjoy the smells they give off if that’s not to weird for you lol

[Deleted Member]

Do you like the feet to be bare or wearing something?

[Ja****]

I have a foot fetish too, due to my experience you just gotta meet the right person who’s open to it. I’ve had relationships where they didn’t let me near their feet and it was so frustrating. Be honest, open and kind. And be confident within yourself that’s what you like

[Deleted Member]

3 hours ago, Just_Eli said:

Genuinely curious, what is it about feet that attract you?? I personally don’t see the appeal in them. Not disgusted just they’re just feet to me

The curves(arch is the best). The way they look in a nice pair of stilettos or nice sandals

[Deleted Member]

I met a guy once who really wanted me to lick his feet, i did it for him because he was respectful but it didnt really do anything for me so not sure if I would do it again. But yea there are people out there

[lo****]

3 hours ago, vails-gate712 said:

Do you like the feet to be bare or wearing something?

Both tbh, I could go into a bunch of details but I don’t want to bore you lol

[Deleted Member]

Great no you wont bore me 💛

[Je****]

Here is my opinion for what it’s worth after 30 yrs of having a foot fetish. You may be your own worst enemy. I wasted a lot of time being embarrassed about my fetish only to find out it is one of the most common fetishes out there. I also totally underestimated a women’s capacity to understand my fetish. Some women want nothing to do with it and some women literally stole my most kinky foot fetish fantasies and blew my mind with adding on to them to the point I started to realize women can be way more freaky then me.
Everyone who is telling you to come out with your interests early is 100 percent correct and when you do don’t make it a big deal or be apologetic about it. Just put it out there and see who is interested

[Ol****]

I do have a feet fetish pretty massive and it never been a problem , make it look cool and sensual , I ask to my partner if I can ***t her toe nails or I run them with oils , trust me 90% of the time they are well happy and ask you to get back to them, some of my partners told that most of men send them creepy vibes about it, just make it look sexy .

[Deleted Member]

Damn this just helped me😂

[Deleted Member]

I have been thinking about what to write here as an advice for the last couple of days...
In my previous relationship I made my fetish obvious when I offered a foot massage to her on the first time we get close enough for physical interaction.
Later she told me: she had her doubts at first but after she realised how good I was at massages she got warmed up to the idea, and later on she wellomed it.
So as an advice I can reccomed you to learn about reflexology.
The complete guide to reflexology from Ruth Hull is a good book for starters.
Good luck in the future mate.

[Sy****]

I am on the other side of the coin here getting a ton of pleasure and intimacy and feelings from any physical attention given to my feet... and it's scary out here. I dont want to give pictures, especially right off the bat, because it honestly feels like showing my genitalia, that's how sensitive my feet are. But I have had partners start with my feet and I just about lost it from pleasure, it's not something I could ever give up. But I do find I have to fend off both *** and shame to get to those moments of blissful abandon :(

[Sw****]

Foot boys are my weakness. I'd say if youre trying to date a vanilla....don't bring up your fetish too soon. Get to know them long before mentioning it. If you're just wanting to hook up with someone with similar kinks deff be upfront about that.

[la****]

Honestly it is hard to, Instagram has good luck though, it’s weird on the other side of this—- most men haven’t met a girl who’s into feet too