Deleted Member Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 Little advice needed how to you keep out of little space when you have to be working ?
lo**** Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 I may not be able to help directly, but maybe add some insight. Is the little caused by a trigger? If so, is the trigger caused at work? Do you work at home or not?
in**** Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 Find a provider that wants you safe at home instead of working. ❤️
Deleted Member Posted February 8, 2023 Author Posted February 8, 2023 You take your time and create the space where you feel you can. And when your able to then that space will then become larger and larger till your content. But if you don’t move to the first step it can’t start… so be willing to move forward first 🙏🏽
Deleted Member Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 That’s a good question, but it could be that you’re slipping into little space because of what you’re working on isn’t fun so do you have two basic options as I see it. One) You knuckle down to the fact that this is just not a fun thing but it’s gotta get done and try and focus on the future, keeping in mind what that future looks like if you to fail to complete your tasks. Two). You try your best to make the current task cute fun! Easier said than done I know, but if you have to go all ickle anyhoo & ya can’t avoid that space then maybe you can “use it”…? 
Lord_Talion Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 My best advice is to have a switch item. That's something usually worn that triggers the brain to act a certain way. Like for me I'm usually tired when bored soni wear a watch to work which seems to help me stay awake even with the most monotonous jobs
Deleted Member Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 (Actually, I can think of a third thing Imagine that you’re home/@work alone and you’ll get a good spanking when daddy comes home and finds nothing is been done!!) Good luck and play Nice! ;-)x
Pleasemommy420 Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 I've never figured it out... But I also use it to motivate me when I'm at work
Lu**** Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 Have you tried to keep some little items hidden in your car and go to the car on a break? Or maybe try and plan a time after work to let your little side out?
Lu**** Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 I plan mine out in my head, when I'm at work and, it distracts me from everything but also helps to motivate me.
Deleted Member Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 3 hours ago, intellectual said: Find a provider that wants you safe at home instead of working. ❤️ Like a dom to provide for me so I don’t have to work? Impossible
Deleted Member Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 Won’t let me edit so I work from home.
Sq**** Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 Find a dom/man who isnt a douchebag who will let you do your work like a fkn adult..just my opinion..
Deleted Member Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 Like Squirtfordaddy said. it takes *** to live u can be a little in the bed but everyone has to be an adult sometimes too. Fetish is fun but it doesn't pay bills lol. Just saying,
Deleted Member Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 A job is a job no extra bs it's just that it's a job leave all your things at the door and concentrate on the job
ge**** Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 If you work from home, it's easy to find it hard to switch from "home" (and anything associated with home) space - whether that be something kink related or purely things like doing the housework etc - so maybe try leaving the house before it's time to start work, go for a walk or a drive for 30 mins to an hour and use that time as your "commute", during which you get your head into "work" mode - as soon as you put the key in the door you're at work, not home. . It may help focus the brain on work and not distraction.
All3n Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 You should creat a routine where you can take breaks and let yourself be in little space. At the start of the break set an timer/alarm that allows you enough time to normalize. And like it was said before have some little things so you can relax yourself,but remember to take time to normalize otherwise you won't get any thing done after your break. I understand the problem of switching to your little space at work, you focus and values switch to the point that "being an adult" and "needing *** to live" that doesn't factor because it's not the focus or value when in little space. It's like sending an actual 5 yr old to an office job, in their mind the is no focus or value to the job so why should their care. So I suggest setting up a routine to allow time for your little side on breaks with time to normalize after or set time to be little after work with time to normalize.
Lo**** Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 Depends on why you enter little space or how you leave it. If the reason is in the communication with your daddy, then you should set up some boundaries and agree on a code or ritual for starting and ending your play. Similar to that, you can put on an item, like a bracelet or necklace etc. For either situation, play or work, that reminds you where you are and what rules currently apply.
bb**** Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 Having a set time of day for your little space definitely helps. And when you take your scheduled breaks try small/quick things like a quick coloring page(physical or on your phone/tablet)
Pr**** Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 Well what works for me is if I set a time after work to have little space time and be little than I’m not so anxious to be little when ever I can cause I don’t know when I’ll be able to next
sh**** Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 8 hours ago, dallasdad said: ok i gotta know what is little space Same here
Ma**** Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 5 hours ago, mooresboro9484 said: Like Squirtfordaddy said. it takes *** to live u can be a little in the bed but everyone has to be an adult sometimes too. Fetish is fun but it doesn't pay bills lol. Just saying, Please be respectful and understand that not everyone can have 100% control of needing their little space or when they mentally “enter” their little space. This is a very insensitive answer. Please anyone else reading my comment that feels this way- keep your words to yourself.
Jo**** Posted February 12, 2023 Posted February 12, 2023 I suggest a collar or other adornment that signifies you are entering your little persona and then do not do so when you are not wearing it ever. It helps separate your psychology between the professional and the kinky
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