ey**** Posted February 14, 2023 Posted February 14, 2023 I think if someone is going to use a racial slur at you in a row then it's a bigger issue than kink. I'm not sure why you'd want to be in a relationship with someone who resorts to racial slurs during a row. and yep, physical discipline of minors is proven to be ineffective. All it does is best is either have them brought up in ***, or teaching that *** is a problem solve (or means to outlay authority) and that actually while a partner may consent to certain punishments towards them; a minor cannot consent. I think this is somewhat why it gets important not to over obsess over punishments. Especially things like "bad" punishments if the other person isn't really into that. It's ok to use play in a level which you both enjoy - because otherwise there's a mismatch here.
Deleted Member Posted February 14, 2023 Author Posted February 14, 2023 @eyemblacksheephit the nail on the head. And a racial slur is never acceptable. Never.
QXX666 Posted February 14, 2023 Posted February 14, 2023 35 minutes ago, Alex10473 said: @eyemblacksheephit the nail on the head. And a racial slur is never acceptable. Never. For some it’s a fetish/kink so it’s not never…
QXX666 Posted February 14, 2023 Posted February 14, 2023 On 2/11/2023 at 8:49 AM, RAHEEMD said: Questions in a M\s dynamic both good and bad punishments have to be apart of the dynamic for it to work it can’t only be one punishment correct? Especially for an online M\s dynamic?? Ok since you get stucked in the punishment obsession: Any dynamic should start with a conversation and agreement about how you both wanted the dynamic work. So write a contract for your submissive that will list the do and don’t to agree both of you. good punishment which we call funishment could be dish out when she’s cheeky for example punishment (bad or real) when she is bratty or doesn’t comply to a task. you could separate the two types by one being physical and the other one mental for example. your racial slur is a hard list and should be respected by her. If she doesn’t then your dynamic should end pure simple. It’s like you not respecting her hard limits, she won’t accept it. “Control her mind and her body will be yours” C*ntfucius
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