Cuckold

[Ca****]

7 hours ago, lebanon348 said:

My gf is very into wanting to do this at the moment and is something we both would like to do. We have talked many hrs through out the years about rules and boundaries. We are currently looking for a guy that would like to join in with us and have a good time with her.

I'm sure you'll both love it

[Deleted Member]

I wouldn’t care if she cheats as long as she lets me know about it or records for me lol

[Deleted Member]

I'm into this and wouldn't f**k someone else without the cuck knowing about it, although he wouldn't always be present

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, Queen4cuck said:

I'm into this and wouldn't f**k someone else without the cuck knowing about it, although he wouldn't always be present

I agree- it would be part of the whole scene to either have my sub present or tell him all about it later

[DarkArts1066]

‘Cuckolding’ and ‘cheating’ are two very different things.
The whole premise of a Cuckold relationship is that both parties are aware that (in this case) the Female sleeps with other men.

Can I ask how you found out that she was sleeping with ‘him’ on the side ??

-Did she tell you she was doing it - or going to do it ?

Or did you find out by other means ?

What you describe thus far sounds like cheating to me - with being in a “cuckold relationship” as an excuse for that (on her part)

If you plan on staying in a relationship with this woman, I believe it’s time you re-established the terms of your relationship - or it’s ‘bye-bye’ for her.

[Deleted Member]

I have to echo the thoughts of @Queen4cuck, @PillowPrincess1and @DarkArts1066.

Cuckolding without consent is cheating in my view.
My marriage ended due to cheating but the irony is that had my wife expressed a desire to experience another partner I probably would have supported her. Hell it's something we could have explored and enjoyed together. Alas, that wasn't to be.
I still think about that a lot and it has led to some of my strongest kinks since. However, being informed, involved and included plays a massive part in that. I wouldn't expect or need to be there all the time but I would need to have an idea of partner/partners and 'activities'. Helping with prep and aftercare is also a huge part of my desires and I couldn't provide that with secrets. If a partner is not willing and able to provide that for you both then it's just not healthy cuckolding in my view.

N.b. I am fully aware that some enjoy the not knowing and being kept in the dark - I just don't think that's for me.

[Ny****]

Yes

[Deleted Member]

You need more communication with her or whoever of course she'd do that if she didn't agree to terms you just gotta decide if that's ok or not. Your actually wanting stag/vixen relationship not cuckold. It's a fine line but needs to be clear

[Ch****]

Wow. Couples I delt with was loyal
No behind the back stuff. I wouldn't do that anyways.

[ey****]

2 hours ago, Chademac81 said:

Wow. Couples I delt with was loyal
No behind the back stuff. I wouldn't do that anyways.

cuckolding doesn't involve disloyalty - and anything behind the back is done through consent

people still have rules and frameworks that work for them.