Got some questions, need some advice?

[Ga****]

Me and someone I've met on here have been chatting for a bit and they're very new to a lot of this side of life. They know they like pleasure Dom things, but are uncertain where to start and how to research this stuff (they came off the app due to some unsavoury people), any advice on how to develop what you like, such as where to look for new ideas and how they would be?

[ey****]

if they're a "pleasure dom" then what they need to learn is whatever their "submissive" tells them to

so it all depends on what the "submissive" is into that they should learn about and that could be anything

[bi****]

There's a magazine under Community on this app, have a look there. Its a little difficult to say what to do as they have to decide what kind of things they like. But start there, its a great collection of info.

[Ga****]

19 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

if they're a "pleasure dom" then what they need to learn is whatever their "submissive" tells them to

so it all depends on what the "submissive" is into that they should learn about and that could be anything

I'm the Dom, but she's uncertain of what she likes

Any idea of where to look for inspiration for her?

[ge****]

Firstly it depends what they mean by "pleasure Dom" - it could mean many things so perhaps they need to do some introspection and self-analysis first to understand themselves and their desires.
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They could seek out a BDSM checklist to help with this (if they Google that term they'll find one) - they're basically a list of (sometimes hundreds) of BDSM/kink activities which you rate 1-5 in terms of interest - so completing one will help them get an idea of what interests them.
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Once they have done that they can seek out various on-line resources and books to learn more and then take it from there - get along to munches or kink events perhaps to observe and learn.

[Deleted Member]

Are there other sites like this either of you could make a profile on and do some exploring on those?

[Ga****]

1 hour ago, eyemblacksheep said:

if they're a "pleasure dom" then what they need to learn is whatever their "submissive" tells them to

so it all depends on what the "submissive" is into that they should learn about and that could be anything

I'm the Dom, but she doesn't have any experience with the lifestyle apart from her own interest in it, and was just hoping for some pointers so she could look into it more

[ph****]

I can agree with all the above suggestions. The finding your interest are important. There are books available to guide but be careful not to go wild in purchasing them. You can spend 100s of dollars to buy. If the person has an account on here there is good information here too. It is on the page for your profile with forms ,test and schooling.

[Ga****]

Sorry for the absolutely shocking replies, but I couldn't find how to see the replies and comments

Thank you all for your input, I honestly appreciate it

[1R****]

She needs to start watching free videos by Evie Lupine on YouTube. Great resource and free.

[li****]

Google is your friend, even Google books to read on the subject.

[Ba****]

Google, or even as someone else stated, Evie Lupine on YouTube are great resources. Maybe even just looking up a list of kinks and researching the ones they might be interested in or want more info on.

[Sa****]

Fetlife is a great website and resource. Check it out.