Cuckold

[Ca****]

I've been in two full cuckold relationships,, I'm in chastity, we had rules neither girlfriend ever cheated on me

[al****]

I’ll never understand the appeal in this. I suggest you stop doing it, seems thoroughly uncomfortable. I think you answered the question in the post, she is cheating. A similar thing happened to me, I allowed my gf to be with women, thinking I was being open minded. She is now a full lesbian and we are no longer together other than coparenting our child

[Deleted Member]

12 hours ago, alyxfrost said:

I’ll never understand the appeal in this. I suggest you stop doing it, seems thoroughly uncomfortable. I think you answered the question in the post, she is cheating. A similar thing happened to me, I allowed my gf to be with women, thinking I was being open minded. She is now a full lesbian and we are no longer together other than coparenting our child

You can't stop people from wandering off. They will eventually do it either in front or behind of you. It was better that it happened in front. In OP's case, it was good as well.

[Ja****]

Yea there has to be boundaries

[Sh****]

I mean I'm a cuck but I like being cheated on and not being told what she's doing but if you told her that you didn't want or like that then she's not respecting your boundaries

[ma****]

I guess it’s about boundaries.

[Je****]

It is very important that the doms entering into a cuckold relationship fully understand the mental state of the cuckold and do not take advantage of the cuckold. From experience I can tell you that agreeing to be a cuckold is sometimes done as a last stitch effort to hold on to someone who you are losing and is moving one.

[za****]

My experience. I lost my girlfriend this way. So take your chances.

[Deleted Member]

Cukholding is a woman cheating. It’s an old word that originally had nothing to do with kink. I am into group scenes. I tend to adjust to my subs preference - whether he wants to be the cuck or just a willing participant - that’s how I select a third for us. I would never select a sub who had jealousy issues because it’s my prerogative when or where I engage with partners. If your domme is going outside of your stated limits that’s an issue. It’s all about prior communication. If you’re domme is just your girlfriend and you decided start playing kink scenes to spice things up- it sounds like you didn’t really think it through and have enough conversation or things have changed.

[Deleted Member]

Maybe I am wrong about this...
I believe it is the third party's responsibility and respect to ask the 2nd party's permission when the 1st party ask to do something alone. This is also about building trust. Also, I don't want to be any part of reason or involvement in a couple's split. I do this in my everyday life. Whenever I was asked to do a normal activity, I always asked their partner if it was ok.

[pi****]

Great question

[Sc****]

As a hotwife, i adore my primary partner, we live together and he is simply my partner. We were 2 years into our relationship when he revealed his cuckold/stag kink, and i had major concerns because I didn't want anything threatening our relationship. It took me 6 months to wrap my mind around it and I found it more and more erotic. We do have an exceptionally happy trusting relationship, and we check out Bulls together, plus we don't do *** or ***, he finds it very erotic to watch l, like he's on set at a porn shoot. After a Bull session, he reclaims me and it's incredibly hottt, and it comes up often between as fuel..

[Je****]

Found this on a feed in VICE ….“A “cuckold” is a man, in a relationship, who derives intense sexual gratification from either watching or knowing that his partner is having sex with other people. According to Dr David Dey, psychologist and author of Insatiable Wives, up to 20 percent of men in the United States fantasise about “cheating wives.” And neuroscientists, Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam, have discovered, in their book A Billion Wicked Thoughts, that cuckold porn was the second most searched topic, after youth, by heterosexuals on English language search engines.”

[Deleted Member]

Instant relationship killer

[Stryker1988]

On 2/12/2023 at 6:42 AM, JerseyDmat said:

Found this on a feed in VICE ….“A “cuckold” is a man, in a relationship, who derives intense sexual gratification from either watching or knowing that his partner is having sex with other people. According to Dr David Dey, psychologist and author of Insatiable Wives, up to 20 percent of men in the United States fantasise about “cheating wives.” And neuroscientists, Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam, have discovered, in their book A Billion Wicked Thoughts, that cuckold porn was the second most searched topic, after youth, by heterosexuals on English language search engines.”

I think you just described Hotwifing.

I always thought of cuckold as your partner getting fucked while you watched and didn't join in.

[ey****]

37 minutes ago, Stryker1988 said:

I think you just described Hotwifing.

I always thought of cuckold as your partner getting fucked while you watched and didn't join in.

Cuckold is generally an umbrella term and there are a lot of different connotations.  While the concept of watching your partner get fucked without your own participation may be cuckolding, there are also some people like to do that from a voyeur perspective which means it can be the same activity but with quite a different feel.

The description you were quoting is a good example of the umbrella - the cuckold wants to watch or know their partner is having sex with other people but in a way which is somewhat degrading to them.   There are a lot of different ways this could work depending on the individual and it can be either a one off or ongoing thing. 

[Le****]

It's not cheating if you know and agree with it, it's just a "different" way of making love with your partner. Actually, only those who love each other a lot can do it without any negative consequence...

[fe****]

I am completely into it.  I’ve never found anyone that would let me do it though :( I think that it’s the same  as if you were to have a threesome together you’re just not getting in on it.  I think it would’ve brought me and my ex closer.

[Ca****]

I've been in two cuckold relationships , the first one started off as a regular relationship and we were definitely closer as a couple once cuckold. The second one was cuckold from day 1 so harder to quantify if the cuckold dynamic had any impact .

[Ca****]

Cuckold certainly brought me and my girlfriends closer . I've been in two cuckold relationships the first started off as a standard relationship and we were far closer after being cuckold . The second relationship was cuckold from day one so it was harder to quantify how cuckold affected the relationship positively or negatively.

[Deleted Member]

Amazing. Envious! X

[ph****]

Wow! still seeking my 1 experience with it

[le****]

My gf is very into wanting to do this at the moment and is something we both would like to do. We have talked many hrs through out the years about rules and boundaries. We are currently looking for a guy that would like to join in with us and have a good time with her.

[Deleted Member]

Let her be 😉

[i_****]

Let her do her thing it builds trust and is hottt as hell