Ddlg in public

[Deleted Member]

How do you have this transition into when you go out in public? What are some rules set or helpful tips in helping keeping the dynamic going but in a more discreet manner? Thanks in advance for any and all input ☺️

[Aliciaprincesswatson]

When I go out in public I dress as a woman and everybody respects me and supports me

[un****]

generally my little always either held on to my arm, liked to dance around in front of me while we shopped or played this game where she’d disappear into an aisle and reappeared either in front of or behind me i wasn’t exactly the biggest fan of that one in particular but she was happy so i let it slide

[ze****]

Having a safe word to let your partner know you’re slipping is good

[Deleted Member]

Remember to always let one another mingle alone respectfully. This will create an “I have a say” mentally to both of you while in action.

[Deleted Member]

Clothing, even it's it's simple undergarments.
just enjoy life and have fun, dance, skip, play around
and location changes action.
Restaurant could be good choice, Shopping could be playfulness, a bit of bratty actions, putting things in cart you wouldn't have, wondering the toy, candy, cereal, clothing isles..
Movies, choice of movie, snack.
Outings like parks, Zoos, picnic, fly kites, etc.
Many dress options, activities and actions can exist that most wouldn't catch or understand.

[Pi****]

I'd make it clear that (when consented mutually) when she pushes it too far I'd give her a soft push as in that's enough for now. Or you can do it aswell with eye contact, firm and strong eye contact for the dom

[Al****]

I've told my demon to always be on my left and pay attention so he notices when I'm giving him a specific signal. Usually people go for the collar but I think I'll get him a bracelet or a ring so it's more subtle

[Deleted Member]

When I’m in public with my daddy and i don’t want to say out loud daddy i need you. I wait for him to look in my direction and I’ll tug on my ear. I’ve also given my daddy consent to give me a gentle squeeze when i look spaced out

[Ms****]

For me ..Holding Doms pinkie finger, wearing something feminine and cute ☺️, asking for permission for things ( silly lil things) and giving pouty eyes. Stay close to my Dom in shy manner when at the cash. Above all I hate being out and about so when I’ve become exhausted with our outing I tend to get sucky and want snuggle hugs. All these are simple things most won’t take a double look at and allow you to be lil.

Having a discussion with your s.o about these things and having an understanding of limits in public view is extremely helpful.

[saintsaltysynz]

I wear a cat collar around my left ankle.

As well as a copper collar that looks like jewelry.

Some women have asked and I tell them I’m a stray looking for a mistress and I like walkies.

Most men ask if it’s an ankle monitor for house arrest and I tell them I’m a sl*t for hire.

I also sometimes where a ankle cuff for working out because I can support myself and another from one leg. Men get upset but the women like it.

Many ways to show this. I found being creative with it keeps unnecessary harm to me and my occasional mistress.
I live in a small town mostly a upscale beach community that is not excepting of people who are freaks. But they are pride friendly on the surface.

Small *** collars around the wrist can be found on some other individuals around here. I’ve seen a few collars around girls necks and a few girls started to wear ankle collars around my town a few years after I did.
 

[Deleted Member]

For me this is one of the more sexy activities we can do together. It doesn’t have to be sexual but just an affectionate intimacy. Perhaps just enough for the onlooker to perhaps raise an eyebrow and wonder while we just don’t mind what people think around us so long as both of us are comfortable and we are not blatantly making others around us uncomfortable. But There’s nothing more of a turn on for me in general than if a stranger hears her calling me daddy.

[JT****]

I love this!

[Ro****]

There is a lot that goes into answering a question like this. Like the little's age. That being said: FOREHEAD KISSES.

[Deleted Member]

Who gives a shit? You live once. A good Daddy allows his little to play in whatever way she likes, and if anyone has an issue, Daddy will handle it.

[Sa****]

Great question - my littles have mostly been obviously 20 plus years younger, so we mostly agreed it would be fun to be Daddy daughter in public.
Forehead kisses, spoiling with fun gifts, treats if she’s good, her being bratty and distant and then after some strong disturbing looks, she asks for my forgiveness and her treat is getting to hold my arm. The subtle but common interactions are really fun. Going over there too looks silly.

[Deleted Member]

I love being in public with Daddy sometimes. When I have a Daddy, he’s usually my father’s age. It’s such a turn on to call him Daddy and kiss him on the lips a little too long while other ppl wonder what in the world is happening with us.