Nomadic Dom.

[sh****]

So as the title says I'm considering becoming a nomadic roaming Dom. I travel for work driving across the country I can be in Michigan 1 day Colorado or Florida 2 days later so like that kinda schedule i don't have much options for BDSM, so the question I have is how many people would consider a roaming Dom as a viable option? In their kink play, obviously it would be N.S.A. only, because it's difficult for anything else, I feel currently in my life this is the only way I know I could enjoy my kink and do so with others. What are y'alls thoughts on this?

[ey****]

you're going to struggle

I mean - there are and will be folk up for NSA - but especially if you have a sporadic schedule it'll be difficult : and when it comes to kink a lot of folk kinda like someone they can build with.  This doesn't mean you can't see them again and build something, but if your schedule is sporadic this might again be a struggle

what might be an idea is that if you are visiting anywhere overnight being aware of their local kink communities.  Meeting people in different areas is always good and if there are play events, then just attending boosts your chances of doing *something*

 

[Ja****]

I mean I agree with eyemblacksheep..sounds kinda difficult

[Ja****]

I hope for the best though

[Deleted Member]

It would be nice if you could find someone to travel with you a natural sub maybe

[sw****]

Just have a partner in your most common stops.

[Deleted Member]

I've tried that in the UK when it's good it's real good when it's quiet it's annoying just like when you get fakes. Onwards and upwards though.

[Ra****]

Interesting idea. The only downside is finding partners and the pre planning/ preparation between working and traveling.

[It****]

So, I'm gonna be honest, not many, if any, are interested in that type of arrangement. Sure, you'll meet people open to one night stands with kink mixed in. But you're not going to put up an ad online and get tons of options city to city. And the people you do meet will be few and far between, or aren't necessarily going to allow a stranger to perform bdsm acts with/on them.

What you're better off doing is finding local groups in the areas you travel to for work, making connections with your scheduling and time limitations clear, and getting to know people online first before just seeking a ONS in whatever city you're in. You have to remember, on most sites, men outnumber women sometimes as much as 5-1. You would need to offer something a person can't get from the other 20 guys in their inbox.

[Deleted Member]

49 minutes ago, ItsAChunky said:

So, I'm gonna be honest, not many, if any, are interested in that type of arrangement. Sure, you'll meet people open to one night stands with kink mixed in. But you're not going to put up an ad online and get tons of options city to city. And the people you do meet will be few and far between, or aren't necessarily going to allow a stranger to perform bdsm acts with/on them.

What you're better off doing is finding local groups in the areas you travel to for work, making connections with your scheduling and time limitations clear, and getting to know people online first before just seeking a ONS in whatever city you're in. You have to remember, on most sites, men outnumber women sometimes as much as 5-1. You would need to offer something a person can't get from the other 20 guys in their inbox.

I have regular sites I go to around the UK and its working quite well as I know my locations a week in advance.

[Deleted Member]

I like that kind of arrangement the week or a month possibly longer with one Dom it makes the session much better plus I don’t have to worry about all the fake Doms out there I would love to find clubs or groups but they don’t exist where I live so this works for me most of the time. Lee