Plus Size - Finding it hard

[FS****]

I am a plus-size woman and haven't found it difficult to have people reach out, but I do find myself being a little cautious around my size, not being a kink for us to connect over. I love that people appreciate thick or big women and are vocal about it. I would just prefer if people were attracted to me for other features and not because of the one I can sort of be in my head most about. Don't let your size be the thing that makes you feel approachable or unapproachable. You're so much more than your size, and sex appeal is more in your eyes and attitude than it is in your size from what I've gathered. Sex appeal varies for everyone and is an experience or energy you exude. If you focus on your size being a barrier, then others will, too. Be your sexy self and not just sexy for a big girl. 🫶

[Deleted Member]

Wow this is 2 years old and folks are still responding?

[Deleted Member]

I have found it __very__ difficult to find good matches. Like - the numbers of interested folks are high but they tend to make it clear they just want ons/hookups not an ongoing d/s relationship

[Bo****]

6 hours ago, FSYC28 said:

I am a plus-size woman and haven't found it difficult to have people reach out, but I do find myself being a little cautious around my size, not being a kink for us to connect over. I love that people appreciate thick or big women and are vocal about it. I would just prefer if people were attracted to me for other features and not because of the one I can sort of be in my head most about. Don't let your size be the thing that makes you feel approachable or unapproachable. You're so much more than your size, and sex appeal is more in your eyes and attitude than it is in your size from what I've gathered. Sex appeal varies for everyone and is an experience or energy you exude. If you focus on your size being a barrier, then others will, too. Be your sexy self and not just sexy for a big girl. 🫶

I personally am quite attracted to plus sized women! It’s what draws me in. The image of a big girl carrying herself with confidence really gets my *** flowing. I don’t think there is anything wrong with that or a kink per se! A plus size body is so much more enjoyable to snuggle with or play with than a woman with bones sticking out! I don’t see it as a fetish. I see it as a preference like height or skin color.

[Bo****]

There is a saying. Fat makes food taste good and women look good! There’s nothing like a big girl carrying herself with an unapologetic sexy confidence. Seeing that gets my *** flowing. There are lots of us out there that feel this way! Don’t hide your ample self! Show it off! Xoxo!

[FS****]

6 hours ago, Xpandimonium said:

I personally am quite attracted to plus sized women! It’s what draws me in. The image of a big girl carrying herself with confidence really gets my *** flowing. I don’t think there is anything wrong with that or a kink per se! A plus size body is so much more enjoyable to snuggle with or play with than a woman with bones sticking out! I don’t see it as a fetish. I see it as a preference like height or skin color.

Hey I respect that. Everyone is different. Preferences are a thing for sure so no shaming from me. My response is based in personal feelings and experiences, but I do appreciate that people are vocal about their appreciation or attraction for women and men of all shapes and sizes.

[Pr****]

As a black man I love a curvy sexy thick mmmmm🤤 woman

[ch****]

I like thick beautiful lady with curves mmm yummy

[bi****]

A good sub should diet and work out and maintain a sexy physique for their Dom. You're being lazy. If you lack the discipline to stay fit, you lack the discipline I would require of a sub. Let your desire to please your future Dom be your motivation to diet and hit the gym.

[Vo****]

Ignore the comment above me... If someone doesn't know you personally they can't form an opinion on your activity or struggles.
I am on the edge of plus size myself (18) and I have also had a difficult time finding a serious dynamic. I'm unsure how much my weight is a factor though, since the only people I meet who aren't spoken for are just horrendous individuals personality wise or they don't have any experience which is a deal breaker for me.
Don't give up hope! Keep positivity in your heart and put yourself out there. If you attend events in person I feel the results are always better than online.

[Ph****]

I only have sexual things to say about plus sized women 😋

[Deleted Member]

Ewww these comments. This is why sexuality isn't a choice, if I could choose I wouldn't like men. 😆 I'm a Dom and I like thicc women, men and women in fact. Us chubby chasers are out there babes. Don't let other comments hurt you, unless you like that sorta thing. 😜

[Re****]

Curves are always the best. Love comes from the inside not the outside.
There is somebody for everybody irrespective of size! Too many shallow comments on this thread and too many of my fellow men on here judging by looks only in my opinion

[Th****]

I love plus size and bbw women, just know there are men and or women out there that are into plus size an bbw women. I hope you find someone.

[Co****]

I like to think I appreciate the female form in a variety of shapes and sizes. That said, I usually gravitate toward larger women with curves.

[mi****]

I love them all

[av****]

Plus size women are good with me I would love to to be with one right now

[Se****]

We love a BBW

[Re****]

I like plus size, and am a chub myself.

[Th****]

I lloovveee womenly, curvaceous perfectly natural gals! Not ready to take the leap into anything rn, just wanted to send some love to this group. Hope you girls have a sexy night

[su****]

I love a plus size woman..I'm into busty woman who are submissive..
I would love to play/get to know a busty and plus size woman specially who is submissive by nature😈🥰

[Pr****]

Well I'm 37 and I find men around my age and older are more supportive and actually like curves

[Deleted Member]

I don't see how a person cannot like a big girl because basically she just has a lot more what you like

[ch****]

Nothing wrong with curves in all the right places I love it personally

[Pr****]

You are very beautiful! I know it's alot easier said than done, (trust me I struggle with my self esteem and self confidence as well) however there are men out there that want plus size women!
I was lucky enough to meet the most wonderful Daddy who really helped me with my confidence and feeling super sexy and almost powerful...
Is lingerie for me or something that makes you feel good! If you are feeling sexy and confident in your own skin, men will notice and begin to crave you Darling 💋💖💋