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Was I out of line if she is my 24/7 sub


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I’m in need of help I’m a dom to a sub she feels completely safe with me she give me her house keys allows me to come and go as I choose she fully submits to me. However I did come by while she was playing her new Harry Potter game I taught given her space not intruding on her game by going into our room without allowing her to know I was there so I don’t mess with her gaming head, this would be cool I txt here if was coming on app she was too into her game she did not respond, was I wrong for not allowing her to know I was present. We have a contract allowing me access to her at all times but she reacted negative to me hanging out without telling her I was present. Was I out of line if she is my 24/7 sub
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I think it's really good you have such a relationship 

But, perhaps, there is a little bit where you could understand it being unsettling that you came in, while she was there and you didn't really acknowledge that.

But obviously I understand the mindset of not wishing to distract her while she was gaming.  But you could have said hello and she probably could have got back into the game.   It feels bizarre why you would do this. 

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Harry Potter is not a game that requires 100% attention at all time like a call of duty where a distraction ruins her game. I don’t know what you think “gaming head” is but I’ve gamed all my life and distractions are part of it. I think it’s incredibly creepy that you were there and didn’t let her know. You know it was wrong or you wouldn’t have even posted the question.
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We all need time out. No one should submit 24/7 that's just going to lead to a quicker end for you both. You might not wanna hear it but mentally people just want their own time to be themselves have their own space in their own thoughts and hobbies.

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