ONLINE OR IRL?

[do****]

IRL always 👌🏾

[re****]

So single in Berlin and miss meeting people. Everyone is so busy.

[ca****]

IRL always. I hate playing the online game.

[Missejj2022]

Some do and some fon't bit its a lot of fake on here

[ma****]

I’m sure it works for some people but for me, it just makes me laugh

[Nkd4All]

Definitely

[pe****]

With me no I want to be in her presence obeying, worship her, disciplined when ever she wants to spank me

[fr****]

I have never seen anything work online dating wise, real life is the only way to go!!

[Pa****]

For some sure. Not for me.

[Wo****]

If only I could find the right person irl it would work

[jo****]

For some time

[Gh****]

Yup. They do.

[Ma****]

Online can never be as intense as irl, but it's much easier to find someone online than irl.

[OldJeakel]

seldom, but they can be fun while they last

[en****]

Depends - but I think only short to mid-term

[NEHypnotist]

There are many reasons to be online only. If that's where you're at; that's where you're at. While online will work and is wonderful when you're new, irl is better. Been there. Done that.

While I'll gladly be friends with anyone, the responsibilities and pleasures of a relationship are limited to another... rare... real life relationship.

[fantasyswitchcouple]

i have been looking for a online mistress for about a year now and i have no luck bc they are all findoms when im looking for a real dominant female and male submissive relationship so i personally have had no luck online

[Deleted Member]

I enjoy online when I have the chance but I can’t deny the importance of irl

[na****]

Fet is the epitome of an online fantasy relationship no, surely? Physically, sexually, emotionally and intimately devoid…Great. If it’s for you. It’s not reality by far though, is it? Regardless of what you’re led to believe. Human contact for me and my body in my opinion. Some need it…some don’t.

[Jeromiah]

I prefer to meet people irl. I've been chatting to people online ever since I was young and it was always fun for me but now I really want irl meets and date. It's the only way I can get any satisfaction at all now but sadly it's been really hard finding many people to meet because everyone's always too far away, not willing to come to me or busy with work. meeting people to form a relationship is even harder. Everyone just wants hookups and casual sex or to dive straight into kink. Like you want to tie me up on first meet before I know and trust you? No way. As someone on the forums pointed out, this type of app and site seems to be a breeding ground for young men just thinking kink equals casual sex and hookups.

[To****]

Online hayd it's advantages. I guess it's safer for all involved and also lets people explore their feelings and fantasies in a way they feel comfortable, until they are ready to take the next step.

[da****]

Online only isn't enough for me personally

[Az****]

My personal feelings on it is that an online only dynamic is just playing make-believe

[BruiseWayne]

I think most people will agree that they need some kind of RL stimulation at some point even if they can go long stretches without it.

 

The OL stuff can be fun if you get off on the mental aspect of kink a lot as well but people are such colossal flakes OL and they all seem to have a ghosting fetish on top of everything else, so be prepared for that if you do ever decide to actually have some kind of relationship with someone OL instead of just a bit of naughty fun.

[za****]

Still waiting to have one!