Praise for Dominants

[Ta****]

17 minutes ago, 4RCH said:

Oh please do come back and tell us............ Alas I'll never find out myself as my sub would never be that stu.... brave - I mean brave! 

🤣🤣🤣🤣 It’s all about knowing your Dom, my friend. Your subs know you and how you like to be treated. I know my Dom, and he’s *just* silly enough that I might get away with this. OR he’ll tame this brat … which is exactly what I want him to do. Either way, I still win. 😈

[4R****]

13 minutes ago, Tampa_BratKai said:

Seriously? So …. communication isn’t part of your dynamic? Mutual care and respect aren’t part of your dynamic? That’s … sad and lonely. I’ve been in this community for 25 years, and every *healthy* Dom I’ve ever met low key enjoys it when their sub is affectionate toward them or shows appreciation in some way.

100%, couldn't agree more!

[Da****]

When my sub says "Thank You Daddy, you're awesome, you're amazing, you're great, I love how every stroke, touch, your presence etc makes me feel." "I love how safe and secure I'm when I'm around you, you're my heaven, my peace my solace, my golden fortress etc"

Praise/appreciation/remarks/comments makes me as a Dom know how well I'm doing and my impact in her life. Some subs were totally broken before you met them and while with you they have grow much confidence in and around everything they ***ed before meeting you. So i don't see anything bad if my sub praises me.

Sometimes as a Dom, get loosened a bit but not out of your head,mind, territory...

This is just my opinion.

[Da****]

@macNmiller well be it old guard or new guard.... Idc... I just like all my subs comfy and able to express their thoughts on everything, so I know what I will be changing or whether or not I would require some courses or consultations on a particular kink from top level professionals I maybe doing too much or too less.

[Deleted Member]

this is pretty much exactly what i want in a sub.

[li****]

2 hours ago, 4RCH said:

Oh of course......... I highly recommend every submissive try this with their Dominant and see what happens 

Lolol 🤣 I'm a SAM so I'll definitely be trying a head pat with my Sir next time he's here 🤣🤣 

[4R****]

32 minutes ago, lil-monster said:

Lolol 🤣 I'm a SAM so I'll definitely be trying a head pat with my Sir next time he's here 🤣🤣 

You would!.......... And I so want to be a fly on the wall for that!

[4R****]

1 hour ago, Tampa_BratKai said:

🤣🤣🤣🤣 It’s all about knowing your Dom, my friend. Your subs know you and how you like to be treated. I know my Dom, and he’s *just* silly enough that I might get away with this. OR he’ll tame this brat … which is exactly what I want him to do. Either way, I still win. 😈

So you're going to "pat your Dom on the head and call him a good boy"????  

<<<< Pulls up a chair and grabs the popcorn!

[Deleted Member]

Seeking reassurance from a sub, imo, diminishes your position.

[Ta****]

2 hours ago, 4RCH said:

So you're going to "pat your Dom on the head and call him a good boy"????  

<<<< Pulls up a chair and grabs the popcorn!

You DO see my name, right? I’m a brat. Of COURSE I’m going to do this. Probably as soon as he gets home from work tomorrow morning. 😈

[Da****]

Hmmm getting to learn from other persons but I think... some of yall here need to explain your opinion so some of us could learn from your thoughts... I'm learning from some comments here

[Deleted Member]

5 hours ago, 4RCH said:

Oh of course......... I highly recommend every submissive try this with their Dominant and see what happens 

Put your trainers on first. Pro tip.

[sl****]

Being about 99.9% submissive, I can’t say that I know first hand how much time and effort a Domme puts into a scene. But, I can imagine that it could be physically and mentally tiring for Them?! Yes, i love to serve, and is my pleasure to do so. i am happy to carry out chores for a Mistress, while She chills out. But, scenes, scenarios and punishments must require some form of planning, including preparing and dressing for the occasion. And, to restrain someone, particularly some of the ways that i like to be bound, must also take planning, including ensuring the submissive’s wellbeing. Maybe this makes me sound like a boring sub, but while i want to finish a session, ***fully aware that i have been punished, i don’t want to end up permanently injured. I respect, and am very grateful for any time that a Mistress gives me.

[CopperKnob]

1 hour ago, Xavier1978 said:

Seeking reassurance from a sub, imo, diminishes your position.

Things I appreciate in others is humility and humbleness.
Domineering afterall, is not dominating

[4R****]

3 hours ago, Xavier1978 said:

Seeking reassurance from a sub, imo, diminishes your position.

Well it's a shame you feel that way - but each to their own!

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, CopperKnob said:

Things I appreciate in others is humility and humbleness.
Domineering afterall, is not dominating

You get what you tolerate.

[Deleted Member]

11 hours ago, 4RCH said:

Oh please do come back and tell us............ Alas I'll never find out myself as my sub would never be that stu.... brave - I mean brave! 

Bwahahaha - who are you kidding Sir? I live for the moments where you can’t believe my gumption. The face of disbelief you pull is too cute 😈

 

In all seriousness though, who wouldn’t praise their Dom? A sincere “thank you, xyz was amazing”, or “That was incredible”. A snuggle and a “I love how you care for me”. These things go a long way to building the bonds of a relationship.

[4R****]

4 minutes ago, Quiltykitten said:

Bwahahaha - who are you kidding Sir? I live for the moments where you can’t believe my gumption. The face of disbelief you pull is too cute 😈

Just remember you're here in 5 days 

[ma****]

December 31, 2022, Tampa_BratKai said:

Seriously? So …. communication isn’t part of your dynamic? Mutual care and respect aren’t part of your dynamic? That’s … sad and lonely. I’ve been in this community for 25 years, and every *healthy* Dom I’ve ever met low key enjoys it when their sub is affectionate toward them or shows appreciation in some way.

That's what I was trying to express in my post too. Being impressed or surprised by this tells me he is from an older philosophy that is quickly dying out.

[Deleted Member]

Worship kink? Caressing the ego. Like a king Dom receiving praise from his subjects. Why not.

[Bi****]

I don’t understand? A dom never praised me he belittled me and I left him.

[Ro****]

I think people forget that Doms need support too, need care, affection, help, struggle sometimes , need someone to be there for them just as much as submissive does. You as a submissive should definitely be making sure your Dom is ok, supporting them, making them feel happy , beautiful, cared about , letting them feel like they can open up to you about things they find difficult, upsetting. It does NOT make you less of a Dom to have emotions , to need support , to need care. I would find it personally odd if they didn’t need those things. Look after your Doms, that is vital.

[Ro****]

2 minutes ago, Rorykitten said:

I think people forget that Doms need support too, need care, affection, help, struggle sometimes , need someone to be there for them just as much as submissive does. You as a submissive should definitely be making sure your Dom is ok, supporting them, making them feel happy , beautiful, cared about , letting them feel like they can open up to you about things they find difficult, upsetting. It does NOT make you less of a Dom to have emotions , to need support , to need care. I would find it personally odd if they didn’t need those things. Look after your Doms, that is vital.

You both need to be making eachother feel special , feel heard , feel cared for , feel safe , secure. It cant be the sole person

[4R****]

5 hours ago, Bittersweetangel said:

I don’t understand? A dom never praised me he belittled me and I left him.

Sorry that happened to you - sounds like you drew the short straw there.
Most of us are decent human beings.

[Wo****]

I find it to be a part of the communication needed outside of roles being played. My sub and I always talk about limits and safewords so that they know they are the ones actually in control and I feel that is often times a sentiment that is overlooked.