Plus Size - Finding it hard

[Da****]

Well in a very real sense, I don't want to "play" with anyone. I'm a "respect, trust, non manipulation" type of guy. Can't build trust by just playing. My 2¢

[Deleted Member]

Plenty of us that like plus size/curvy women. It's been hard to actually find someone in general wanting to play.

[st****]

Plus size women as sexy as he'll love playing with a plus size

[th****]

I love to play with plus sized girls. There is so much to enjoy on their curvy bodies. I think a subby plus size girl is beautiful thing. And the cuddling afterwards is so comfortable and squishy in all the right ways.

I think it probably, like everything else, comes down to personal preference. Keep looking, you’ll find someone eventually.

[Deleted Member]

I love bbw

[ni****]

I prefer chubby ..

[at****]

I'll play with the bbw

[pl****]

I would love to meet a sweet bbw babe

[MasterDarcy1979]

Anyone else with this issue should be aware that the key is patience and persistence.

There is always someone for everyone.

[pl****]

The big a**es the big boobs, they always give the best head. They have such sexy curves. I'd get lost in a 200lb + bbw gorgeous lady

[fr****]

Honestly I think there's not a man alive who actually cares about a woman's size and I agree with the other guy just patience and persistence and you'll find somebody

[JAK74]

There’s nothing better than a bigger woman. Plus size = Fun size!!

[B_****]

Honestly I think it's difficult regardless the size. It's hard to connect with someone on that level as it really is more then just looks. I think often as plus size we limit ourselves with our thoughts and perceptions we have of ourselves. Hugs. Your master is out there just like mine. We just haven't connected with them yet.

[HA****]

The answer to this question is basically similar to the age perception amongst the kinksers I guess. It's all about perception which can be different from person to person.

For me as a Dom, trust, commitment, servitude and obedience are the key!!

[Go****]

Hey, a couple of things. First let me say that as I say anything here today it is meant with good intention and not to cause any sadness. First of all the obvious. Some men are only attracted to thin women. You can't change that so don't even try. Some men prefer than women but are open to any women depending on whether there's a connection. And some men actually prefer heavy set or plus size women. So yes, there's obviously people out there that would love to be with you. Your first and last picture on this site are the same picture and in my opinion show you at your very worst. Delete those two pictures. Go to your second picture and open it up and then use the menu to make it your default profile picture. Beautiful! Your eyes are stunning and while captivate many men. I don't know if this next suggestion is possible, but you should try to make your second picture the one in the red dress. Yummy! That may not be possible but you could do it in this way. Delete all of your pictures, then upload the pictures and order that you want them to appear. I think that would work. No matter what if you do this, make sure to go to the second picture and open it up and make it your primary profile picture. I would make the third picture the one with the sign. Super sexy. Best of luck to you :-)

[az****]

For me no matter the size skinny or large if she's comfortable and confident with herself that makes her all the more beautiful. I've been with gorgeous women who hated their own bodies and only God knows why? Which makes them unhappy with themselves and they tend to make everyone around them unhappy.

[te****]

True i prefer skinny

[Deleted Member]

I don’t like to fetishize plus size women because I think full figured women are beautiful and amazing in every way, but for the purpose of uplifting you in the most authentic way - I absolutely LOVE plus sized women and I prefer this body type. All body types are beautiful in their own way but I will gawk over a 250lb+ woman over an athletic/skinny woman. There are men AND women like me who genuinely prefer chubby/plus size body types. Sometimes we also need to look at how we ourselves are going about this whole dating/kinkster search, we have to be super honest with our own preferences and expectations that was we have a fair chance at finding our match.

[MasterDarcy1979]

Just be yourself, be true to yourself and keep faith that you will find someone who wants you.

That's the beauty of it all, there are people who find all shapes and sizes attractive.

Thankfully, we have all different tastes.

Edited August 18 by MasterDarcy1979

[sw****]

I'm not exactly a dom, but I prefer plus sized women over skinny and are usual more fun to play with

[Deleted Member]

16 hours ago, ComoLaFlor said:

I don’t like to fetishize plus size women because I think full figured women are beautiful and amazing in every way, but for the purpose of uplifting you in the most authentic way - I absolutely LOVE plus sized women and I prefer this body type. All body types are beautiful in their own way but I will gawk over a 250lb+ woman over an athletic/skinny woman. There are men AND women like me who genuinely prefer chubby/plus size body types. Sometimes we also need to look at how we ourselves are going about this whole dating/kinkster search, we have to be super honest with our own preferences and expectations that was we have a fair chance at finding our match.

We try but men mostly want skinny women

[sh****]

As a fellow plus size woman I do not have a hard time finding play mates.

[Deleted Member]

I'm new here but I really enjoy plus size women. I like them over skinny

[Lu****]

I love me a curvy woman

[No****]

Big girls are my “jam”, as we would say!!!

It isn’t about the size, but the person within the skin. Just keep being you, and hopefully the right person will find and bring out that sub within you.